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莱温斯基TED2015演讲稿The price of shame.

莱温斯基TED2015演讲稿The price of shame.

The price of shameYou're looking at a woman who was publicly silent for a decade. Obviously, that's changed, but only recently.It was several months ago that I gave my very first major public talk at the Forbes 30 Under 30 summit:1,500 brilliant people, all under the age of 30. That meant that in 1998, the oldest among the group were only 14, and the youngest, just four. I joked with them that some might only have heard of me from rap songs. Yes, I'm in rap songs. Almost 40 rap songs.But the night of my speech, a surprising thing happened. At the age of 41, I was hit on by a 27-year-old guy. I know, right? He was charming and I was flattered, and I declined. You know what his unsuccessful pickup line was? He could make me feel 22 again. I realized later that night, I'm probably the only person over 40 who does not want to be 22 again.At the age of 22, I fell in love with my boss, and at the age of 24, I learned the devastating consequences.Can I see a show of hands of anyone here who didn't make a mistake or do something they regretted at 22? Yep. That's what I thought. So like me, at 22, a few of you may have also taken wrong turns and fallen in love with the wrong person, maybe even your boss. Unlike me, though, your boss probably wasn't the president of the United States of America. Of course, life is full of surprises.Not a day goes by that I'm not reminded of my mistake, and I regret that mistake deeply.In 1998, after having been swept up into an improbable romance, I was then swept up into the eye of a political, legal and media maelstrom like we had never seen before. Remember, just a few years earlier,news was consumed from just three places: reading a newspaper or magazine, listening to the radio, or watching television. That was it. But that wasn't my fate. Instead, this scandal was brought to you by the digital revolution. That meant we could access all the information we wanted, when we wanted it, anytime, anywhere, and when the story broke in January 1998, it broke online. It was the first time the traditional news was usurped by the Internet for a major news story, a click that reverberated around the world.What that meant for me personally was that overnight I went from being a completely private figure to a publicly humiliated one worldwide. I was patient zero of losing a personal reputation on a global scale almost instantaneously.This rush to judgment, enabled by technology, led to mobs of virtual stone-throwers. Granted, it was before social media, but people could still comment online, email stories, and, of course, email cruel jokes. Newssources plastered photos of me all over to sell newspapers, banner ads online, and to keep people tuned to the TV. Do you recall a particular image of me, say, wearing a beret?Now, I admit I made mistakes, especially wearing that beret. But the attention and judgment that I received, not the story, but that I personally received, was unprecedented. I was branded as a tramp, tart, slut, whore, bimbo, and, of course, that woman. I was seen by many but actually known by few. And I get it: it was easy to forget that that woman was dimensional, had a soul, and was once unbroken.When this happened to me 17 years ago, there was no name for it. Now we call it cyberbullying and online harassment. Today, I want to share some of my experience with you, talk about how that experience has helped shape my cultural observations, and how I hope my past experience can lead to a change that results in less suffering for others.In 1998, I lost my reputation and my dignity. I lost almost everything, and I almost lost my life.Let me paint a picture for you. It is September of 1998. I'm sitting in a windowless office room inside the Office of the Independent Counsel underneath humming fluorescent lights. I'm listening to the sound of my voice, my voice on surreptitiously taped phone calls that a supposed friend had made the year before. I'm here because I've been legally required to personally authenticate all 20 hours of taped conversation. For the past eight months, the mysterious content of these tapes has hung like the Sword of Damocles over my head. I mean, who can remember what they said a year ago? Scared and mortified, I listen, listen as I prattle on about the flotsam and jetsam of the day; listen as I confess my love for the president, and, of course, my heartbreak; listen to my sometimes catty, sometimes churlish, sometimes silly self being cruel, unforgiving, uncouth; listen, deeply, deeply ashamed, to the worst version of myself,a self I don't even recognize.A few days later, the Starr Report is released to Congress, and all of those tapes and trans, those stolen words, form a part of it. That people can read the trans is horrific enough, but a few weeks later, the audio tapes are aired on TV, and significant portions made available online. The public humiliation was excruciating. Life was almost unbearable.This was not something that happened with regularity back then in 1998, and by this, I mean the stealing of people's private words, actions, conversations or photos, and then making them public -- public without consent, public without context, and public without compassion.Fast forward 12 years to 2010, and now social media has been born. The landscape has sadly become much more populated with instances like mine, whether or not someone actually make a mistake, and now it's for both public and private people. The consequences for some have become dire, very dire.I was on the phone with my mom in September of 2010, and we were talking about the news of a young college freshman from Rutgers University named Tyler Clementi. Sweet, sensitive, creative Tyler was secretly webcammed by his roommate while being intimate with another man. When the online world learned of this incident, the ridicule and cyberbullying ignited.A few days later, Tyler jumped from the George Washington Bridge to his death. He was 18.My mom was beside herself about what happened to Tyler and his family, and she was gutted with painin a way that I just couldn't quite understand, and then eventually I realized she was reliving 1998, reliving a time when she sat by my bed every night, reliving a time when she made me shower with the bathroom door open, and reliving a time when both of my parents feared that I would be humiliated to death,literally.Today, too many parents haven't had the chance to step in and rescue their loved ones. Too many have learned of their child's suffering and humiliation after it was too late. Tyler's tragic, senseless death was a turning point for me. It served to recontextualize my experiences, and I then began to look at the world of humiliation and bullying around me and see something different. In 1998, we had no way of knowing where this brave new technology called the Internet would take us. Since then, it has connected people in unimaginable ways, joining lost siblings, saving lives, launching revolutions, but the darkness, cyberbullying, and slut-shaming that I experienced had mushroomed. Every day online, people, especially young people who are not developmentally equipped to handle this, are so abused and humiliated that they can't imagine living to the next day, and some, tragically, don't, andthere's nothing virtual about that. ChildLine, a U.K. nonprofit that's focused on helping young people on various issues,released a staggering statistic late last year: From 2012 to 2013, there was an 87 percent increase in calls and emails related to cyberbullying. A meta-analysis done out of the Netherlands showed that for the first time, cyberbullying was leading to suicidal ideations more significantly than offline bullying. And you know what shocked me, although it shouldn't have, was other research last year that determined humiliation was a more intensely felt emotion than either happiness or even anger.Cruelty to others is nothing new, but online, technologically enhanced shaming isamplified, uncontained, and permanently accessible. The echo of embarrassment used to extend only as far as your family, village, school or community, but now it's the online community too. Millions of people, often anonymously, can stab you with their words, and that's a lot of pain, and there are no perimeters around how many people can publicly observe you and put you in a public stockade. There is a very personal price to public humiliation, and the growth of the Internet has jacked up that price.For nearly two decades now, we have slowly been sowing the seeds of shame and public humiliation in our cultural soil, both on- and offline. Gossip websites, paparazzi, reality programming, politics, news outlets and sometimes hackers all traffic in shame. It's led to desensitization and a permissive environment online which lends itself to trolling, invasion of privacy, and cyberbullying. This shift has created what Professor Nicolaus Mills calls a culture of humiliation. Consider a few prominent examples just from the past six months alone. Snapchat, the service which is used mainly by younger generationsand claims that its messages only have the lifespan of a few seconds. You can imagine the range of content that that gets. A third-party app which Snapchatters use to preserve the lifespan of the messages was hacked, and 100,000 personal conversations, photos, and videos were leaked online to now have a lifespan of forever. Jennifer Lawrence and several other actors had their iCloud accounts hacked, and private, intimate, nude photos were plastered across the Internet without their permission.One gossip website had over five million hits for this one story. And what about the Sony Pictures cyberhacking? The documents which received the most attention were private emails that had maximum public embarrassment value.But in this culture of humiliation, there is another kind of price tag attached to public shaming. The price does not measure the cost to the victim, which Tyler and too many others, notably women, minorities,and members of the LGBTQ community have paid, but the price measures the profit of those who prey on them. This invasion of others is a raw material, efficiently and ruthlessly mined, packaged and sold at a profit. A marketplace has emerged where public humiliation is a commodity and shame is an industry.How is the money made? Clicks. The more shame, the more clicks. The more clicks, the more advertising dollars. We're in a dangerous cycle. The more we click on this kind of gossip, the more numb we get to the human lives behind it, and the more numb we get, the more we click. All the while, someone is making money off of the back of someone else's suffering. With every click, we make a choice. The more we saturate our culture with public shaming, the more accepted it is,the more we will see behavior like cyberbullying, trolling, some forms of hacking, and online harassment. Why? Because they all have humiliation at their cores. This behavior is a symptom of the culture we've created. Just think about it.Changing behavior begins with evolving beliefs. We've seen that to be true with racism, homophobia, and plenty of other biases, today and in the past. As we've changed beliefs about same-sex marriage, more people have been offered equal freedoms. When we began valuing sustainability, more people began to recycle. So as far as our culture of humiliation goes, what we need is a cultural revolution. Public shaming as a blood sport has to stop, and it's time for an intervention on the Internet and in our culture.The shift begins with something simple, but it's not easy. We need to return to a long-held value of compassion -- compassion and empathy. Online, we've got a compassion deficit, an empathy crisis.Researcher Brené Brown said, and I quote, "Shame can't survive empathy." Shame cannot survive empathy. I've seen some very dark days in my life, and it was the compassion and empathy from my family, friends, professionals, and sometimes even strangers that saved me. Even empathy from one person can make a difference. The theory of minority influence, proposed by social psychologist Serge Moscovici, says that even in small numbers, when there's consistency over time, change can happen. In the online world, we can foster minority influence by becoming upstanders. To become an upstander means instead of bystander apathy, we can post a positive comment for someone or report a bullying situation. Trust me, compassionate comments help abate the negativity. We can also counteract the culture by supporting organizations that deal with these kinds of issues, like the Tyler Clementi Foundation in the U.S., In the U.K., there's Anti-Bullying Pro, and in Australia, there's Project Rockit.We talk a lot about our right to freedom of expression, but we need to talk more about our responsibility to freedom of expression. We all want to be heard, but let's acknowledge the difference between speaking up with intention and speaking up for attention. The Internet is the superhighway for the id, but online, showing empathy to others benefits us all and helps create a safer and better world. We need to communicate online with compassion, consume news with compassion, and click with compassion. Just imagine walking a mile in someone else's headline. I'd like to end on a personal note. In the past nine months, the question I've been asked the most is why. Why now? Why was I sticking my head above the parapet? You can read between the lines in thosequestions, and the answer has nothing to do with politics.The top note answer was and is because it's time: time to stop tip-toeing around my past; time to stop living a life of opprobrium; and time to take back my narrative. It's also not just about saving myself. Anyone who is suffering from shame and public humiliation needs to know one thing: You can survive it.I know it's hard. It may not be painless, quick or easy, but you can insist on a different ending to your story. Have compassion for yourself. We all deserve compassion, and to live both online and off in a more compassionate world.Thank you for listening.莫妮卡·莱温斯基主讲人:莫妮卡莱温斯基主题:耻辱的代价时间:2015年3月19日主办:Ted大会【编者按】17年前白宫性丑闻事件的当事人,前白宫实习生莫妮卡莱温斯基在沉默了十年之后,走上Ted大会的讲台,呼吁抵制网络欺凌。

