TED英语演讲:这才是爱情应有的样子

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ted关于爱情演讲稿2020

ted关于爱情演讲稿2020

ted关于爱情演讲稿2020爱情不管起点是什么,结局一定是生活。

这个世界上最深沉的爱情,不是浪漫,不是攀比,而是我容你,你容我,相濡以沫,天长地久。

一起来看看ted关于爱情演讲稿2020,欢迎查阅!ted关于爱情演讲稿1当然,我对爱情这个东西还是由始至终的抱有幻想。

这个东西,就像他一直给我让我对婚姻都有一种期望一样。

我对情感的需求我觉得相对于别人来说是比较大的,在小的时候。

也会去赢得家长的关注。

甚至为了过分关注而去拼命学习。

但是不管怎么样,都无法熄灭我对爱情的向往和迷恋呀。

这才是十八岁天空应有的芬芳。

这才是十八岁应有的力量。

我用我的十八来谈谈我的想法。

来谈谈我对于爱情的感官。

最近这一个月其实英语围绕的主题就是爱情。

最开始有什么问题是说你相信一见钟情么,你相信笔友或者从未见面但是情根深种么,你对于未来的配偶有什么要求。

你希望他的特质是什么。

现在我来统一的给出我自己的答案。

尽可能还原当时我的想法。

第一我对未来配偶基本上没有任何特质的要求。

我唯一希望他的仅仅是一句欣赏生活。

在平淡里也能陪着我安然的度过。

第二,我相信一见钟情。

那种怦然心动的世纪毁灭感。

却又给你归属感和安全。

你会相信。

沉溺于这一股爱情之火,在爱情烈焰里焚为灰烬都是值得歌颂的一件事。

但是我后面想了想。

尽管我对爱情这么向往。

这么的不顾一切。

但是我连爱情的火山口呀,我都不会想爬上去。

我相信不靠面容的爱情。

我相信柏拉图似的精神恋爱。

我相信着纯粹的一切。

应为这是爱情呀。

人类最不能控制的一种情感。

我们在里边。

只能随波逐流。

韩寒写过我想和这个世界谈谈。

现在。

我想用我的十八跟爱情好好谈一段。

青春里涤荡的花,岁月里波浪的美好。

你还记得青葱记忆里的美好么。

那年,十八。

风在吹。

你的羊角辫和笑语呀。

在空中荡。

ted关于爱情演讲稿2世事沧桑,人生如棋,方寸间的乾坤,已不是文字可以尽数传达。

——题记在这个世界上,有一些人很努力地追求爱情的平等,想要拥抱爱情,唯一不同的是,他们占少数,他们的爱情不被大众认可,我无法判断其中对错,但我想他们值得被尊重,值得被关心。

关于爱情的英语演讲稿_英语演讲稿_

关于爱情的英语演讲稿_英语演讲稿_

关于爱情的英语演讲稿if i speak in the tongues of men and of angels, but have not love, i am only a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal. if i have the gift of prophecy and can fathom all mysteries and all knowledge, and if i have a faith that can move mountains, but have not love, i am nothing. if i give all i possess to the poor and surrender my body to the flames, but have not love, i gain nothing.love is patient, love is kind. it does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. it is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs.love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. it always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.love never fails. but where there are prophecies, they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is knowledge, it will pass away. for we know in part and we prophesy in part, but when perfection comes, the imperfect disappears. when i was a child, i talked like a child, i thought like a child, i reasoned like a child. when i became a man, i put childish ways behind me. now we see but a poor reflection as in a mirror; then we shall see face to face. now i know in part; then i shall know fully, even as i am fully known. and now these three remain: faith, hope and love. but the greatest of these is love.it hurts to love someone and not be loved in return. but what is more painful is to love someone and never find the courage to let that person know how you feel.a sad thing in life is when you meet someone who means a lot to you, only to find out in the end that it was never meant to be and you just have to let go.the best kind of friend is the kind you can sit on a porch swing with, never say a word, and then walk away feeling like it was the best conversation you've ever had.it's true that we don't know what we've got until we lose it, but it's also true that we don't know what we've been missing until it arrives.it takes only a minute to get a crush on someone, an hour to like someone, and a day to love someone- but it takes a lifetime to forget someone. don't go for looks; they can deceive. don't go for wealth, even that fades away. go for someone who makes you smile because it takes only a smile to make a dark day seem bright.dream what you want to dream; go where you want to go; be what you wantto be, because you have only one life and one chance to do all the things you want to do.always put yourself in the other's shoes. if you feel that it hurts you, it probably hurts the person too.a careless word may kindle strife; a cruel word may wreck a life; a timely word may level stress; a loving word may heal and bless.the happiest of people don't necessarily have the best of everything they just make the most of everything that comes along their way.love begins with a smile, grows with a kiss, ends with a tear. when you were born, you were crying and everyone around you was smiling. live your life so that when you die, you're the one smiling and everyone around you is crying.there was once a guy who suffered from cancer, a cancer that can?ˉt be cured. he was 18 years old and he could die anytime.all his life, he was stuck in his house being taken cared by his mother. he never went outside but he was sick of staying home and wanted to go out for once. so he asked his mother and she gave him permission.he walked down his block and found a lot of stores. he passed a cd store and looked through the front door for a second as he walked. he stopped and went back to look into the store. he saw a beautiful girl about his age and he knew it was love at first sight. he opened the door and walked in, not looking at anything else but her. he walked closer and closer until he was finally at the front desk where she sat.she looked up and asked, "can i help you?"she smiled and he thought it was the most beautiful smile he has ever seen before and wanted to kiss her right there.he said, "uh... yeah... umm... i would like to buy a cd."he picked one out and gave her money for it."would you like me to wrap it for you?" she asked, smiling her cute smile again.he nodded and she went to the back. she came back with the wrapped cd and gave it to him. he took it and walked out of the store.he went home and from then on, he went to that store every day and bought a cd, and she wrapped it for him. he took the cd home and put it in his closet. he was still too shy to ask her out and he really wanted to but he couldn?ˉt. his mother foun d out about this and told him to just ask her. so the next day, he took all his courage and went to the store as usual. he bought a cd like he did every day and once again she went to the back of the store and came back with it wrapped. he took it and when she wasn?ˉt looking, he left his phone number on the desk and ran out...rrrrringone day the phone rang, and the mother picked it up and said, "hello?"it was the girl the mother started to cry and said, "you don?ˉt know? he passed away yesterday..."the line was quiet except for the cries of the boy?ˉs mother. later in the day, the mother went into the boy?ˉs room because she wanted to remember him. she thought she would start by looking at his clothes. so she opened the closet.she was face to face with piles and piles and piles of unopened cds. she was surprised to find all these cds and she picked one up and sat down on the bed and she started to open one. inside, there was a cd and as she took it out of the wrapper, out fell a piece of paper. the mother picked it up and started to read it. it said: hi... i think u r really cute. do u wanna go out with me? love, jocelyn.the mother was deeply moved and opened another cd...again there was a piece of paper. it said: hi... i think u r really cute. do u wanna go out with me? love, jocelyn.love is... when you?ˉve had a huge fight but then decide to put aside your egos, hold hands and say, "i love you."。

与爱情有关的英语演讲稿(精选6篇)

与爱情有关的英语演讲稿(精选6篇)

