生男孩好还是女孩好

生男孩好还是女孩好？

我们知道，在传统中国人思想中，男孩子是一个家庭传宗接代的必须，没有男孩子，就等于一个家族没有了继承人，而女孩子将来时必须出嫁的，俗话说：“嫁出去的姑娘泼出去的水”，姑娘一旦嫁人了，就是别人家的人了，所以在中国老人们的传统观念中，男孩子比女孩子好！

随着时代的变化，经济的发展，人类迎来了高度发达的商品经济时代，人们对男孩子好还是女孩子好的思想观念也在逐渐发生变化。

在有的人眼中，他们认为如果是农村还是要男孩好，可以拥有土地和劳力。此外，，有一个男孩子，将来在父母年老失去劳动力时就等于有了依靠，有人来瞻仰，照顾自己，在他们眼中男孩子必须承担瞻仰老人的职责，而女孩子就没有这样的必须要求。

而又有人认为，现在是男多女少，生女孩更有社会优势，而且女孩更是父母的贴心宝，讨人喜欢，能给你带来更多的欢乐，从经济角度来说生女孩好，因为将来不用为他准备买房买车。

此外，也有一部分人认为：社会平等了，男女在求职工作、家庭地位、社会地位等等方面的差距逐渐被缩小，独生子女越来越多，男孩女孩从法律角度都必须承担老人的瞻仰义务，所以无论男女，只要培养好，教育好，将来都是最好的接班人。

在我看来，我同意第三种人的看法，男孩和女孩各有各的好，最重要的是健康。有一双健康的儿女就完美了，后天要教育好，德智体全面发展，我想无论是男孩还是女孩一样将来时社会的栋梁，家庭的支柱。

Is Burning a Boy or a Girl Better?

As we all know, in traditional Chinese thinking, a boy is obligated to a family child-bearing. If a family did not have a boy, it would no heir. Whereas girls must be married in the future, as the saying goes: "A married daughter is just like water that has been poured", she doesn't belong to her parents any more. So the old people in China own the traditional concepts of "boys are better than girls!”

Along with the time change and the economy development, human have ushered in a highly developed commodity economy era, and

people’s concepts of whether a boy or a girl is better have changed gradually.

Some people think a boy is better in rural area. Because a boy can have the land and he will be a labor. In addition, when the parents in their old age, boys should bear the responsibilities to behold them. But so do not girls.

In contrary some other people think there is more males than females in the modern society, burning a girl has more social advantages. From the economic point of view girls are better for need not to buy a car or a house. Besides girls are parents' sweet treasure, they are more likable and bring parents more joy.

However there are also some people who think that the society has been equal for men and women. The gap between them was gradually narrowing in the job work, family status, social status and so on. In addition, more and more families only have one child who must be liable for the old man's visit obligation from the legal Angle. In a word, regardless a boy or a girl will be a successor if they can receive good cultivation and education.

In my opinion, I agree with the third view. A boy or a girl each has their own superiorities. The most important is health, having a health child will be perfect. As long as they can receive good education and have all-round development, I think whether as a boy or a girl will be the pillar of the society and the family in the further.