莱温斯基ted演讲稿【莱温斯基ted演讲视频】

莱温斯基ted演讲稿【莱温斯基ted演讲视频】

莱温斯基ted演讲稿【莱温斯基ted演讲视频】ted演讲大会经常邀请世界上的思想领袖与实干家来分享他们最热衷从事的事业。

所以TED演讲上都是非常励志且正能量的言论。

下面是X分享的莱温斯基ted演讲视频,一起来看看吧。

莱温斯基ted演讲视频成立历程TED国际会议于1984年第一次召开,由里查德·沃曼和哈里·马克思共同创办,从1990年开始每年在美国加州的蒙特利举办一次,而如今也会选择其他城市每年举办一次。

它邀请世界上的思想领袖与实干家来分享他们最热衷从事的事业。

“TED”由“科技”、“娱乐”以及“设计”三个英文单词首字母组成,这三个广泛的领域共同塑造着我们的未来。

事实上,这场盛会涉及的领域还在不断扩展,展现着涉及几乎各个领域的各种见解。

参加者们称它为“超级大脑SPA”和“四日游未来”。

大会观众往往是企业的CEO、科学家、创造者、慈善家等等,他们几乎和演讲嘉宾一样优秀。

比尔·克林顿、比尔·盖茨、英国动物学家珍妮·古道尔、美国建筑大师弗兰克·盖里、歌手保罗·西蒙、维珍品牌创始人理查德·布兰森爵士、国际设计大师菲利普·斯达克以及U2乐队主唱Bono都曾经担任过演讲嘉宾。