与爱情有关的英语演讲稿(精选6篇)与爱情有关的英语篇1you may observe, that amongst all the great and worthy persons (whereof the memory remaineth, either ancient or recent) there is not one, that hath been transported to the mad degree of love: which shows that great spirits, and great business, do keep out this weak passion. you must except, nevertheless, marcus antonius, the half partner of the empire of rome, and appius claudius, the decemvir and lawgiver; whereof the former was indeed a voluptuous man, and inordinate; but the latter was an austere and wise man: and therefore it seems (though rarely) that love can find entrance, not only into an open heart, but also into a heart well fortified, if watch be not well kept.it is a poor saying of epicurus, satis magnum alter alteri theatrum sumus; as if man, made for the contemplation of heaven, and all noble objects, should do nothing but kneel before a little idol, and make himself a subject, though not of the mouth (as beasts are), yet of the eye; which was given him for higher purposes.it is a strange thing, to note the excess of this passion, and how it braves the nature, and value of things, by this; that the speaking in a perpetual hyperbole, is comely in nothing but in love. neither is it merely in the phrase; for whereas it hath been well said, that the arch-flatterer, with whom all the petty flatterers have intelligence, is a man’s self; certainly the lover is more. for there was never proud man thought so absurdly well of himself, as the lover doth of the person loved; and therefore it was well said, that it is impossible to love, and to be wise. neither doth this weakness appear to others only, and not to the party loved; butto the loved most of all, except the love be reciproque. for it is a true rule, that love is ever rewarded, either with the reciproque, or with an inward and secret contempt.by how much the more, men ought to beware of this passion, which loseth not only other things, but itself! as for the other losses, the poet’s relation doth well figure them: that he that preferred helena, quitted the gifts of juno and pallas. for whosoever esteemeth too much of amorous affection, quitteth both riches and wisdom.this passion hath his floods, in very times of weakness; which are great prosperity, and great adversity; though this latter hath been less observed: both which times kindle love, and make it more fervent, and therefore show it to be the child of folly. they do best, who if they cannot but admit love, yet make it keep quarters; and sever it wholly from their serious affairs, and actions, of life; for if it check once with business, it troubleth men’s fortunes, and maketh men, that they can no ways be true to their own ends.与爱情有关的英语演讲稿篇2As it is known, when we are in high school, we all have a constant goal that is to get the entrance to college, and hard work is out of question for the following. So we gain the notice to college finally which we often dream of in the nights, which pr oves a proverb that the god doesn’t live up to someone who spends time and efforts, please memorize the sentence for good.Of course one day we went to college in August or September happily and proudly, but at the same time something happened that it made your heart pounding fiercely next, by the way, that is love for many college students. And then they miss the directions and their selves as well for their lives. Next I am toexpress that I am neutral for falling in love in college, however I have some ideas to illustrate of my own.Firstly, if you are passers-by, I think we will find a lot about several couples of boyfriends and girlfriends under the dorms or dim corners or in the classes without anybody for close postures, as youngsters, it is normal without asking cause about that.Secondly, even worth mentioning is that many young boys and girls couldn’t attend classes and courses instead of traveling to some sceneries and sight places or doing other things only to turn out them loved each other.Third ly, especially to most of freshmen, please don’t be influenced by the phenomenon that a number of students who finds anther half called by them selves proudly, because I think persons are different from each other, different characters, backgrounds and aims.But there is one point to obey if you actually want to have an attempt the feeling for love at first sight: it is , whenever you and I am, the learning and the work is the most principle rather than love is the first and work second, for we aren’t child ren and teenagers anymore, in the future society needs a comprehensive qualifications, profound and extensive knowledge persons, meanwhile in college you are in the state of half foot to society which time is a most important process to exercise and experience before stepping to complicated and complex society, and therefore we are supposed to spend much time in learning instead.What are mentioned above are only my opinions, believing that others have more perfect for falling in love in college.与爱情有关的英语演讲稿篇3ever since the dawning of the history of mankind, there havebeen myriads of diversifed inventions, discoveries, and even explorations of the mysteries of the universe. in fact, the human beings are so intelligent that we have solved almost all kinds of problems we have confronted with .however, nobody has ever made out what the word “love” really connotes, not even the most famous people such as great politicians, saints and philosophers can clarify the meaning of “love”, neither can they deal with t he various affairs concerning love. love is like a huge boundless net that shrouds us all in. we can neither break away from it nor escape from it. like it or not, we are always entangled in it. it is an invisible net without any form, that shrouds in different people from different angels; it is a merciless net that upsets us or even tortures us to death. it is also a supreme net which almost no human can surpass. even if they are heroes, emperors, wise men or saints, they can do nothing but show their helplessness in its face. those who can breathe through the holes of the net should be regarded beyond commonness and vulgarity. love can bring us temporary comfort and happiness, but mostly they bring about annoyance and sufferings. maybe this is the reason why many people have seen through the illusions of the mortal world. however it is not so easy to break away from this boundless, ever-existing and indifferent net of love.love is varied and changeable, but roughly it can be divided into three categories: family love, fraternal love and amatory love. not like monkey king who jumped out of the rocks, we were all born after mother's pregnancy of about nine months, hence we have countless relatives without any choice: parents, grand-parents, and grand-parents-in-law, uncles and aunties, brothers and sisters, etc. and once looking at the genealogical tree, we'llsee no end. family love is what everyone longs for, but the warmth and support from our beloved ones are what everyone yearns for the most. but how many of us are determined to contribute to our beloved one? and how many don't expect repayment and relaxed. conscience even if they have the desire and preparation to contribute to their beloved. the distance between relatives is different and so are their expectations. but since it's very difficult to know how much we should expect, a lot of worries and distresses emerge.parents always expect their children to show their filial obedience, or at least pay them frequent visits after they have got married. if the children fail to do this, they feel hurt and upset, and they'll even complain about their children, because they just can't understand why their children don't care about them after what they have done for the children for so many years to bring them up. nevertheless, one's experience determines his ideology. young children are naturally attached to their parents, but when they grow up, specially when they have made their own friends, and got married, what they need most is independence and freedom, and parents sometimes might become their burden. once there is generation gap, it becomes more difficult to communicate and this keeps them away from their parents. objectively speaking, they need more independence in order to achieve success. in the present society, what the children want to have most is the economic support from their parents, not their moral support or guidance. they would complain if your economic support is not up to their expectations. the love from uncles and aunties would naturally dwindle after they have had their own children. only the love from grand-parents and grand parents-in-law is pure and demands no repayment, and they arealso too old to wait for any repayment. as for the distant relatives, their love depends on their needs, just as the old saying goes “the poor have no friends even if they live in downtown while the rich have distant relatives even if they live in deep mountains”. granny liu, a distant kinsfolk, in a dream of the red mansions , claims kinship with the wealthy jia family, thinking that she may benefit from it in some ways. liu might have run away without any traces if the jia family had been a poor one. another saying goes “close neighbors are better than distant relatives.” the most difficult is to manage the relatives when doing business together, just as what the tv series program liu laogen discloses. it is all right to stay poor together, but as soon as the business grows prosperous, the group will become estranged and even dissolve because of the unfair distribution. family love is like a maze which we shouldn't go too far into it, otherwise, we'll surely get lost. love is a bilateral matter and unilateral love can only lead you to nowhere in spite of your good intentions. family love is, sometimes, like an arranged marriage, leaving no choices to you. due to the different experiences and tastes, staying together temporarily can be entertaining, while living together for a long time can only be boring due to the lack of common interest and understanding. how can we communicate with each other without understanding? parents have the duty to support the children who are not yet economically independent, and children have the responsibility to provide for the elderly parents who are lack of economic abilities to support themselves. except these two kinds of duties which we must fulfill, other kinds of love become conventional formalities such as paying visit to the sick or the dead and giving presents to the newly-born etc..no love among relatives has become a normal phenomenonwhich needn't to be fussed about. what's worse is when love is contaminated by money. sooner or later we will get hurt. the sooner we get out of this net of love, the more we can preserve beautiful memories.we are not living in vacuum, and the society is formed of various kinds of people. as long as we want to live, study, or work, we have to contact, communicate and cooperate with others. those who enjoy common interests, mutual understanding, common undertakings and common benefits become friends.some friends are called fair-weather friends, because they are together just for entertaining themselves by eating, drinking, and gossiping. once there's nothing to eat and drink, their friendship is finished. some are spiritual friends who share common ambitions, pursuits and education. “they enjoy talking and laughing with the great talents and never make friends with the good-for-nothings”. the best examples would be yu boya and zhong ziqi of the ancient times who are famous not only for their lofty music but mainly for their lofty characters and mutual understanding and appreciation. they cared very little about material wealth, so their friendship is known as “gentlemen's friendship as pure as water”. the third type of friendship belong to those who show their utter devotion to each other. they are ready not only to share weal and woe but also to die for each other, like the three brothers liu, guan and zhang in the novel romance of the three kingdoms. . we all wish to have this kind of friendship, but it's of great difficulty for the ordinary people to be as devoted as they were.fraternal love or friendship is wide-ranged and flexible. generally speaking, everyone is our friend, just as chairman mao says “our friends are all over the world”. b ut transcend age, sex,nationality, state and economic conditions. to them the most important is common benefit, common interest and understanding. friendship is formed during the course of studying, working and fighting. the battle companions who have survived many hazards usually enjoy long-lasting friendship.与爱情有关的英语演讲稿篇4Love is like the wild rose-briar;Friendship like the holly-treeThe holly is dark when the rose-briar bloomsBut which will bloom most constantly?The wild rose-briar is sweet in spring,Its summer blossoms scent the air;Yet wait till winter comes again,And who will call the wild-briaThen, scorn the silly rose-wreath nowAnd deck thee with hollyThat, when December blights thy browHe still may leave thy garland green与爱情有关的英语演讲稿篇5If I know what love is, it is because of you.I’ll think of you every step of the way.light in my heart the evening star of rest and then let the night whisper to me of love.Look into my eyes - you will see what you mean to me.Love is a vine that grows into our hearts.Love is like a butterfly. It goes where it pleases and it pleases where it goes.Love is the greatest refreshment in life.Love keeps the cold out better than a cloak.Love never dies.My heart is with you.Take away love, and our earth is a tomb.The darkness is no darkness with thee.the mist, like love, plays upon the heart of the hills and bring out surprises of beauty.Wherever you go, whatever you do, I will be right here waiting for you.与爱情有关的英语演讲稿篇6Thank you for comfotting me when I'm sadLoving me when I'm madPicking me up when I'm downThank you for being my friend and being aroundTeaching me the meaning of loveEncouraging me when I need a shoveBut most of all thank you forLoving me for who I am.。

