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AvoidMisunderstanding"Whydotheykeepmisunderstandingme?"Weoftenh earpeoplecomplain.Misunderstandingseemstobeoneofthemostdisturbingis suesininterpersonalrelationships.Weoftenseehowitunderminestheharmoni ousrelationshipsbetweenpeople.Severalfactorscontributetomisunderstandi ng.First,peoplewithdifferentpersonalandculturalbackgroundsmayhavediver seperspectivesininterpretingonebehavior.Second,thelanguageweuseasave hicleofconveyingthoughtcanbeambiguous,andvariouswaysofdecoding(解码)wordsmayresultinbarriersincommunication.Third,misunderstandingocc ursbecauseofalackofmutualtrust.Ifyouhaveprejudice(偏
见)againstsomeone,whateverhesaysmaysoundiiiintentionedtoyou.Havingg onesofarintheexplorationofthecausesofmisunderstanding,wecaneasilyarriv eatthewaystoavoidthem.Firstly,weshouldbebroadmindedandbetolerantoft hedifferencesamongpeople.Secondly,weshouldbeaccurateandappropriatei nourhandleoflanguage,avoidingmisleadingwords.Thirdly,weshouldbeconstr uctiveandpatientindealingwithpeople.Ifwetryhardenough,therewillbemore understandingandlessmisunderstandinginthisworld.范文分析本篇文章在表达方面的一个突出特点就是形容词的运用。
如disturbing(令人烦恼的)、interpersonal(人际间的)、harmonious(和谐融洽的)、ambiguous(模棱两可的)、ill—intentioned(恶
意的)、broad—minded(开通的)、tolerant(宽容的)、misleading(误导的)、accurate(准确的)、appropriate(得休的)、constructive(建设性的)等。
这些形容词在表情达意方面,起到了准确高效的作用。
另外,关联词及从句的大量合理运用,使表达凝练,意思上联系紧密,句子结构紧凑。