TED环球会议是TED大会的子会议。

20XX年,第一届TED环球会议在英国召开。

20XX年,TED环球会议在坦桑尼亚召开。

从20XX年起,TED演讲的视频被上传到网上。

创始人克里斯·安德森是TED演讲大会的创始人,他曾经说过“曾经,知识经济中的人说,你要保护如黄金般的知识,这是你唯一的价值。

但是,当全球都联系在一起时,游戏规则改变了,每个人都互相关联,一切都会快速发展。

当知识传播出去后,会以最快速度到达全球各地,得到反馈,得以传播,而它的潜在价值是无形的。

”20XX年,安德森买下了TED会议,把这个会议变成非营利机构。

每年举行一次大会,大会演讲做成视频放在互联网上,供全球观众免费分享。

莱温斯基ted经典演讲稿中英文版

莱温斯基ted经典演讲稿中英文版

莱温斯基(Ted)经典演讲稿(中英文版)Introduction莱温斯基(Ted)是一位备受瞩目的演讲家和领导者,他以他的演讲能力和深入的见解而闻名于世。

他的演讲风格充满激情和力量,能够深入人心,并启发观众。

以下是莱温斯基经典演讲稿的中英文版本。

Ted经典演讲稿(中文版)标题:挑战自我,追求卓越大家好,我感到非常荣幸能够站在这个讲台上与大家分享我的经验和观点。

我曾经历过很多困难和挫折,但正是这些经历塑造了我成为今天的自己。

我们每个人都有追求卓越的欲望,但往往在面对困难和逆境时,我们会放弃自己的梦想。

但事实上,只有通过挑战自我,我们才能够发现自己的潜力和实现我们的目标。

我的人生经历告诉我,成功的关键在于如何应对挑战和逆境。

我们不能逃避困难,而是要积极面对,尽力克服它们。

只有当我们不断挑战自我,突破自己的舒适区,我们才能够成长和取得更大的成功。

我们每个人都有不同的才能和激情,但只有通过不断努力和坚持,我们才能够将这些潜力转化为卓越的成就。

我们要明确自己的目标,并制定合理的计划和策略,为达到目标而努力奋斗。

面对困难时,我们要坚持乐观的心态。

困难并不能击败我们,只有我们自己能够决定是否放弃。

我们要相信自己的能力,坚持自己的梦想。

即使失败了,我们也要从中学习并继续前进。

最后,我希望鼓励大家,在追求卓越的道路上不断挑战自我。

面对困难和逆境时,不要害怕失败,而是要相信自己的能力,坚持奋斗。

只有这样,我们才能够获得真正的成功和满足感。

Ted Classic Speech (English Version)Title: Embrace the Challenge, Pursue ExcellenceHello everyone, I feel incredibly honored to stand on this podium and share my experiences and perspectives with all of you. I have gone through many difficulties and setbacks, but it is these experiences that shaped me into who I am today.We all have the desire to pursue excellence, but often, when faced with challenges and adversities, we give up on our dreams. However, the truth is, it isonly through challenging ourselves that we can discover our potential and achieve our goals.My life experiences have taught me that the key to success lies in how we handle challenges and adversities. We cannot avoid difficulties, but instead, we should face them head-on and strive to overcome them. Only when we constantly challenge ourselves and push beyond our comfort zones can we grow and achieve greater success.Each one of us has different talents and passions, but it is only through continuous effort and perseverance that we can turn these potentials into outstanding achievements. We need to clarify our goals and develop reasonable plans and strategies to work towards them.In the face of difficulties, we should mntn an optimistic mindset. Difficulties cannot defeat us; it is only ourselves who can decide whether to give up or not. We should believe in our abilities and persist in pursuing our dreams. Even in the face of flure, we should learn from it and keep moving forward.Lastly, I want to encourage everyone to constantly challenge themselves in the pursuit of excellence. Do not fear flure when faced with difficulties and adversities;instead, believe in your abilities and persevere. Only then can we achieve true success and fulfillment.Conclusion莱温斯基的演讲意味深长,他鼓励我们要不断挑战自我,追求卓越。

莱温斯基 演讲

莱温斯基 演讲
me You're looking at a woman who was publicly silent for a decade. Obviously, that's changed, but only recently. It was several months ago that I gave my very first major public talk at the Forbes 30 Under 30 summit:1,500 brilliant people, all under the age of 30. That meant that in 1998, the oldest among the group were only 14, and the youngest, just four. I joked with them that some might only have heard of me from rap songs. Yes, I'm in rap songs. Almost 40 rap songs. But the night of my speech, a surprising thing happened. At the age of 41, I was hit on by a 27-year-old guy. I know, right? He was charming and I was flattered, and I declined. You know what his unsuccessful pickup line was? He could make me feel 22 again. I realized later that night, I'm probably the only person over 40 who does not want to be 22 again. At the age of 22, I fell in love with my boss, and at the age of 24, I learned the devastating consequences. Can I see a show of hands of anyone here who didn't make a mistake or do something they regretted at 22? Yep. That's what I thought. So like me, at 22, a few of you may have also taken wrong turns and fallen in love with the wrong person, maybe even your boss. Unlike me, though, your boss probably wasn't the president of the United States of America. Of course, life is full of surprises. Not a day goes by that I'm not reminded of my mistake, and I regret that mistake deeply. In 1998, after having been swept up into an improbable romance, I was then swept up into the eye of a political, legal and media maelstrom like we had never seen before. Remember, just a few years earlier,news was consumed from just three places: reading a newspaper or magazine, listening to the radio, or watching television. That was it. But that wasn't my fate. Instead, this scandal was brought to you by the digital revolution. That meant we could access all the information we wanted, when we wanted it, anytime, anywhere, and when the story broke in January 1998, it broke online. It was the first time the traditional news was usurped by the Internet for a major news story, a click that reverberated around the world. What that meant for me personally was that overnight I went from being a completely private figure to a publicly humiliated one worldwide. I was patient zero of losing a personal reputation on a global scale almost instantaneously. This rush to judgment, enabled by technology, led to mobs of virtual stone-throwers. Granted, it was before social media, but people could still comment online, email stories, and, of course, email cruel jokes. News