TED英语演讲:原来这才是拥有爱情的最好时间_英语演讲稿_

TED英语演讲:原来这才是拥有爱情的最好时间_英语演讲稿_

TED英语演讲:原来这才是拥有爱情的最好时间你认为拥有爱情最好的时间是什么时候?一见钟情,两情相悦,还是双宿双栖?其实我们对爱情到来时的那种惊喜和浪漫存在某种误解。

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原来这才是拥有爱情的最好时间I published this article in the New York Times Modern Love column in January of this year. "To Fall in Love With Anyone, Do This." And the article is about a psychological study designed to create romantic love in the laboratory, and my own experience trying the study myself one night last summer.今年1月份我将这篇文章发表在《纽约时报》“现代爱情”专栏。

《想爱上某人,你要这么做》这篇文章讲的是一项心理学研究,如何在实验室创造出浪漫的爱情,我自己在去年一个夏夜也完成了这项试验。

So the procedure is fairly simple: two strangers take turns asking each other 36 increasingly personal questions and then they stare into each other's eyes without speaking for four minutes.过程很简单:两个陌生人轮流问对方 36个问题,问题越来越私人化,然后四目相对,一言不发地对视4分钟。

So here are a couple of sample questions.我选出了其中几个问题。

Helen Fisher在Ted演讲:爱情魔力背后隐藏的秘密

Helen Fisher在Ted演讲:爱情魔力背后隐藏的秘密

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Helen Fisher在Ted演讲:爱情魔力背后隐藏的秘密I and my colleagues Art Aron and Lucy Brown and others, have put 37 people who are madly in love into a functional MRI brain scanner. 17 who were happily in love, 15 who had just been dumped, and we're just starting our third experiment: studying people who report that they're still in love after 10 to 25 years of marriage. So, this is the short story of that research.我和阿尔特.阿伦、露西.布朗还有其他同事对37位处在恋爱不同阶段的人的大脑进行了核磁共振测试,其中17位正享受爱情带来的幸福,而15位则刚刚被甩。

我们刚刚开始第三项实验:研究那些在10到25年后仍然处在爱恋中的人们,接下来是关于这项研究的一些介绍。

In the jungles of Guatemala, in Tikal, stands a temple. It was built by the grandest Sun King, of the grandest city-state, of the grandest civilization ofthe Americas, the Mayas. His name was Jasaw Chan K'awiil. He stood over six feet tall. He lived into his 80s, and he was buried beneath this monument in 720 AD. And Mayan inscriptions proclaim that he was deeply in love with his wife. So, he built a temple in her honor, facing his. And every spring and autumn, exactly at the equinox, the sun rises behind his temple, and perfectly bathes her temple with his shadow. And as the sun sets behind her temple in the afternoon, it perfectly bathes his temple with her shadow. After 1,300 years, these two lovers still touch and kiss from their tomb.在危地马拉的丛林深处的提卡尔,矗立着一座神庙。

TED英语演讲:这才是爱情应有的样子

TED英语演讲:这才是爱情应有的样子

TED英语演讲:这才是爱情应有的样子今天小编为大家收集整理了关于TED英语演讲:这才是爱情应有的样子,希望大家会喜欢,同时也希望给你们带来一些参考的作用!A better way to talk about loveOK, so today I want to talk about how wetalk about love. And specifically, I want to talk about what's wrong with howwe talk about love.今天我想谈谈我们是如何谈论爱情的。

我尤其想和你们聊的是,我们谈论爱情时到底哪里出错了。

Most of us will probably fall in love a fewtimes over the course of our lives, and in the English language, this metaphor,falling, is really the main way that we talk about that experience. I don'tknow about you, but when I conceptualize this metaphor, what I picture isstraight out of a cartoon —like there's a man, he's walking down the sidewalk, withoutrealizing it, he crosses over an open manhole, and he just plummets into thesewer below. And I picture it this way because falling is not jumping. Fallingis accidental, it's uncontrollable. It's something that happens to us withoutour consent. And this — this is the main way we talk about starting a new relationship.我们大多数人在一生中可能深爱过几次,在英语中,坠入爱河这个比喻,是我们谈论这段经历的主要方式。

爱情演讲稿三分钟英文(3篇)

爱情演讲稿三分钟英文(3篇)

第1篇Good evening. It is an immense honor to stand before you today to talk about a subject that touches the core of our existence – love. Love, in its simplest form, is the essence of what it means to be human. It is the heartbeat of our emotions, the guiding light of our decisions, and the cornerstone of our relationships. Tonight, I want to explore the concept of love, and how it transcends time, culture, and even language.Firstly, let me define what love is not. Love is not a fleeting emotion that comes and goes like the seasons. Love is not a temporaryinfatuation that fades with time. Love is not a mere attraction to another person’s beauty or charm. Love is something deeper, something more profound.Love is an unwavering commitment. It is the willingness to stand by someone through thick and thin, to support them in their darkest hours, and to celebrate with them in their brightest moments. It is the selflessness that comes from putting someone else’s needs before your own, and the courage to face the world together.Love is patience. It is the understanding that relationships require time to grow and mature. It is the acceptance that we all have flaws, and that love is about learning to love someone in their entirety, with all their strengths and weaknesses.Love is trust. It is the foundation upon which a relationship is built. It is the assurance that, no matter what, your partner has your back, and you have theirs. Trust is the bridge that connects two hearts, allowing them to navigate the storms of life together.Now, let me tell you what love is. Love is the feeling that propels us to be our best selves. It is the reason we wake up each day with a smile on our faces, knowing that we have someone to share our lives with. Love is the laughter that fills our home, the warmth that envelops us when we are cold, and the comfort that soothes us when we are in pain.Love is the silent understanding that sometimes, all that is needed is a gentle touch or a look of reassurance. It is the comfort of knowing that, even in the quietest moments, you are not alone.In conclusion, love is the most beautiful and powerful force in the universe. It is what brings us together, what makes us human, and what gives our lives meaning. Let us cherish the love we have, and let us strive to be the embodiment of love in our own lives.Thank you.第2篇Today, I stand before you to talk about something that has the power to change our lives, something that transcends time and culture, something that brings joy and sorrow, something that we all seek and cherish –love.Love is the most beautiful emotion we can experience. It is the essence of what it means to be human. It is the thread that connects us all, no matter our background, our beliefs, or our experiences. Love is the universal language that speaks to the heart.Imagine a world without love. It would be a desolate place, devoid of warmth and connection. But幸亏,我们有爱。

ted英文演讲我们为什么会相爱?

ted英文演讲我们为什么会相爱?

ted英文演讲我们为什么会相爱?第一篇:ted英文演讲我们为什么会相爱?ted英文演讲我们为什么会相爱?功能介绍不定期推送大学英语学习,英语口笔译学习,英文阅读等干货资料,旨在帮助大专院校学生和英语爱好者提高英语学习兴趣,丰富英语语言文化知识。

