中西方文化对于人际关系的影响

中西方文化对人际关系的影响主要是从宗教信仰文化法律

教育等方面论述

Religious faith: The Christian which includes Catholicism（天主教）,the Orthodox Eastern Church(东正教）and Protestantism(新教） is widely spread in the west, while Buddhsim is more received in China. Actully, Judaism （犹太教）and Islaism (伊斯兰教） are also having great influence on the interpersonal relationship in the west. So, the western interpersonal relationship is based on 神本位， while Chinese is based on 人本位. Further, the west value the equality more than china, which is the most obvious difference influenced by the religious.

Culture：西方的文化受基督教影响巨大，经受三次文化解放运动——文艺复兴，宗教改革，启蒙运动的洗礼，特别重视平等、自由、博爱、重视法律。东方的文化比较繁杂，但是儒家思想影响最大，儒家不像西方文艺复兴时代的思想家那样，突出人的个性自由与解放和个体的独立与发展，以人为本，仁政，以礼治国等思想深刻影响了我们现在的人际关系，民族性格中的中庸，忍让，重视合理的平等，重视德大于法。

Law： 西方法律受基督教影响形成自然法理论，强调“法律明确人人平等”，“国王在法律之下”，“司法独立”等等。东方法律受封建文化的影响，刑民不分，法律依附于政权，民众普遍不信任法律的作用，而是重视道德修养的问题。

教育：The education system in the west is different. In west, the students have to do research to answer some of the problems left by the teacher. They would also be given assignments that can last over a few week to work on. In their exams, the test papers are created as a challenge for every student, so theoreatically, no one is supposed to be able to achieve 100 percent.While, in China, there is less time to explore the answers for the students, on the contray, they are often given the fixed answers so that the ability of thinking is weakened. And, as to family education, western parents value the independence more than chinese parents. On the other hand, the sense of epuality is better develeped in western families

注：以上文化比较只是中国与以欧美为代表的西方文化对人际关系的大致比较，其中，西方文化中也大有不同，像家庭观念方面，美国和英国等国家对家庭的观念很淡薄，但是南欧的意大利，西班牙等国家人们的家庭观念与中国差不多，所以，我们可以看到，其实西方文化是一个很大的概念，要看我们怎么去定义，如何去理解，我们在此比较的只是大体的不同，其中的各国的不同还需我们在之后的学习生活中不断探索与归纳总结。

疑点：神本位与人本位的理解。