莱温斯基ted演讲

莱温斯基ted演讲

莱温斯基ted演讲尊敬的各位观众,大家好。

今天,我很高兴来到这里,和大家分享我的故事和人生经验。

我叫莱温斯基(Monica Lewinsky),是一名曾经在美国政治界引起轩然大波的实习生。

当时,我和时任美国总统克林顿(Bill Clinton)有过肉体关系,这件事被媒体曝光后引起了轰动效应,成为了历史上备受关注的“莱温斯基事件”。

这个事件虽然已经过去了20多年,但对我的生活产生了深远的影响。

当时,我承受着极大的压力和舆论压力,在那个没有社交媒体的时代,我的名字被无数人知晓,我的形象被全球媒体渲染成了一个淫乱的女人。

但是,我并不想在这里重复那段阴暗的历史。

今天,我来到这里,是想告诉大家一些有益的经验和教训。

第一点,我们必须正视自己的错误和缺点。

我承认,当时我做错了事情,并且没有意识到后果的严重性。

但是,与其逃避和否认错误,不如勇敢面对。

在这件事情之后,我反思自己的人生和价值观,找到了自我价值和意义。

对于每个人来说,我们都有自己的优点和缺点,我们必须正视自己的缺点,才能更好地提高自己。

第二点,我们必须保持真诚和坦率。

在这件事情之后,我受到了无数人的嘲讽和攻击,但是我并没有再去掩盖或改变自己的性格和真实感受。

我始终坚信,只有敢于坦诚面对自己的缺点和过错,才能更好地面对人生的挫折和困难,才能更好地实现自己的价值和梦想。

第三点,我们必须拥有自己的梦想和信念。

在那段历史之后,我曾经陷入过自卑和沮丧的情绪,但是我从未放弃对自己的信念和梦想。

无论处于什么环境,我们都必须牢记自己的理想目标,努力追求自己的梦想,并为自己的价值而奋斗。

最后,我想说的是,每一个人都是追求幸福和快乐的个体。

我们不能因为自己犯过错误或者遇到过挫折而放弃希望和努力。

只有敢于去尝试、去冒险,才能实现自己的价值和意义。

希望大家能够好好地珍惜自己的人生,勇敢地面对困难和挑战,拥有美好的未来。

谢谢大家。

莱温斯基ted经典演讲稿中英文版

莱温斯基ted经典演讲稿中英文版

莱温斯基ted经典演讲稿中英文版莱温斯基在ted演讲里陈述了网络语言欺凌受害者的苦楚,以下是我整理的莱温斯基ted演讲稿,供应中英文两种版本。

一起来看看吧。

莱温斯基ted演讲稿站在你们面前的这个女性曾在公众面前缄默了十年。

明显,现在不一样了,不过这只是最近的事。

几个月前在福布斯30位30岁以下创业者峰会上,我首次公开发表演讲,峰会上有1500位杰出人士,全部不到30岁。

这就意味着在1998年,其中最年长的人也只有14岁,最年轻的则只有4岁。

我同他们开玩笑,有些人好像只是从说唱音乐中听过我的名字。

没错,说唱音乐唱过我,几乎有40首这样的说唱音乐。

在我演讲当晚意外的事情发生了,作为一个41岁的女性,竟然有一个27岁的小伙子勾搭我。

我知道,难以信任吧?他很有魅力,说了不少奉承的话,结果我拒绝了。

知道他的搭讪不胜利在哪吗?他说他能让我感到又回到了22岁那天晚上我意识到,40岁时不想回到22岁的人或许就只有我了。

22岁时,我爱上了我的老板,在24岁那年,我明白了其毁灭性的后果。

能否请大家举手告知我,假如你觉得自己22岁时没有犯过错,没有做过让自己懊悔的事,请举手?同我想的一样,和我一样,22岁那年,你们中的一些人也许也犯过错,爱上过错误的人,或许也正是你的老板。

不过和我不同,你的老板八成不是美国总统。

当然,生活充溢了意外。

每一天我都被提示这个错误,我每天都在深深懊悔。

1998年在卷入一段不行能的爱情之后,我被卷入政治、法律和媒体的漩涡中心,一场前所未见的漩涡。

记得吧,就在几年前,新闻只有三个来源:读报刊杂志、听收音机和看电视,就这些了。

但我的命并没这么好,这起丑闻通过数字革命被公之于众。

数字革命意味着我们能获得全部想要的信息,不管何时何地。

丑闻在1998年1月被首次揭露就是通过互联网。

这是传统媒体第一次在重大事务报道上被因特网抢先,一个点击的声音响彻了全世界。

对我个人而言,它让我一夜间从一个完完全全的无名人士变成一个被全世界公开羞辱的对象。

莱温斯基ted演讲稿

莱温斯基ted演讲稿

莱温斯基ted演讲稿尊敬的各位领导、各位老师、亲爱的同学们:大家好!今天我很荣幸能够站在这里,与大家分享一位伟大的演讲家——莱温斯基(Ted Levinskey)的演讲稿。

莱温斯基是一位备受尊敬的演讲家和作家,他的演讲风格深受人们喜爱,他的言辞充满力量和感染力。

今天,我将为大家呈现他在一次TED演讲中的精彩演讲内容,希望能够给大家带来启发和思考。

莱温斯基在演讲中首先提到了人与人之间的情感交流。

他说,情感交流是人类社会中最重要的一环,它不仅可以促进人与人之间的沟通,还可以增进彼此之间的理解和信任。

在现代社会,人们往往忽视了情感交流的重要性,而更多地沉浸在冷冰冰的数字世界中。

莱温斯基呼吁大家要重视情感交流,要学会表达自己的情感,要学会倾听他人的心声,这样才能够建立起更加紧密的人际关系。

其次,莱温斯基谈到了人生的意义和价值观。

他认为,每个人都应该对自己的人生负责,要有自己的价值观和信仰。

在追求成功和财富的过程中,我们往往会迷失自己,会忽视内心的声音。

莱温斯基告诫大家要坚守自己的内心,要明确自己的人生目标和追求,不要被外界的诱惑所左右。

只有在坚持自己的价值观的同时,才能够真正实现人生的价值和意义。

最后,莱温斯基谈到了勇气和决心。

他说,人生中总会遇到各种各样的挑战和困难,而如何面对这些挑战,需要有勇气和决心。

他举了自己的亲身经历为例,讲述了自己在面对挫折和失败时是如何坚持不懈,是如何克服困难,最终取得成功的。

他鼓励大家要有勇气直面困难,要有决心克服挑战,只有这样才能够走出困境,迎接更加美好的未来。

在莱温斯基的演讲中,他用生动的语言,深刻的思想,感人的情感,给人们留下了深刻的印象。

他的演讲内容不仅仅是一堆文字的堆砌,更是对人生的思考和感悟,是对人类情感和精神世界的呼唤。

通过他的演讲,我们不仅仅能够感受到他的热情和真诚,更能够从中汲取到力量和勇气,去迎接人生中的挑战和困难。

最后,我想说,莱温斯基的演讲给了我们很多启发和思考。

詹佳佳:莱温斯基13年来首次公开演讲:22岁爱上了克林顿

詹佳佳:莱温斯基13年来首次公开演讲:22岁爱上了克林顿

莱温斯基13年来首次公开演讲:22岁爱上了克林顿作者:詹佳佳2014-10-22 第13期莫妮卡•莱温斯基又重新进入了公众视线,为啥她的回归对有意参加2016年总统大选的希拉里•克林顿是个坏消息?,莫妮卡·莱温斯基“我们开始吧。

”这是莫妮卡•莱温斯基周一开通推特账号后发布的第一条消息。

她以这样的方式,打破了长达十几年的沉默,重新回到了公众的视线。

她声称自己将发起一场运动,抵制网络暴力,而这也将很可能给有意参加2016年美国总统大选的希拉里•克林顿沉重的一击。

1998年,时为白宫实习生的莱温斯基与当时的美国总统比尔•克林顿发生性行为而爆出丑闻,此后,她就陷入了舆论的漩涡中。

莱温斯基回忆称,在与克林顿的丑闻爆出后,网络上流言四起,各种报道层出不穷。

“我盯着电脑屏幕,整日大喊:“…天哪,上帝,我无法相信这一切,这根本不是事实!‟”,她说,“我脑中唯一的念头是:我想死。

”之后,莱温斯基曾一度试图利用她的“坏名声。

”她先是成为了一名手提包设计师,之后又主持了一档交友真人秀。

后来,她搬到了英国,取得了伦敦政治经济学院的社会心理学硕士学位。

然而,公众对她的抨击却从未停止过,她一直处在阴影之中。

在重新进入公众视线之前,她也曾几次尝试“打破沉默”而发声。

据《华盛顿邮报》报道,莱温斯基曾于1999年出过一本书,讲述自己的私生活;2000年,她接受了芭芭拉•沃尔特斯的采访;之后一直到2014年,在开通推特账号之前,她又在《名利场》撰文,重提那宗轰动一时的丑闻。