这是一个很有意思的TED动画小短片,帮助我们探索爱情的秘密。

真正适合我们的爱人,是那些真正能够相守、真实相爱、毫无私心支持彼此成为更好的人。

这个小视频也很适合学习地道英语口语表达和练习听力,一起看看吧!相守真实相爱支持彼此成为更好的人Ah, romantic love-beautiful and intoxicating,heartbreaking and soul-crushing,often all at the same time.Why do we choose to put ourselves through its emotional wringer?Does love make our lives meaningful,or is it an escape from our loneliness and suffering?Is love a disguise for our sexual desire,or a trick of biology to make us procreate?Is it all we need?Do we need it at all?If romantic love has a purpose,neither science nor psychology has discovered it yet.But over the course of history,some of our most respected philosophers have put forward some intriguing theories.Love makes us whole, again.The ancient Greek philosopher Platoexplored the idea that we love in order to become complete.In his 'Symposium', he wrote about a dinner party,at which Aristophanes, a comic playwright,regales the guests with the following story:humans were once creatures with four arms, four legs, and two faces.One day, they angered the gods,and Zeus sliced them all in two.Since then, every person has been missing half of him or herself.Love is the longing to find a soulmate who'll make us feel whole again,or, at least, that's whatPlato believed a drunken comedian would say at a party.Love tricks us into having babies.Much, much later, German philosopher Arthur Schopenhauermaintained that love based in sexual desirewas a voluptuous illusion.He suggested that we love because our desires lead us to believethat another person will make us happy, but we are sorely mistaken.Nature is tricking us into procreating,and the loving fusion we seek is consummated in our children.When our sexual desires are satisfied,we are thrown back into our tormented existences,and we succeed only in maintaining the speciesand perpetuating the cycle of human drudgery.Sounds like somebody needs a hug.Love is escape from our loneliness.According to the Nobel Prize-winning British philosopher Bertrand Russell,we love in order to quench our physical and psychological desires.Humans are designed to procreate,but without the ecstasy of passionate love,sex is unsatisfying.Our fear of the cold, cruel world tempts us to build hard shellsto protect and isolate ourselves.Love's delight, intimacy, and warmth helps us overcome our fear of the world,escape our lonely shells,and engage more abundantly in life.Love enriches our whole being, making it the best thing in life.Love is a misleading affliction.Siddhārtha Gautama,who became known as the Buddha, or the Enlightened One,probably would have had some interesting arguments with Russell.Buddha proposed that we love because we are trying to satisfy our base desires.Yet, our passionate cravings are defects,and attachments, even romantic love, are a great source of suffering.Luckily, Buddha discovered the eight-fold path,a sort of program for extinguishing the fires of desireso that we can reach Nirvana,an enlightened state of peace, clarity, wisdom, and compassion.The novelist Cao Xueqin illustrated this Buddhist sentimentthatromantic love is folly in one of China's greatest classical novels,'Dream of the Red Chamber.'In a subplot, Jia Rui falls in love with Xi-fengwho tricks and humiliates him.Conflicting emotions of love and hate tear him apart,so a taoist gives him a magic mirror that can cure himas long as he doesn't look at the front of it.But of course, he looks at the front of it.He sees Xi-feng.His soul enters the mirrorand he is dragged away in iron chains to die.Not all Buddhists think this way about romantic and erotic love,but the moral of this storyis that such attachments spell tragedy,and should, along with magic mirrors, be avoided.Love lets us reach beyond ourselves.Let's end on a slightly more positive note.The French philosopher Simone de Beauvoirproposed that love is the desire to integrate with anotherand that it infuses our lives with meaning.However, she was less concerned with why we loveand more interested in how we can love better.She saw that the problem with traditional romantic loveis it can be so captivating,that we are tempted to make it our only reason for being.Yet, dependence on another to justify our existenceeasily leads to boredom and power games.To avoid this trap, Beauvoir advised loving authentically,which is more like a great friendship.Lovers support each other in discovering themselves,reaching beyond themselves,and enriching their lives and the world together.Though we might never know why we fall in love,we can be certain that it will be an emotional rollercoaster ride.It's scary and exhilarating.It makes us sufferand makes us soar.Maybe we lose ourselves.Maybe we find ourselves.It might be heartbreaking,or it might just be the best thing in life.Will you dare to find out?第二篇:(TED英文演讲)为球鞋疯狂——观后感“Be Crazy about sneakers.”————Feedback Almostevery basketball fan is dreaming about getting one pair of sneakers of famous brands, like Air Jordan series.Many of them are constantly dedicated to their collections of various sneakers.But through the speaker’s ideas, a clear marketing network emerged, which was seemingly invisible before.All of us who are fond of collecting limited-edition shoes may not realize that we are part of the market itself, although it isn’t a market at all.This is incredible, but it really exists.Basketball fans are enthusiastic about their beloved stars, and the sneakers endorsed by stars are to support their craze, which means a brilliant commercial opportunity to shoes’ industry.And the brand Nike was one of the biggest owners of profits from its sneakers, it is still earning money from us, and it will be as long as the devotion to basketball stars don’t fade away.In short, the intangible beneficial network is a successful example for sports industry.But what if they improve their commercial system? There will be more profits.Anyway, we can learn a lot from this and utilize what we got.第三篇:(TED英文演讲)机器会抢走我们的工作吗?——观后感“Would machines replace humankind in the future?”——Feedback Key words: beauty and efficiency.There’s always all sorts of debates about relationships between machines and human beings.Needless to say, we never lose.Obviously, all of us are supposed to be unique and irreplaceable, which is exactly opposite to machines.Though many advantages of machinery such as the high speed and accuracy are convinced even admired, we are still dominating the world, not robots.Emotion and diversity, these are inherently human characteristics that machines never obtain, at least now and near future.So, in case of displacement by machines, we must acquire and promote anew aesthetic and sentimental education according to the speaker.As the speaker said, “In the face of artificial intelligence and machine learning, we need a new radical humanism.”On the whole, beauty can save the world when we embrace these principles and design for them.Machines do have the necessity of their existence, but we can not be taken the place. 第四篇:(TED英文演讲)我们能战胜贫穷吗?——观后感Can we conquer poverty? —— Feedback In this lecture, the speaker’s statements really shocked me.He believed that the greatest failure of the human race was the fact that we had left more than one billion of our members behind.Extreme poverty were figured out as the most difficult problemneeded to solve.But there isn’t nothing to do for us.Like the speaker claimed that we have several methods to fight against poverty.First of all, there’s a fact we shouldn’t ignore is that most of the world’s poor people are farmers.You can imagine how powerful this is when farmers become more productive, then more than half the world’s poor earn more mon ey and climb out of poverty.We only have two ways we can feed the world’s population.we can either make our present farmland more productive or we can clean out forests and make them new farmlands instead, which would be environmentally disastrous.It’s und eniable that farmers stand at the center of the world because of the significance of agriculture.Next, many farmers who live far away from the modern society can’t get even a little bit of scientific knowledge they needed in their fields.They also lack effective access to basic tools.To overcome such dilemma, actually we have settled these troubles in theory a century ago.We can genetically convert two normal plants into a new productive species through advanced technologies.But thehardest part is delivery of these tools extreme poverty.We need the world’s companies, governments and non-profits set up delivery networks for life-improving goods to eliminate poverty.If we can get our food by take-outs, or receive our deliveries through expressage, then it’s p ossible for those farmers who live in remote places to get more basic tools and useful knowledge st but not the least, we need to strength our wills to insist on helping farmers in a long period of time, giving sustainable strategies to make themselves jump out of extreme poverty.Everybody is exceptional people, so it’s unreasonable to left over one billion people behind while developing our society.Until everyone has an opportunity to gain his full human potential, can we become a truly moral and just human race.Let us to deliver an end to extreme poverty in our lifetime.生词gigantic insurmountable solvablelean ondisastrous dilemma humble scalable territory pursue constraint exceptional deploy第五篇:(TED英文演讲)防患于未然——观后感“Presence of mind”——Feedback Key words: stress pre-mortem ahead of time According to the lecture, our brain under stress releases cortisol, and one of the things that happens at the moment is a whole bunch on systems shut down.Few of us can remain rational and logical thinking while facing stressful things, so it is of great significance to think them over before their appearances.We need to train ourselves to think ahead to these kind of situations.And the conception which the speaker put forward is pre-mortem.The idea of the pre-mortem is to think ahead of time to the questions that you might be able to ask that will push the conversation forward.You look ahead, try to figureout all the things that could go wrong and then try to figure out what you can do to prevent those things from happening or to minimize the damage.Prevent bad things from happening.Or at least if bad things happen, we will minimize the likelihood of it being a catastrophe.Under stress we are not thinking clearly.We need to train ourselves to think ahead to these kind of situations.So think about how you are going to work through this ahead of time, so you don’t have to manufacture the chain of reasoning on the spot.You might change your mind on impulse, but at least you are practiced with this kind of thinking.。

