独生子女的弱点

独生子女的弱点

独生子女存在的弱点已经使家长们担心,这种弱点一方面来自“独生”本身,

另一方面来自于“独生”导致家长出现的教养态度偏差和教育方式不当。这两方面的原因使一些孩子出现了毛病。

Of the weakness of only children have parents worry that this weakness from "single" itself on one hand, on the other hand from the "only" cause parents rearing attitude deviation and improper education methods. These two reasons make some children appeared a problem.

“独生”的孩子在家庭里没有年龄相近的伙伴,于是没有与兄弟姐妹共同生活、交往的经历,家长对孩子的关爱也更多。当孩子得到超量的爱、超量的呵护时,家长的教育理智被严重淡化了。家长的教育出现了以下失误:

"Only" children in the family there is no age in close partners, so there is no relationship with brothers and sisters live together, experience, and parents more care for children. When children get excess excess of love, care, parents' education is a serious reason. The parents' education appear the following error:

1、要什么给什么,这是独生子女自私任性的根本原因。当他的要求都得到满足,他会让为生活没有约束,变得不考虑别人。

1, what to what, this is the root cause of the only-child selfish capricious. When he demands have been met, he would have no constraints, for the life becomes not consider others.

2、过分地受人关注,这是孩子以自我为中心的来源。钢塑土工格栅当孩子受到家人过多的关怀时,他以为自己永远是的中心,他们会表现出缺乏爱心。

2, too much concern, it is the source of children to be self-centered. When child care by family too, he thought he forever yes center, they will show a lack of love.

3、缺乏纪律性,内心无善恶的界线。主要是因为家长教育不得法,对越轨行为采取了过于温和的态度,使孩子对行为没有正确认识。

3, lack of discipline, the heart has no boundaries between good and evil. Not method is mainly because parents education, attitude to deviant behavior taken too gentle, make the child without the correct understanding of behavior.

4、父母被孩子控制。由于只有一个孩子,父母往往更放纵孩子的行为,使孩子有了一套对付父母的办法。起重机配件以此控制父母并达到自己的目的。

4, control parents were children. Since there is only one child,

parents tend to be more indulgent children's behavior, make the child have a way to deal with parents. Parents to control and achieve their own purposes.

这些家长教育造成的原因,使独生子女出现了一些问题丙烯酸聚氨酯。

The reason caused the parents education to make the one-child appeared some problems.

1、孩子只知接受爱,不知给予爱。

1, the children know only accept love and give love.

2、孩子惟我独尊而且任性。

2, children self-centered and willful.

3、孩子缺乏责任心和义务感。

3, children lack the sense of responsibility and sense of obligation.

4、孩子消费超前,道德滞后。

4, children ahead of consumption, moral lag.

5、孩子依赖性大,各种能力差。

5, children dependency is big, all kinds of ability is poor.

6、孩子有孤独感,社会交往能力差。

6, children with loneliness and poor social skills.

这些毛病表现在孩子身长,但主要原因却是家长造成的,因此,家长应从自身找原因,防患于未然。首先要创造条件,让孩子多与小伙伴交往,让他在集体中成长。其次,建议家长把过量的爱护降温,华山松对待孩子更理智一些,不让孩子感觉他在家里是众人关注的中心。

These problems in children's height, but the main reason is the parents, so parents should look for reason, to nip in the bud. First need to create conditions to let children associate with friend, let him grow in the collective. Second, suggested that parents put too much care for the cooling, more rational to the children, don't let the children feel he is the center of attention at home.