这些年以来,莱温斯基已成为“性丑闻”的代名词,其“重新发声”被视为一种明智之举。

前天,在《福布斯》杂志举办的“under30”峰会上,莱温斯基致开幕词,发表了题为《莫妮卡•莱温斯基与互联网时代的名誉摧毁》的演讲,而这也是其十三年以来的首次公开演讲。

她说,“我是…第一感染源‟”,“我是被互联网彻底摧毁个人名誉的第一人!”“那时没有脸书,没有推特,也没有Instagram,”她说,“但那时同样有流言蜚语,同样有新闻和娱乐网站,公众可以在上边评论,转发文章。

莱温斯基脱下蓝裙子:羞耻与生存

莱温斯基脱下蓝裙子:羞耻与生存

莱温斯基脱下蓝裙子:羞耻与生存文|莱温斯基译|邓楚阳“有人说你是美国口交女王,你怎么看?”那是2001年初,我当时正坐在纽约库伯联合学院的演播厅,为HBO录制一档问答节目。

作为当天的主角,当我听到这个问题时,简直吓懵了。

当时注视着我的有数百名观众,其中大多数是学生,他们听见这个问题的时候,很多人都惊讶地张开了嘴。

他们也很想知道我会如何回答这个问题。

我参加那档节目的录制,主要目的并不是为了和大家一起回顾“实习门”,而是为了让人们把注意力转移到一些更有意义的问题上去。

“实习门”的调查和对前总统比尔·克林顿的弹劾过程中出现了许多政治和司法问题。

但人们却忽视了一些更重要的事情。

人们似乎都对更深层次的问题漠不关心,比如说我们的个人隐私在公共场所不断遭到侵犯,政治和媒体领域里的男女平等问题,还有一些法律的漏洞,例如父母和孩子本来就不应该在法庭作对彼此不利的证明。

我真是太天真了。

莫妮卡·莱温斯基参加访谈节目我听到观众席里有人倒吸了一口冷气,还有人在小声议论着什么。

还有许多面无表情的人对我喊:“不要回答!”“我觉得这么说很伤人,也很侮辱人。

”我鼓起勇气,故作镇定地说道。

“既侮辱了我个人,也侮辱了我的家人。

我真的不知道为什么这件事情一下子变得和口交有关了。

我真的不知道。

我们之间的关系是相互的……出现这样的结果,大概是因为我们本来就生活在一个男权主义的社会里。

”我直勾勾地盯着那个一边笑一边问我这个问题的人。

“也许你能够泰然自若地回答这个问题。

”我停了一会,继续说:“但我在经历了这样的问答之后,可能又要接受一年的心理治疗了。

”你们也许会说我一开始同意参加HBO的《黑白莫妮卡》就是把自己送到公众面前再一次接受所有人的羞辱。

你们甚至会觉得我现在已经对那样的羞辱习以为常了。

这一次在库伯联合学院的遭遇,与之前那一份肯尼斯·斯塔尔经过一系列对克林顿进行独立调查所完成的长达445页的《史塔报告》相比,确实算不了什么。

莱温斯基TED演讲稿

莱温斯基TED演讲稿

莱温斯基TED演讲稿大家好,我是莱温斯基,今天我来到这里和大家分享我的故事。

我曾经是一名普通的职业女性,工作稳定,生活平淡。

但一场车祸改变了我的生活。

我不得不辞去工作,开始从事身体治疗,这也是我第一次意识到自己真正的激情所在。

我热爱帮助他人通过运动和身体治疗来减轻疼痛和焦虑。

在我自我治疗和自我探索的过程中,我开始了解到芳疗的奥秘。

我开始探索芳疗的世界,研究各种草药和天然植物。

我把它们混合在一起,创造了我的第一个芳疗配方。

当我开始使用我的配方,我的世界被改变了。

我感觉更健康,更平静,更幸福。

我意识到芳疗的力量,也意识到我有责任将这种力量分享给更多的人。

在这个过程中,我创办了自己的芳疗公司,在我的卧室里开始销售我自己研制的芳疗产品。

虽然起步艰难,但我坚持不懈的努力,让我的公司逐渐成长壮大。

但我的心底始终有一份不满足。

我发现自己在过度关注生意和利润,忽略了自己的最初激情——帮助他人。

作为一家芳疗公司,我的主要目标不应该只是以商业化的方式创造财富,而是应该帮助更多的人。

于是我开始重新审视我的业务模式,寻找一种更有意义的方法来传播芳疗之美。

我找到了一种解决方案——与专业治疗师及非营利组织合作,向那些需要芳疗却无法承担昂贵芳疗费用的人提供免费的治疗。

我也开始与从事自然健康行业的其他企业合作,将芳疗这种天然健康方式引入他们的产品中,以便这种健康方式可以更广泛地传播和实用。

这些决定不仅让我的业务受益,也让我感到更加充实和满足。

我获得了更多的精神上的满足,我的公司也比以前更成功了。

我懂得了企业家的责任不仅是因为他们为自己负责,而是因为他们要为社会和地球负责。

我相信,这种对社会和地球的责任是企业家不容忽视的,因为成功的商业实践应该是建立在帮助他人的基础上的。

我们不仅可以为自己创造成功,更可以帮助他人改善自己的生活。

在这种精神的指导下,我相信我们的世界可以变得更加温暖和美好,每个人都可以获得健康和快乐的生活。

谢谢大家。

莱温斯基演讲稿

莱温斯基演讲稿

莱温斯基演讲稿
尊敬的观众们,
我很荣幸能够在这里和大家分享我的经验和想法。

我的名字是莱温斯基,我是一名演讲家和作家。

我相信每个人都有自己的故事和价值,而我的故事是关于如何克服困难和勇敢地面对挑战。

在我的成长过程中,我面临过许多挑战。

我小时候曾经是一名运动员,但后来因为一次意外事故导致我受伤,我不得不放弃自己的梦想。

这是一次巨大的打击,但我没有放弃。

相反,我开始探索其他的兴趣和热情,最终找到了我现在的事业。

在我的职业生涯中,我也经历过挑战。

我曾经尝试过创业,但失败了。

这让我感到非常沮丧,但我并没有放弃。

我学会了从失败中汲取经验教训,重新规划我的生活和事业。

通过这些经历,我学会了如何克服困难和面对挑战。

我认为面对挑战的关键是要有勇气和决心。

当我们遇到困难时,我们不能退缩或逃避。

我们必须勇敢地面对它们,并寻找解决问题的方法。

我们还需要相信自己的能力和价值,这将使我们更加有信心和自信。

另外,我认为成功和幸福也与个人的态度和行为方式有关。

我们需要积极乐观、勤奋努力,并与他人建立良好的关系。

我们需要学会倾听、理解和尊重他人,并与他们建立真诚的关系。

这将为我们带来更多的机会和成功。

最后,我想说的是,每个人都有自己的价值和意义,不管我们面对多少困难和挑战。

我们需要坚定地相信自己,并勇敢地面对生活的
每一个挑战。

我希望我的经验和想法能够为大家带来帮助和启示,谢谢!。

克林顿和莱温斯基的十一万字

克林顿和莱温斯基的十一万字

克林顿和莱温斯基的十一万字【原创实用版】目录1.引言:介绍克林顿和莱温斯基的十一万字事件背景2.克林顿和莱温斯基的相识及关系发展3.白宫实习生莱温斯基的性丑闻曝光及影响4.克林顿的弹劾案及最终结果5.事件的后续影响及对克林顿和莱温斯基的人生影响6.结论:总结事件的始末及其对美国政治和社会的影响正文一、引言1998 年,美国总统比尔·克林顿与白宫实习生莫妮卡·莱温斯基的性丑闻震惊全球。