Ted中英文双语演讲稿

Ted中英文双语演讲稿

活在世上做好自己足矣"I used to think the worst thing in life was to end up all alone.“我曾经认为生活中最糟糕的事情就是孤独终老。

It's not.并不是。

The worst thing in life is to end up with people that make you feel all alone." --Robin Williams生活中最糟糕的事情就是和让你感到孤独的人在一起。

”——罗宾·威廉姆斯Codependency is a potentially destructive state to be in.相互依赖是一种潜在的破坏性状态。

At its core, it means that you cannot be alone.本质上,这意味着你无法独处。

And the consequence of this is an ongoing clinging to other people; no matter how bad they treat you. 这样做的结果就是你会持续地依附于他人,不管他们对你有多坏。

But it's an illusion to think that we need someone else to make us feel complete.但是认为我们需要别人来让我们感到完整是一种错觉。

We don't.我们不需要。

When we let our contentment depend on external things, we have given our power away.当我们让自己的满足依赖于外在的东⻄时,我们已经失去了自己的力量。

As humans, we aren't islands.作为人类,我们不是岛屿。

TED英语演讲:什么是爱情_英语演讲稿_

TED英语演讲:什么是爱情_英语演讲稿_

TED英语演讲:什么是爱情Stacey向来很着迷一对伴侣的邂逅过程。

她邀请了摄影师Alec协助探讨这个议题,她们在情人节那天,一起到拉斯维加斯参加全球最盛大的快速约会,又到访内华达州最大的退休人士社区,她们解开了一个谜,就是一对伴侣怎样由初次邂逅到一起共同生活的历程。

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演讲题目:什么是爱情?择一城终老,遇一人白首!演讲者:Alec·Soth & Stacey·BakerAlec Soth: So about 10 years ago, I got a call from a woman in Texas, Stacey Baker, and she'd seen some of my photographs in an art exhibition and was wondering if she could commission me to take a portrait of her parents. Now, at the time I hadn't met Stacey, and I thought this was some sort of wealthy oil tycoon and I'd struck it rich, but it was only later that I found out she'd actually taken out a loan to make this happen.Alec Soth: 大概十年前,我收到德州一位女士的电话,就是她,Stacey Baker。

她在一场艺术展上看过我的一些摄影作品,然后想问是否可以请我为她的父母拍照。

当时,我还没有见到Stacey,我本以为她会是某位石油大亨,让我一夜暴富。

然而后来我很快发现,她实际上是贷款来完成这个拍摄的。

TED英语演讲:爱情的三大秘诀

TED英语演讲:爱情的三大秘诀

TED英语演讲:爱情的三大秘诀TED是Technology, Entertainment, Design(科技、娱乐、设计)的缩写,这个会议的宗旨是"用思想的力量来改变世界"。

TED演讲的特点是毫无繁杂冗长的专业讲座,观点响亮,开门见山,种类繁多,看法新颖。

而且还是非常好的英语口语听力练习材料,建议坚持学习。

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演讲者:Hannah Fry演讲稿Today I want to talk to you about the mathematics of love. Now, I think that we can all agree that mathematicians are famously excellent at finding love.But it's not just because of our dashing personalities, superior conversational skills and excellent pencil cases. It's also because we've actually done an awful lot of work into the maths of how to find the perfect partner.今天我想要和大家谈谈关于爱情的数学。

我想大家都同意数学家在寻找真爱上特别在行。

但那并不是是因为我们精力充沛的性格,超凡的对话技巧,和极好的笔盒。

也是因为我们真的花了许多时间精力在数学上,计算如何找到完美的伴侣。

Now, in my favorite paper on the subject, which is entitled,"Why I Don't Have a Girlfriend" --Peter Backus tries to rate his chances of finding love. Now, Peter's not a very greedy man. Of all of the available women in the UK, all Peter's looking for is somebody who lives near him, somebody in the right age range, somebody with a university degree, somebody he's likely to get on well with, somebody who's likely to be attractive, somebody who's likely to find him attractive.And comes up with an estimate of 26 women in the whole of the UK.It's not looking very good, is it Peter? Now, just to put that into perspective, that's about 400 times fewer than the best estimates of how many intelligent extraterrestrial life forms there are. And it also gives Peter a 1 in 285,000 chance of bumping into any one of these special ladies on a given night out. I'd like to think that's why mathematicians don't really bother going on nights out anymore.现在,在此学科中我最爱的论文,名为“为什么我没有女友”(笑声) Peter Backus试着计算他寻得真爱的机会。

爱情应有的样子 中英文演讲稿

爱情应有的样子 中英文演讲稿

OK, so today I want to talk about how wetalk about love. And specifically, I want to talk about what's wrong with howwe talk about love.今天我想谈谈我们是如何谈论爱情的。

我尤其想和你们聊的是,我们谈论爱情时到底哪里出错了。

Most of us will probably fall in love a fewtimes over the course of our lives, and in the English language, this metaphor,falling, is really the main way that we talk about that experience. I don'tknow about you, but when I conceptualize this metaphor, what I picture isstraight out of a cartoon — like there's a man, he's walking down the sidewalk, withoutrealizing it, he crosses over an open manhole, and he just plummets into thesewer below. And I picture it this way because falling is not jumping. Fallingis accidental, it's uncontrollable. It's something that happens to us withoutour consent. And this — this is the main way we talk about starting a new relationship.我们大多数人在一生中可能深爱过几次,在英语中,坠入爱河这个比喻,是我们谈论这段经历的主要方式。

TED演讲系列双语稿(如何更好地讨论爱情)

TED演讲系列双语稿(如何更好地讨论爱情)

