《虎妈战歌》读后感

《虎妈战歌》读后感
" Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mother" the feeling after reading
开学不久，英语老师就介绍我们全班同学看一本书，名字叫做《虎妈战歌》。

这本书是讲述美国耶鲁大学的华裔教授蔡美儿如何教育她的两个女儿的故事，这本书也引起了社会的争议。

首先我对书本里面的十条规矩觉得非常的不可思议，作者对孩子的要求太严格了，孩子的童年可以说是没有自由的。

孩子缺少了自己的玩乐时间，这样的孩子虽然可能会很成功，但是她们有可能不能很好地和同学或者朋友相处，她们可能会患上自闭症。

我是既不同意蔡美儿的做法也不同意美国的教育孩子的方式，这些方式是两个极端，无论怎样，始终会对孩子的全方位的发展造成一定的影响。

在我看来，教育孩子既要严格也要给孩子一些私人的空间，这样孩子在父母的监督下可以很努力地学习，同时也有自己的想法，这样孩子可以更加地优秀，具有创新的能力。

中国的教育方式一值都是以严格出名的，那是因为中国的父母对孩子的期望非常的高，都希望自己的孩子的成绩比别人的孩子优秀，希望自己的孩子可以考上名牌的大学，然后能够拥有一份好的工作。

父母的这种想法完全是为了自己孩子的未来着想，父母们并不要求自己能够得到孩子的报答。

但是。

随着社会的发展，许多家长和学校都渐渐地注重孩子的创新意识，培养孩子的独立能力，注重孩子的个性发展，也会更加尊重孩子的兴趣爱好。

《虎妈战歌》告诉我们的教育方式有可能有效，但是这并不适合每个人，每个孩子的个性有不同，父母们应该根据自己孩子的实际情况因材施教，只有这样培育出来的孩子的整体素质才能是最棒的。

Opening soon, English teacher will introduce our class classmate see a book, called " Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mother". This book is about Yale university professor of the Chinese Amy Chua how to education her two daughters, the story of the book also caused social dispute. First , in my opinion the rules felt really incredible for children's requirements, the authors were too strict, child childhood can say is not free. Children without their own play time, this child though probably will be very successful, but they may not in good and classmates or friends, they may suffer from autism.
I don't agree with either Amy Chua practice also disagree with American education child's way, these ways are the two extremes, no matter what, always will to children's overall development and produce certain effect. In my opinion, education child should not only strictly also give him some private space, so that the child under the supervision of the parents can be very hard to learn, also have their own thoughts, so that the child can more excellent, innovative ability.
China's education means a value are strictly famous, it is because of China's parents ambitions for their children is very high, all hope their children grades are better than someone else's child excellent, hope that their children can be admitted to the university, then can find a good job. Parents' the idea is entirely for their children's future, parents don't think request oneself can get children's reward. But. With the development of society, many parents and schools are gradually pay attention to children's innovation consciousness, develop the child's independent ability, pay attention to children's personality development, also will be more respect your
child's interests.
Tiger mother tell us the way that she do is effective , but this may have effective are not suitable for everyone, every child's personality has different, parents should according to the actual situation of their children in accordance with their aptitude, only such nurtured the overall quality of the children to is the best.。