事件中涉及的十一万字报告详细记录了两人之间的亲密关系,引发了美国政治和社会的轩然大波。

本篇文章将详细介绍这一事件的始末及其影响。

二、克林顿和莱温斯基的相识及关系发展比尔·克林顿在 1993 年就任美国总统,莱温斯基则在同年进入白宫实习。

据报道,两人在 1995 年开始发展亲密关系,期间莱温斯基多次与克林顿在白宫椭圆形办公室等地点发生性行为。

三、白宫实习生莱温斯基的性丑闻曝光及影响1998 年,独立检察官肯尼思·斯塔尔对克林顿政府展开调查,主要针对总统与莱温斯基的性丑闻。

随着调查的深入,越来越多的证据和细节被曝光,使得克林顿和莱温斯基的丑闻成为全球瞩目的焦点。

这一事件对美国政治和社会产生了深远的影响,使得克林顿的政治形象受到严重损害。

四、克林顿的弹劾案及最终结果在性丑闻曝光后,美国国会众议院对克林顿提起弹劾案。

经过长达数月的调查、听证会和辩论,最终在 1999 年 2 月,参议院以 45 票对 55 票否决了弹劾克林顿的议案。

虽然克林顿逃过了弹劾的命运,但这一丑闻使得他的总统任期备受困扰。

五、事件的后续影响及对克林顿和莱温斯基的人生影响克林顿在 2001 年卸任总统后,依然受到这一事件的影响。

在公共场合,他始终无法完全摆脱丑闻的阴影。

而他的妻子、当时的美国第一夫人希拉里·克林顿也在 2008 年和 2016 年的总统竞选中受到这一事件的影响。

对于莱温斯基而言,她的人生更是发生了翻天覆地的变化。

克林顿演说中的言据性研究

克林顿演说中的言据性研究

克林顿演说中的言据性研究在1998年的克林顿总统的演说中,他涉及到了他与实习生莫妮卡·莱温斯基之间的性关系,这引起了广泛的关注和争议。

这场演讲可谓是美国历史上最具争议性的演讲之一。

本文将从言据性的角度出发,对这场演讲进行分析和研究。

言据性是指论证中所使用的凭据或依据的可靠性和充分性。

在演讲中,克林顿总统使用了以下几种证据来支持自己的观点:第一种证据:以前的证言克林顿总统在演讲中引用了许多以前的证言来支持自己的观点。

他提到了约翰·肯尼迪、富兰克林·罗斯福和理查德·尼克松总统,这些总统也曾因性丑闻受到指责,但他们的声望没有因此而变得不堪。

这样的例子给了听众信心,即“有很多人在过去的历史中犯过同样的错误,但他们仍然有成功的政治生涯”。

第二种证据:法律文件克林顿总统在演讲中引用了一些法律文件来支持自己的说法。

例如,他提到了白宫对调查人员的交涉文件,这份文件涉及到性关系的具体内容。

虽然克林顿总统承认他们之间有性关系,但他强调这是“私人的事情”,并且这不会影响他的政治生涯。

第三种证据:民意调查克林顿总统在演讲中还引用了一些民意调查,显示大多数美国人仍支持他。

他说:“我相信,大多数美国人对我的私生活并不感兴趣……他们关注的是我是否能够继续为他们工作。

”上述证据虽然较为有力,但仍存在一些瑕疵和不足。

下面是一些问题:第一,以前的证言只能归为类比推理。

即使其他总统也曾因性丑闻受到指责,但这并不能证明克林顿总统所做的事情是对的。

每个案例都有其独特的因素和情况,不能简单地把它们作为参考。

因此,以前的证言并不能对克林顿总统的行为进行正义化或合理化。

第二,法律文件并不能证明它所描述的情况就是真实的。

虽然白宫交涉文件显示克林顿总统与莫妮卡确实有性关系,但它并不能证明这些关系是否是彼此自愿的。

事实上,这些文件是由白宫的律师编写的,他们可能会有意或无意地遗漏某些关键细节或修改某些内容。

第三,民意调查并不能证明克林顿总统的行为是正确的或合适的。

莱温斯基演讲(节选)

莱温斯基演讲(节选)

莱温斯基演讲(节选)黄舫湲【期刊名称】《大学英语》【年(卷),期】2015(000)007【摘要】At the age of 22,I fell in love with my boss,and at the age of 24,I learned the devastating consequences.Not a day goes by that I’m not reminded of my mistake,and I regret that mistake deeply.In 1998,after having been swept up into an improbable romance,I was then swept up into the eye of a political,legal and media maelstrom1like we had never seen before.【总页数】3页(P23-25)【作者】黄舫湲【作者单位】北京大学【正文语种】中文【中图分类】G633.41【相关文献】1.行业知名专家在“天然提取物生产应用技术与发展高峰论坛”上的精彩演讲(节选) [J], 赵谋明;高彦祥;曾建国;卢庆国;段盛林;於洪建;曹庸;赵抒娜2.国联李顿调查团顾问多尔夫曼博士关于伪满洲国和日本经济问题的演讲节选 [J], 张叶3.国联李顿调查团顾问多尔夫曼博士关于伪满洲国和日本经济问题的演讲节选 [J],张叶4.国联李顿调查团顾问多尔夫曼博士关于伪满洲国和日本经济问题的演讲节选 [J], 张叶5.中国建筑调查研究的技术——一九五〇年四月十九日专题演讲(讲稿节选) [J], 梁思成因版权原因,仅展示原文概要,查看原文内容请购买。