TED演讲系列文稿---如何更好的讨论爱情(曼迪*兰*凯特论)英语版;Ok,so today I want to talk about how we talk about love .And specifically,I want to talk about what’s wrong whit how we talk about love.Most of us will probably fall in love a few times over the course of our lives,and in the English language,this metaphor,falling,is really the main way what we talk about that experience. I don ’t know how about you ,but when I conceptualize this metaphor what I picture is straight out of a cartoon,like this is a man ,he’s walking down the sidewalk ,without realizing it ,he crosses over an open manhole,and he just plummets into the sewer below. And I picture it this way because falling is not jumping . falling is accidental,it’s uncontrollable, it’s something that happens to us without our consent .And this , this is the main way we talk about starting a new relationship.I am a writer and I’m also an English teacher, which means I think about words for a living. You could say that I get paid to argue that the language we use matters,and I would like to argue that many of the metaphors we use to talk about love,maybe even most of them are a problem. So ,in love ,we fall,we struck,we are crushed,we swoon .We burn with passion. Love makes us crazy,and it makes us sick.our hearts ache ,and then they break .So our metaphor equate the experience of loving someone to extreme violence or illness .They do. And they position us as the victims of unforeseen and totally unavoidable circumstances of unforeseen and totally unavoidable circumstances.My favorite one of these is “smitten’’ which is past participle of the word “smite’’.And if you look this word up in the dictionary, you will see it can be defined as both “grievous affliction” and “ to be very much in love .’’ I tend to associate the word “smite” with a very particular context, which is the old testament .In the Book of Exodus alone ,there are 16 references to smiting,which is the word that the Bible uses for the vengeance of an angry God. Here we are using the same word to talk about love that we use to explain a plague of locusts.Right?So,how did this happen? How have we come to associate love with great pain and suffering ? And why do we talk about this ostensibly good experience as if we are victims? These a difficult questions,but I have some theories. And to think this though, I want to focus on one metaphor in particular ,which is the idea of love as madness. When I first started researching romantic love ,I found these madness metaphor everywhere. The history of western culture is full of language that equates love to mental illness. These are just a few example.William Shakespeare; ‘’Love is merely a madness,”from “As you like it“ Friedrich Nietzsche; “There is always some madness in love. “Got me looking ,got me looking so crazy in love” from the great philosopher,Beyonce Knowles.I fell in love for the first time when I was 20, and it was a pretty turbulent relationship right from the start . And it was long distance for the first couple of years,so for me the meant very high highs and very low lows. I can remember onemoment in particular. I was sitting on a bed in a hostel in South America, and i was watching the person I love walk out the door .And it was late, it was nearly midnight,we’d gotten into an argument over dinner,and when we got back to our room,he threw his things in the bag and stormed out . While I can on longer remember what that argument was about, I very clearly remember how I felt watching him leave. I was 22,it was my first time in the developing world, and I was totally alone . I had another week until my flight home, and I knew the name of the town that I was in, and the name of the city that I needed to get to fly out, but I had no idea how to get ground. I had no guidebook and very little money,and I speak no Spanish. Someone more adventurous than me might have seen this as a moment of opportunity, but I just froze. I just sat there. And then I burst in to tears.But despite my panic,some small voice in my head thought, “Wow. That was dramatic. I must really be doing this love thing right.” Because some part of me wanted to feel miserable in love. And is sounds so strange to me now ,but at 22, I longed to have dramatic experiences,and in that moment, I was irrational and furious and devastated, and weirdly enough,I thought that this somehow legitimized the feelings I had for the guy who had just lest me . I think on some level I wanted to feel a little bit crazy, because I thought that was how love worked.This really should not be surprising, considering that according to Wikipedia, there are eight films, 14 songs, two albums and one novel with the title “Crazy Love.” About half an hour later ,he came back to our room. We made up. We spent another mostly happy week traveling together. And then ,when I got home, I thought, “That was so terrible and so great. This must be a real romance.”I expected my first love to feel like madness, and of course,it met that expectation very well, But loving someone like that as if my entire well-being depended on him loving me back was not very good for me.of for him. But I suspect this experience of love is not that unusual. Most of us do feel a bit mad in the early stages of romantic love. In fact,there is research to confirm that this is somewhat normal, because ,neurochemically speaking, romantic love and mental illness are not that easily distinguished. This is truce .This study form 1999 use blood tests. To confirm that the serotonin levels of the newly in love very closely resembled the serotonin levels of people who had been diagnosed with obsessive-compulsive disorder. Yes,and low levels of serotonin are also associated with seasonal affective disorder and depression. So there is some evidence that love is associated with changes to our moods and our behaviors.And there are other studies to confirm that most relationships being this way . Researchers believe that the low levels of serotonin is correlated with obsessive thinking about the object of love, which is like this feeling that someone has up camp in your brain.And most of us feel this way when we first fall in love. But the good news is , it doesn’t last that long usually from a few months to a couple of years. When I go back from my trip to South America, I spent a lot of time alone in my room, checking my email, desperate to hear from the guy I loved. I decided that if my friends could not understand my grievous affliction, then I not need their friendship. So i stopped hanging out with most of them. And it was probably themost unhappy year of my life. But I think I felt like it was my job to be miserable, because if I could be miserable,then I would prove how much I loved him. And if could prove it,then we would have to end up together eventually. This is the real madness, because there is no cosmic rule that says that great suffering equals great reward ,but we about love as if this is true.Our experiences of love are both biological and cultural. Our biology tell us that love is good by activating these reward circuits in our brain ,and it tells us that love is painful when,after a fight or a breakup that neurochemical reward is withdrawn.And in fact ,and maybe you’ve heard this neurochemically speaking,going through a breakup is a lot like going through cocaine withdrawal,which I find reassuring. And then our culture uses language to shape and reinforce these ideas about love. In this case ,we’re talking about metaphors about pain and addiction and madness. It’s kind of an interesting feedback loop. Love is powerful and at times painful,and we express this in our world and stories,but then our words and stories prime us to expect love to be powerful and painful. What’s interesting to me is that all of this happens in a culture that values lifelong monogamy.It seems like we want it both ways; we want love to feel like madness, and we want it to last an entire lifetime.That sounds terrible. To reconcile this, we need to either change our culture or change our expectations. So,imagine if we were all less passive in love. If we were more assertive, more open- minded, more generous and instead of falling in love,we stepped into love.I know that this is asking a lot, but I’m not actually the first person to suggest this. In their book, “Metaphors We Live By, linguists Mark Johnson and George Lakoff suggest a really interesting solution to this dilemma,which is to change our metaphors. They argue that metaphors really do shape the way we experience the world,and that they can act as guide for future actions, like self -fulfilling prophecies. Johnson and Lakoff suggest a new metaphor for love;love as a collaborative work of art. I really like this way of thinking about love. Linguists talk about metaphors as having entailment, Which is essentially a way of considering all the implications of, or ideas contained within, a given metaphor. And johnson and Lakoff talk about everying that collaborating on a work of art entails;effort,compromise,patience,share goals. These idea align nicely with our cultural investment in long-term romantic commitment, but they also work well for other kinds of relationships , short-term, casual, polyamorous, non-monogamous , asexual because this metaphor brings much more complex idea to the experience of loving someone. So if love is a collaborative work of art, then love is an aesthetic experience . Love is unpredictable , love is creative, love requires communication and discipline,it is frustrating and emotionally demanding.And love involves both joy and pain. Ultimately,each experience of love is different.When I was younger, it never occurred to me that I was allowed to demand more from love, that I didn’t have to just accept whatever love offered. When 14-year-old Juliet first meets or,when 14-year-old JULIET cannot be with Romeo, whom she has met four days ago, she does not feel disappointed or angsty.Whereis she? She wants to die. Right? And just as a refresher,at this point in the play,act three of five, Romeo is not dead.He’s alive, he’s healthy,he’s just been banished from the city. I understand that 16th-century Verona is unlike contemporary North America, and yet when I first read this play,also 14, Juliet’s suffering made sense to me. Reframing love as something I got to create with someone I admire, rather than something that just happens to me without my control or consent, is empowering. It’s still hard. Love still feels totally maddening and crushing some days, and when I feel really frustrated, I have to remind myself; my job in this relationship is to talk to my partner about what I want to make together. This isn’t easy , either. But it’s just so much better than the alternative, which is that thing that feels like madness. This version of love is not about winning or losing someone’s affection. Instead ,it requires that you trust your partner and talk about things when trusting feels difficult, which sounds so simple, but is actually a kind of revolutionary,radical act. This is because you get to stop thinking about yourself and what you’re gaining or losing in your relations, and you get start thinking about what you have to offer. This version of love allows us to say things like, “Hey, we’re not very good collaborators.Maybe this isn’t for us.” Or, “That relationship was shorter than I had planned, but it was still kind of beautiful.” The beautiful thing about the collaborative work of art is that it will not paint or draw or sculpt itself. This version of love allows us to decide what it looks like. Thank you.中文版;好的,今天我想谈谈我们谈论爱情的方法,具体来说,就是讨论一下我们谈论爱情时犯的错误。

有关爱情的英文演讲稿

有关爱情的英文演讲稿

有关爱情的英文演讲稿Love is a universal language that transcends boundaries, cultures, and time. It is a powerful force that has the ability to bring people together, to heal wounds, and to inspire greatness. Today, I want to talk to you about love and its significance in our lives.First and foremost, love is the foundation of our existence. It is the driving force behind our actions, our relationships, and our aspirations. Love gives us the courage to face our fears, the strength to overcome obstacles, and the hope to dream big. Without love, life would be meaningless and empty.Love is also the key to building strong and lasting relationships. Whether it's with our family, friends, or romantic partners, love forms the basis of trust, respect, and understanding. It allows us to connect with others on a deep and meaningful level, fostering empathy and compassion. In a world where conflicts and misunderstandings abound, love is the bridge that brings people together and fosters harmony.Furthermore, love has the power to transform us as individuals. When we experience love, whether it's self-love or love from others, it has the ability to heal our wounds, to mend our brokenness, and to inspire us to become the best version of ourselves. Love empowers us to grow, to learn, and to evolve, shaping us into kinder, more compassionate beings.In addition, love is a source of inspiration and creativity. Countless works of art, literature, and music have been created in the name of love. It has the ability to ignite passion, to fuel our creativity, and to drive us to create something beautiful and meaningful. Love has the power to move us, to stir our emotions, and to inspire us to express ourselves in unique and profound ways.In conclusion, love is a force that shapes our world in countless ways. It is the essence of our humanity, the cornerstone of our relationships, and the inspiration behind our greatest achievements. As we navigate through the complexities of life, let us always remember the power of love and the profound impact it has on our lives. Let us cherishand nurture the love that surrounds us, for it is the greatest gift we can give and receive. Thank you.。

关于爱情的英语发言稿

关于爱情的英语发言稿

关于爱情的英语发言稿Ladies and gentlemen, respected guests, and fellow friends,It is a great honor for me to stand here and talk to you about love, the most beautiful and powerful feeling that exists in the world. Love is a universal language that transcends all barriers and unites people from all walks of life. Today, I want to share with you my thoughts and insights on the topic of love, and why it is so important in our lives.Love is a complex and multifaceted emotion that can take many forms. It can be the love we feel for our family, our friends, or even our pets. But the most profound and intense form of love is the romantic love that we feel for a partner. This kind of love has been the subject of countless stories, poems, songs, and works of art throughout history, and for a good reason. The love between two people has the power to change lives, make the impossible possible, and bring joy and happiness to our hearts.But love is not always easy. It requires patience, understanding, and a willingness to put the needs of the other person before our own. It requires constant effort and dedication to nurture and maintain a healthy and fulfilling relationship. Love is not just about the passion and excitement of the early days; it is also about the commitment and strength of character to weather the storms and face the challenges that life will inevitably throw at us.One of the most important aspects of love is respect. Respect for the other person's thoughts, feelings, and choices. Respect for their background, culture, and beliefs. Respect for their individualityand uniqueness. When we truly respect our partner, we can build a strong and solid foundation for a loving and harmonious relationship.Communication is another key component of a successful relationship. When we communicate openly and honestly with our partner, we can resolve conflicts, express our needs and desires, and deepen our understanding of each other. Listening to our partner is just as important as expressing ourselves, as it shows that we value their perspective and are willing to consider their point of view.Trust is the bedrock of any loving relationship. When we trust our partner, we feel safe and secure in their presence. We are confident that they will be there for us, support us, and remain faithful to us. Trust is earned through consistent actions and behaviors that demonstrate our reliability, honesty, and commitment to the relationship.In addition to trust, intimacy is also a vital element of love. Intimacy is not just about physical closeness, but also about emotional connection and vulnerability. It is about sharing our deepest thoughts and feelings with our partner, and feeling accepted and understood in return. Intimacy creates a strong bond between two people and fosters a sense of closeness and unity. Love is also about growth and learning. When we love someone, we have the opportunity to become better versions of ourselves. We are pushed to confront our fears, overcome our limitations, and expand our horizons. The challenges and compromises that comewith love can help us mature and develop as individuals, and enable us to become more empathetic, compassionate, and resilient.Finally, love is about gratitude and appreciation. It is about recognizing and acknowledging the value and beauty of the person we are with. It is about expressing our love and affection through small gestures, kind words, and thoughtful actions. Showing our appreciation for the love we receive can strengthen the bond between two people and make the relationship flourish.In conclusion, love is the most profound and enriching experience that we can have as human beings. It has the power to bring us together, to heal our wounds, and to uplift our spirits. Love is not always easy, but it is always worth it. It requires dedication, respect, trust, and communication. It requires openness, vulnerability, and a willingness to grow and learn. Love is a journey that can bring us immense joy, fulfillment, and connection. Let us cherish and celebrate the love in our lives, and let it guide us towards a brighter and more loving future.Thank you.。

TED演讲:人类为何要相爱?

TED演讲:人类为何要相爱?

TED演讲:人类为何要相爱?爱情是什么?它浪漫又美丽,让人如痴如醉,却也会令人伤心,我们为什么需要爱情,一些哲学家曾经讨论过……TED演讲稿Ah, romantic love -beautiful and intoxicating, heartbreaking and soul-crushing, often all at the same time.啊...浪漫的爱情啊,美好又令人痴醉,伤心又断魂,通常所有的感觉会同时汇集在一起。

Why do we choose to put ourselves through its emotional wringer?我们为什么总是用它来折磨自己呢?Does love make our lives meaningful, or is it an escape from our loneliness and suffering?爱会让我们的生命有意义吗?亦或它使我们从孤寂和痛苦中解脱?Is love a disguise for our sexual desire, or a trick of biology to make us procreate?还是用来掩饰我们对性的欲望吗?还是说它是身体戏弄我们去繁衍后代的一个手段?Is it all we need? Do we need it at all?爱是一切吗?我们真的需要爱吗?If romantic love has a purpose, neither science nor psychology has discovered it yet.如果说爱情是有目的,自然科学和心理学上至今却对此都没什么发展。

But over the course of history, some of our most respected philosophershave put forward some intriguing theories.但在历史的长河中,一些我们敬佩的哲学家曾推出过一些有趣的理论。

爱情一分钟英文演讲稿

爱情一分钟英文演讲稿

爱情一分钟英文演讲稿Love is a universal language that transcends all barriers and boundaries. It is a feeling that can be experienced by anyone, anywhere, at any time. Love has the power to bring people together, to heal wounds, and to inspire greatness. In just one minute, I want to share with you the essence of love and why it is so important in our lives.First and foremost, love is the foundation of all human relationships. Whether it's the love between family members, friends, or romantic partners, it is the bond that holds us together. Love gives us a sense of belonging, security, and support. It is the glue that keeps us connected and helps us navigate the ups and downs of life.Furthermore, love has the ability to transform us as individuals. When we experience love, we become more compassionate, empathetic, and understanding. Love teaches us to be selfless, patient, and forgiving. It challenges us to grow, to evolve, and to become better versions of ourselves. Love is a catalyst for personal growth and development.In addition, love has the power to bring joy and happiness into our lives. It is the source of laughter, smiles, and warm embraces. Love fills our hearts with warmth and our souls with contentment. It is the fuel that ignites our passion, creativity, and zest for life. Love is the antidote to loneliness, despair, and emptiness.Moreover, love is the driving force behind acts of kindness and generosity. It motivates us to lend a helping hand, to give without expecting anything in return, and to make a positive impact in the world. Love inspires us to be of service to others, to spread positivity, and to create a ripple effect of goodness. Love is the catalyst for positive change and transformation.In conclusion, love is the most powerful force in the universe. It has the ability to connect us, to transform us, to bring us joy, and to inspire us to make a difference. Love is not just a fleeting emotion, but a way of being and living. It is the essence of our humanity and the key to a fulfilling and meaningful life. Let us cherish love, nurture it, and share it with the world. Thank you.。

英语演讲稿:《爱情》(五分钟)

英语演讲稿:《爱情》(五分钟)

英语演讲稿:《爱情》granny liu, a distant kinsfolk, in a dream of the red mansions , claims kinship with the wealthy jia family, thinking that she may benefit from it in some ways. liu might have run away without any traces if the jia family had been a poor one. an other saying goes “close neighbors are better than distant relatives.” the most difficult is to manage the relatives when doing business together, just as what the tv series program liu laogen discloses. it is all right to stay poor together, but as soon as the business grows prosperous, the group will become estranged and even dissolve because of the unfair distribution. family love is like a maze which we shouldn't go too far into it, otherwise, we'll surely get lost. love is a bilateral matter and unilateral love can only lead you to nowhere in spite of your good intentions. family love is, sometimes, like an arranged marriage, leaving no choices to you. due to the different experiences and tastes, staying together temporarily can be entertaining, while living together for a long time can only be boring due to the lack of common interest and understanding. how can we communicate with each other without understanding? parents have the duty to support the children who are not yet economically independent, and children have the responsibility to provide for the elderly parents who are lack of economic abilities to support themselves. except these two kinds of duties which we must fulfill, other kinds of love become conventional formalities such as paying visit to the sick or the dead and giving presents to the newly-born etc.no love among relatives has become a normal phenomenon which needn't to be fussed about. what's worse is when love is contaminated by money. sooner or later we will get hurt. the sooner we get out of this net of love, the more we can preserve beautiful memories.。