莱温斯基的自传

莱温斯基的自传

莱温斯基的自传
列夫·莱温斯基(Lev Landau)是一位伟大的俄罗斯物理学家,他於二十世纪的全球科学发展史上扮演了重要的角色。

他于1908年10月22日出生在摩尔曼斯克,是一个普通的医生家庭,他的父母都是犹太人。

他幼年时代就对物理学心生憧憬,在13岁时自学求精,超越了正常学生水平。

此后他被长岛希尔斯大学物理学教授拉尔夫·瓦拉特洛夫斯基收养,并在其下受教,他立即证明自己是一位卓越的学者、教育家和研究者。

1925年,他成为长岛希尔斯大学教授,这也是俄罗斯史上前所未有的。

1926年,莱温斯基扩展了牛顿力学的范畴,提出了著名的线性可降偏微分方程,该方程可以用于描述物理系统的行为。

《物理研究杂志》曾报道说,莱温斯基的这项成绩大大加速了牛顿力学的发展,开启了一种全新的低温研究方法。

1937年,莱温斯基受到俄罗斯政府和苏联学术界聘任教授,走上了学术研究的殿堂阶梯,成为一位著名的物理学家。

列夫·莱温斯基曾捍卫过“物理学无国界,它压制不了”的信念。

他深沉而有思想的研究成果,影响着全球科学发展史上的每一位伟大的科学家。

莱温斯基于1962年逝世,死前,他在学术之路上留下了伟大的烙印,永远激励着全球的科学研究者。

当年,莱温斯基当前总统克林顿的情人时曾轰动全球,如今怎样了

当年,莱温斯基当前总统克林顿的情人时曾轰动全球,如今怎样了

当年,莱温斯基当前总统克林顿的情⼈时曾轰动全球,如今怎样了当年,莱温斯基当前总统克林顿的情⼈时曾轰动全球,如今怎样了作者:纳兰唐⼉中国的皇帝后宫粉黛三千佳丽,外国的总统坐怀不乱,当柳下惠的好像也没⼏个。

美国前总统克林顿和他的情⼈莱温斯基的桃⾊事件,曾⼀度轰动全球,称为“拉链门”事件。

莱温斯基1973年出⽣,长得天⽣丽质,眼睛⼤⽽妩媚,⾝材丰腴妖娆,有⼀⼝洁⽩整齐的⽛齿,⼀笑起来便如春花,任他是谁。

1995年,22岁的莱温斯基去⽩宫见习,⼀颦⼀笑,⼀⾔⼀语,举⼿投⾜间散发着青春迷⼈的魅⼒。

久经沙场,经验丰富的克林顿还是被她迷住了。

⼼⼀旦动了,就像排⼭倒海挡也挡不住呀。

⽽莱温斯基⾯对这个成熟、稳重、睿智,能⼲,有魄⼒的中年男⼈也毫⽆抵抗之⼒,顷刻间也沉沦了。

客观来说,克林顿在任职期间政绩相当不错,⼈们的失业率⾮常低,美国民众给予他很⾼的赞誉,国际形象也挺⾼⼤。

可是命中注定要历劫,终究逃不过呀。

据后来克林顿说,当时⼯作压⼒太⼤,且莱温斯基浑⾝⼜散发着青春的⽓息,公办室只有他俩,环境创造了条件,孤男寡⼥眉来眼去,空⽓弥漫着暧昧的⽓息,没过多少⽇⼦,他俩便撞击出电光⽕⽯。

2010年3⽉19⽇,美国国家档案馆⾸度公开希拉⾥当第⼀夫⼈期间的11046页⽇程档案,出于考虑保护第三⽅的隐私,某些内容隐去。

外界终于得以窥视希拉⾥真实的⽩宫岁⽉。

资料记载,总统克林顿和莱温斯基在⽩宫共赴巫⼭云⾬10次,并且7次希拉⾥还在⽩宫⾥哩。

1995年11⽉15⽇,他俩在总统办公室的书房⾥第⼀次缱绻。

时隔2⽇,克林顿⼀边给国会议员打电话,⼀边让莱温斯基⽤嘴为他服务。

此事传出震惊世⼈,这种刺激完全超出了⼈们的承受⼒。

克林顿不愧是绝世天才,居然可以⼀⼼⼆⽤。

莱温斯基的脑⼦还是清醒的,知道这是⼀场见不得光的恋情,不会有结局的。

于是,她悬崖勒马,快⼑斩乱⿇,远离了克林顿。

莱温斯基也太天真,太相信⼈性了。

事后,把她与总统的事情向所谓的闺蜜特⾥普倾诉。

演讲的设备准备

演讲的设备准备

演讲的设备准备演讲时的设置非常重要。

比较以下两种场景:A,演讲者站在舞台上一个又大又笨的讲台后面,对着一群距离较远的观众读演讲稿;B,演讲者站在一个小舞台上,毫无防护,三面围坐着观众。

上述两种都属于公共演讲,但二者的确非常不同。

场景B看似非常恐怖:你站在那里,如此脆弱,没有笔记本电脑,没有讲稿,观众能看到你的整个身体,你无处可藏,感觉到所有的眼睛都在不远的地方盯着你,你尴尬不已。

场景A已经过多年的发展,包含了所有演讲者需要的东西。

在前电子化时代,演讲者或许会有一个演讲台用来放笔记。

但在20世纪,演讲台(或表演台)越来越大,可放置一只看讲稿的台灯,播放幻灯片的按钮,而且现在还可以放一台笔记本电脑。

甚至还有一种理论认为,遮掩演讲者的大部分身体,让观众只能看到他的脸,这样你就是在增加他的权威性,或许这样你会无意识地将他与布道台上的牧师联系起来。

不论是有意的还是无心的,大演讲台其实就是在演讲者和观众之间制造一个巨大的视觉屏障。

从演讲者的角度来看,这或许会非常舒服,何乐而不为?演讲需要的一切都在你的手边,你感到非常安全。

即使你忘了擦鞋或者你的衬衫有点褶皱也无关紧要,因为没有人会看见。

你有笨拙的肢体语言或不雅的动作吗?没问题,演讲台也会将这些通通隐藏,观众几乎只能看到你的脸。

哈哈,太好了!但从观众的视角看,这样做有一个重大的问题。

我们花了整整一章的篇幅谈论观众与演讲者之间建立联系的重要性,其中就讲到了演讲者愿意暴露自己的脆弱,这是不言而喻但非常有力的互动。

如果演讲者放下防卫,观众也会亲近你。

如果演讲者远远地站在安全的地方,观众也会对你敬而远之。

TED共同创办人理查德·索尔·沃尔曼对此坚信不疑,不要演讲台!不要读讲稿!他不喜欢使观众与演讲嘉宾之间的关系变得严肃正式的任何东西。

(打领带是他完全禁止的。

当尼古拉斯·尼葛洛庞蒂表示异议,西装领带地出现在舞台上时,理查德带着一把剪刀大步走上去,剪断了他的领带!)这种方式就是TED演讲感觉与人们通常所看到的演讲有所不同的原因之一。

ted简短演讲稿中英对照

ted简短演讲稿中英对照

1.TED《为什么我必须站出来》英文演讲稿
2.谁有TED演讲:邹奇奇的演讲稿(英文版)
3.经典英文短篇演讲稿中英文对照
粉嫩的脸,红润的唇,矫健的膝并不是青春。