关于爱情的英语演讲稿

关于爱情的英语演讲稿

爱情的英语演讲稿关于爱情的英语演讲稿If I speak in the tongues of men and of angels, but have not love, I am only a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal. If I have the gift of prophecy and can fathom all mysteries and all knowledge, and if I have a faith that can move mountains, but have not love, I am nothing. If I give all I possess to the poor and surrender my body to the flames, but have not love, I gain nothing.Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs.Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.Love never fails. But where there are prophecies, they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is knowledge, it will pass away. For we know in part and we prophesy in part, but when perfection comes, the imperfect disappears. When I was a child, I talked like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I put childish ways behind me. Now we see but a poor reflection as in a mirror; then we shall see face to face. Now I know in part; then I shall know fully, even as I am fully known. And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love.It hurts to love someone and not be loved in return. But what is more painful is to love someone and never find the courage to let that person know how you feel.A sad thing in life is when you meet someone who means a lot to you, only to find out in the end that it was never meant tobe and you just have to let go.The best kind of friend is the kind you can sit on a porch swing with, never say a word, and then walk away feeling like it was the best conversation you've ever had.It's true that we don't know what we've got until we lose it, but it's also true that we don't know what we've been missing until it arrives.It takes only a minute to get a crush on someone, an hour to like someone, and a day to love someone- but it takes a lifetime to forget someone. Don't go for looks; they can deceive. Don't go for wealth, even that fades away. Go for someone who makes you smile because it takes only a smile to make a dark day seem bright.Dream what you want to dream; go where you want to go; be what you wantto be, because you have only one life and one chance to do all the things you want to do.Always put yourself in the other's shoes. If you feel that it hurts you, it probably hurts the person too.A careless word may kindle strife; a cruel word may wreck a life; a timely word may level stress; a loving word may heal and bless.The happiest of people don't necessarily have the best of everything they just make the most of everything that comes along their way.Love begins with a smile, grows with a kiss, ends with a tear. When you were born, you were crying and everyone around you was smiling. Live your life so that when you die, you're the one smiling and everyone around you is crying.There was once a guy who suffered from cancer, a cancer thatcan?ˉt be cured. He was 18 years old and he could die anytime. All his life, he was stuck in his house being taken cared by his mother. He never went outside but he was sick of staying home and wanted to go out for once. So he asked his mother and she gave him permission.He walked down his block and found a lot of stores. He passed a CD store and looked through the front door for a second as he walked. He stopped and went back to look into the store. He saw a beautiful girl about his age and he knew it was love at first sight. He opened the door and walked in, not looking at anything else but her. He walked closer and closer until he was finally at the front desk where she sat.She looked up and asked, "Can I help you?"She smiled and he thought it was the most beautiful smile he has ever seen before and wanted to kiss her right there.He said, "Uh... Yeah... Umm... I would like to buy a CD."He picked one out and gave her money for it."Would you like me to wrap it for you?" she asked, smiling her cute smile again.He nodded and she went to the back. She came back with the wrapped CD and gave it to him. He took it and walked out of the store.He went home and from then on, he went to that store every day and bought a CD, and she wrapped it for him. He took the CD home and put it in his closet. He was still too shy to ask her out and he really wanted to but he couldn?ˉt. His mother fo und out about this and told him to just ask her. So the next day, he took all his courage and went to the store as usual. He bought a CD like he did every day and once again she went to the back of the store and came back with it wrapped. He took it and whenshe wasn?ˉt looking, he left his phone number on the desk and ran out...。

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TED 英语演讲:这才是爱情应有的样子今天小编为大家收集整理了关于TED英语演讲:这才是爱情应有的样子,希望大家会喜欢, 同时也希望给你们带来一些参考的作用!A better way to talk about loveOK, so today I want to talk about how wetalk about love.And specifically, I want to talk about what's wrong with howwe talk about love.今天我想谈谈我们是如何谈论爱情的。

我尤其想和你们聊的是,我们谈论爱情时到底哪里出错了。

Most of us will probably fall in love a fewtimes over the course of our lives, and in the English language, this metaphor,falling, is really the main way that we talk about that experience. I don'tknow about you, but when I conceptualize this metaphor, what I picture isstraight out of a cartoon —like there's a man, he's walking down the sidewalk, withoutrealizing it, he crosses over an open manhole, and he just plummets into thesewer below. And I picture it this way because falling is not jumping. Fallingis accidental, it's uncontrollable. It's something that happens to us withoutour consent. And this —this is the main way we talk about starting a new relationship.我们大多数人在一生中可能深爱过几次,在英语中,坠入爱河这个比喻,是我们谈论这段经历的主要方式。

我不知道你是怎么想的,但是当我把这个比喻概念化的时候,我脑海里浮现的是一幅漫画——就像有一个人,他走在人行道上,没有意识到自己走过一个打开的井盖,然后他就一头栽进下面的下水道里。

我会这么想是因为,坠落不是跳跃。

坠落是偶然的,是无法控制的。

是没经过我们的同意就发生了,而这我们说到开始一段新的感情,主要就用的这种方式去表达的。

I am a writer and I'm also an Englishteacher, which meansI think about words for a living. You could say that I getpaid to argue that the language we use matters, and I would like to argue thatmany of the metaphors we use to talk about love —maybe even most ofthem —are a problem.我是一名作家,同时也是一位英语老师,这就意味着我以思考语言为生。

你可能会说,我们使用的语言很重要,我认为我们用来谈论爱情的许多隐喻——甚至可能是其中的大多数都是有问题的。

So, in love, we fall. We're struck. Wea recrushed. Wes woon. Web urn with passion. Love makes us crazy, and it makes ussick. Our hearts ache, and then they break. So our metaphors equate theexperience of loving someonet o extreme violence or illness.于是,我们坠入爱河。

我们被击溃。

我们意乱情迷。

爱让我们疯狂,也让我们难受不已。

我们的心会痛,会心碎。

所以我们把深爱某人比喻为与极端暴力和疾病相关的比喻。

They do. And they position us as thevictims of unforeseen and totally unavoidable circumstances.My favorite one ofthese is "smitten," which is the past participle of the word"smite." And if you look this word up in the dictionary —you will seethat it can be defined as both "grievous affliction," and, "tobe very much in love." I tend to associate the word "smite"witha very particular context, which is the Old Testament. In the Book of Exodusalone, there are 16 references to smiting, which is the word that the Bibleuses for the vengeance of an angry God.确实是这样的。

这些比喻把我们看作在不可预见和完全不可避免的情况的受害者。

我最喜欢的一个是smitten ,它是smite 的过去分词如果你在字典里查这个词- 你会发现它既可以被定义为“极度痛苦” 也可以被定义为“神魂颠倒”。

我倾向于把"smite" 这个词和一个非常特殊的语境联系起来,那就是《旧约》。

仅在《出埃及记》中,就有16 处提到了smiting ,这是圣经中用来描述愤怒的上帝复仇的词。

(Laughter)Here we are using the same word to talkabout love that we use to explain a plague of locusts.Right?So, how did thishappen? How have we come to associate love with great pain and suffering?Andwhy do we talk about this ostensibly good experience as if we are victims?These are difficult questions, but I have some theories. And to think thisthrough, I want to focus on one metaphor in particular, which is the idea oflove asmadness.我们谈论爱情时所使用的词语和我们用来解释蝗虫的瘟疫所用的词语是同一个。

对吧?那么,怎么会这样呢?我们是为什么会把爱和巨大的痛苦联系在一起呢?为什么我们谈论这种看似美好的经历时将自己看做受害者呢?这些问题很难回答,但我有一些理论。

为了深入思考这个问题,我想特别关注一个比喻,那就是爱是疯狂的想法。

When I first started researching romanticlove, I found these madness metaphors everywhere. The history of Westernculture is full of language that equates love to mental illness. These are justa few examples. William Shakespeare: "Love is merely a madness," from"As You Like It."Friedrich Nietzsche: "There is always somemadness in love." "Got me looking, got me looking so crazy in love —"fromthe great philosopher, Beyonc éKnowles.当我第一次开始研究浪漫爱情时,我发现这些疯狂的隐喻无处不在。

西方文化史上充满了将爱情等同于精神疾病的语言。

这只是几个例子。

莎士比亚: “爱只不过是一种疯狂” ,出自《皆大欢喜》。

尼采: “爱情总有疯狂的时刻。

”伟大的哲学家碧昂丝·诺尔斯曾说过:“让我看起来疯狂,像是爱疯了”I fell in love for the first time when Iwas 20, and it was a pretty turbulent relationship right from the start. And itwas long distance for the first couple of years, so for met hat meant very highhighs and very lowlows. I can remember one moment in particular. I was sittingon a bed in a hostel in South America, and I was watching the person I lovewalk out the door. And it was late, it was nearly midnight, we'd gotten into anargument over dinner, and when we got back to our room, he threw his things inthe bag and stormed out. While I can no longer remember what that argument wasabout, I very clearly remember how I felt watching him leave.我第一次坠入爱河是在我20 岁的时候,从一开始这段关系就跌宕起伏。

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