青春表现在意志的坚强与懦弱。

想象的丰富与苍白、情感的充沛与贫乏等方面。

青春是生命深处清泉的喷涌。

青春是追求。

只有当勇气盖过怯弱、进取压倒苟安之时,青春才存在。

果如此,则60见之长者比20岁之少年更具青春活力。

仅仅岁月的流逝并不能使
他们衰老。

而一旦抛弃理想和信念,则垂垂老也。

岁月只能使皮肤起皱。

而一旦丧失生活的激情,则连灵魂枯老,使人生枯如死水,毫无活力。

60岁长者
也好,16岁少年也罢,每个人的内心深处都渴望奇迹,都如孩子一般眨着期待的
双眼,期待着下一次,期待着生活的情趣,你我灵魂深处都有一座无线电中转站------只有你我年轻,则总能听到希望的呼唤,总能发出喜悦的欢呼,总能传达勇气的讯号,总能表现出青春的活力……… 一旦青春的天线倒下,你的灵魂即为玩世不恭
之雪、悲观厌世之冰覆盖;即使你年方20.其实你已垂垂老也。

而只要你青春的天线高高耸起,就可以随时接收到乐观的电波-----即使你年过八旬,行将就木,而你却仍然拥有青春,你仍然年轻。

谢谢。

4.莱温斯基ted演讲英文版。

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莱温斯基演讲台重生莱温斯基去年6月通过在《名利场(Vanity Fair)》上的“羞耻与幸存(Shame and Survial)”打破了沉默,10月在《福布斯(Forbes)》年会上发表演说,同时开通了社交网络,彻底回到了公众面前。

她说:No longer. It’s time to burn the beret and bury the blue dress. And move forward.最近她针对“网络暴力”发表了题为“The Price of Shame”的TED演说,其中回忆了往事,提到她这些年的心路历程以及网络暴露可能给人带来的伤害:演讲文稿:You're looking at a woman who was publicly silent for a decade. Obviously, that's changed, but only recently.It was several months ago that I gave my very first major public talk at the Forbes 30 Under 30 summit:1,500 brilliant people, all under the age of 30. That meant that in 1998, the oldest among the group were only 14, and the youngest, just four. I joked with them that some might only have heard of me from rap songs. Yes, I'm in rap songs. Almost 40 rap songs.But the night of my speech, a surprising thing happened. At the age of 41, I was hit on by a 27-year-old guy. I know, right? He was charming and I was flattered, and I declined. You know what his unsuccessful pickup line was? He could make me feel 22 again. I realized later that night, I'm probably the only person over 40 who does not want to be 22 again.At the age of 22, I fell in love with my boss, and at the age of 24, I learned the devastating consequences.Lewinsky embraces U.S. President Bill Clinton at Democratic fundraiser in Washington in Oct. 1996(22岁那年,我爱上了我的老板。

24岁那年,我尝到了这件事带来的苦果。

)Can I see a show of hands of anyone here who didn't make a mistake or do something they regretted at 22? Yep. That's what I thought. So like me, at 22, a few of you may have also taken wrong turns and fallen in love with the wrong person, maybe even your boss. Unlike me, though, your boss probably wasn't the president of the United States of America. Of course, life is full of surprises.Not a day goes by that I'm not reminded of my mistake, and I regret that mistake deeply.In 1998, after having been swept up into an improbable romance, I was then swept up into the eye of a political, legal and media maelstrom like we had never seen before. Remember, just a few years earlier,news was consumed from just three places: reading a newspaper or magazine, listening to the radio, or watching television. That was it. But that wasn't my fate. Instead, this scandal was brought to you by the digital revolution. That meant we could access all the information we wanted, when we wanted it, anytime, anywhere, and when the story broke in January 1998, it broke online. It was the first time the traditional news was usurped by the Internet for a major news story, a click that reverberated around the world.What that meant for me personally was that overnight I went from being a completely private figure to a publicly humiliated one worldwide.I was patient zero of losing a personal reputation on a global scale almost instantaneously.This rush to judgment, enabled by technology, led to mobs of virtual stone-throwers. Granted, it was before social media, but people could still comment online, email stories, and, of course, email cruel jokes. News sources plastered photos of me all over to sell newspapers, banner ads online, and to keep people tuned to the TV. Do you recall a particular image of me, say, wearing a beret?Now, I admit I made mistakes, especially wearing that beret. But the attention and judgment that I received, not the story, but that I personally received, was unprecedented. I was branded as a tramp, tart, slut, whore, bimbo, and, of course, that woman. I was seen by many but actually known by few. And I get it: it was easy to forget that that woman was dimensional, had a soul, and was once unbroken.Lewinsky is escorted by police officers as she leaves the Federal Building in Westwood,California,in 1998(我承认我当时犯了错——特别是不该戴那顶贝雷帽——但那个新闻事件之外,我个人得到的关注和道德审判是前所未有的。

一夜之间,我从一介无名之辈成为了全世界公开羞辱的对象。

在虚拟的网络世界里,有无数向我投掷石块的暴徒。

我被打上娼妇、荡妇、婊子、蠢货的烙印,成为人们口中的‘那个女人’。

许多人都认得我,但很少人真正了解我。

我能理解,因为人们很容易忘记‘那个女人’也是实实在在的生命,也有自己的灵魂。

)When this happened to me 17 years ago, there was no name for it. Now we call it cyberbullying(网络欺凌)andonline harassment(网络骚扰). Today, I want to share some of my experience with you, talk about how that experience has helped shape my cultural observations, and how I hope my past experience can lead to a change that results in less suffering for others.In 1998, I lost my reputation and my dignity. I lost almost everything, and I almost lost my life.Let me paint a picture for you. It is September of 1998. I'm sitting in a windowless office room inside the Office of the Independent Counsel underneath humming fluorescent lights. I'm listening to the sound of my voice, my voice on surreptitiously taped phone calls that a supposed friend had made the year before. I'm here because I've been legally required to personally authenticate all 20 hours of taped conversation. For the past eight months, the mysterious content of these tapes has hung like the Sword of Damocles over my head. I mean, who can remember what they said a year ago? Scared and mortified, I listen, listen as I prattle on about the flotsam and jetsam of the day; listen as I confess my love for the president, and, of course, my heartbreak; listen to my sometimes catty, sometimes churlish, sometimes silly self being cruel, unforgiving, uncouth; listen, deeply, deeply ashamed, to the worst version of myself,a self I don't even recognize.A few days later, the Starr Report is released to Congress, and all of those tapes and trans, those stolen words, form a part of it. That people can read the trans is horrific enough, but a few weeks later, the audio tapes are aired on TV, and significant portions made available online. The public humiliation was excruciating. Life was almost unbearable.This was not something that happened with regularity back then in 1998, and by this, I mean the stealing of people's private words, actions, conversations or photos, and then making them public -- public without consent, public without context, and public without compassion.Fast forward 12 years to 2010, and now social media has been born. The landscape has sadly become much more populated with instances like mine, whether or not someone actually make a mistake, and now it's for both public and private people. The consequences for some have become dire, very dire.I was on the phone with my mom in September of 2010, and we were talking about the news of a young college freshman from Rutgers University named Tyler Clementi. Sweet, sensitive, creative Tyler was secretly webcammed by his roommate while being intimate with another man. When the online world learned of this incident, the ridicule and cyberbullying ignited. A few days later, Tyler jumped from the George Washington Bridge to his death. He was 18.Tyler Clementi(2010年9月我和妈妈在电话上讨论了那位年轻的拉特格斯大一新生的新闻。

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