7种极品男 女人嫁了会吃苦

7种极品男女人嫁了会吃苦
爱是与生俱来的，所以可以认为是人性的特质，换言之，爱是作为人必须具备的本质之一。

但是，你所爱的那个人是不是也像你一样深信不疑的爱着你，带给你美好的爱情和幸福的家庭。

Love is born, so it can be thought of as human traits, in other words, one of the essence of love is as a person must possess. However, the one you love is also like you believe in love with you, give you good love and happy family.
女人们经常感概：这个世界上好男人已经绝种了！不是世界上没有好男人，而是你没有发现到好男人的存在。

现在告诉你，什么样的男人不是好男人，不能带给你幸福。

Women often feel: this world good men have died out! Is not no good man in the world, but you didn't find the good man. To tell you now, what kind of man is good man, can't bring you happiness.
1. 从不提及双方家庭和父母的男人
1. Never mention both sides parents and family man
80后这一代人，大多数都是自由恋爱，而非父母包办。

但对于恋爱和婚姻而言，无论是哪种形式，都是离不开父母的。

恋爱中，有些男人往往都只在乎女友的自身感受，而从不
考虑或者根本无视于自己或者对方的家庭和父母。

首先，可以这样说，这样的男人是不具备男人应有的责任感的，他们或许真正在乎的，只是恋爱时身心的愉悦和解脱，而这对于今后的婚姻来讲，是不够成熟的。

结婚之后，要么会表现出不孝顺，要么则是对你的父母冷淡，家庭之间也必然会矛盾重重，后果不堪设想。

从另一个角度来看，或许他们也是从没有考虑过与你结婚。

如果不以结婚为目的，那他为何还要和你谈及更深层次的话题呢？如果他只是玩玩，那你觉得跟这样的男人结婚，还有必要吗？
After 80 s generation, most are free love, rather than parents arranged. But for love and marriage, in any form, is inseparable from the parents. In love, some men are only care about his girlfriend's own feeling, but never think or ignored in themselves or each other's family and parents.
First of all, it can be said that such a man is not a man should have the sense of responsibility, they may truly care about, just fall in love of physical and mental pleasure and relief, and that for future marriage, is not mature enough. After marriage, will either show not filial piety, or is indifferent to your parents, family is bound to be between the contradictions, consequence is unimaginable. From another point of view, perhaps ?
2. 经常欠钱却还要与你“烛光晚餐”的男人
2. Often owe money is man "candlelight dinner with you
80后这一代，有的工作了都还在“啃老”，大多恋爱的时候，都是自己没挣钱或者即便挣了钱也没有太大的支付能力。

但是，有些人却为了恋爱不惜一切代价，为了讨好对方不惜向父母要钱，向兄弟借钱、借车，来和你共享那些他根本支付不起的生活。

首先来讲，这样的男人是不切实际的、虚荣的，也就是说是不踏实、靠不住的，为了讨你喜欢，他们可以牺牲其他人，那么说不定哪天，也可以牺牲你来换取别人的喜欢。

而另外一方面来看，他是不懂得生活。

富贵并不代表幸福，更何况是借来的富贵，你要寻找的，不过是那个能够真正和你过日子的人。

而这样的男人，婚后未必会对你如此。

After 80 s generation, some work is still in "into", most of love, is you don't have the money or even made money not too much ability to pay. But, some people to love at all costs, to please the other party do not hesitate to ask parents for money, brother to borrow money, borrow the car, to share with you the life he could afford.
First of all, this is unrealistic, vain man, that is, not steadfast, unreliable, to please you like, they can sacrifice other people, so maybe one day, also can sacrifice for others you like.
And the other hand, he is not understand life. Wealth does not mean happiness, moreover is a borrowed prosperity. ? you want
3. 脾气暴躁、有暴力倾向的男人
3.Temper and violent man
女人上当，往往都是因为男人对她好。

这些有暴力倾向的人，往往都是些“江湖人士”。

他们对待女人，好的时候会拼了命地对她好，但是，如果他们对你不好，或许真的会大打出手。

如果发现，那么劝你趁早离开。

不要继续发展成婚姻，这是避免家庭暴力最直接也是最有效的方法。

Women fall for it, often because men for her good.
These have a violent person, often is "river lake". They treat women good will desperately to her good, but, if they are bad for you, perhaps can really. If found, then advise you to leave early. Don't continue to develop into a marriage, this is to avoid domestic violence is the most direct and most effective method.
4. 胆小怕事、对你唯命是从的男人
4. The timid man, in your pocket
“要嫁就嫁灰太狼，这样的男人是榜样”——或许，现在的女人都喜欢灰太狼这样的
男人。

不过，“灰太狼男人”并不意味着胆小怕事，他只是对老婆百依百顺，对外却是敢于
担当，扛得起放得下的男子汉；他也并不是唯命是从，也会有自己的一些看法和主见。

女人，最需要的是安全感，如果男人连这个都给不起，别说婚姻了，恋爱都别谈。

"Marry marry grey Wolf, such a man is example" - perhaps, now women are like grey Wolf such a man. However, "grey Wolf man" does not mean that the timid, he is obedient to his wife, external is to take on responsibilities, carry affordable to put next to a man; He is not pocket, will also have their own views and ideas.
Woman, need most is a sense of security, if a man even can't afford to give this, don't say marriage, don't talk about love.
5. 动不动就以分手要挟你的男人
5.Ready to break up to coerce your man
爱情，是平等的；当然，婚姻更需要这种平等。

男人常用分手相要挟，女人不要不在乎，或许他并不只是简单的吓唬，而是你们之间真的存在一定的问题。

或者是你身上的某些性格特点他不能够容忍；或者是他心猿意马，喜欢上了另外一个比你更能够吸引他的女人；要么他就是神经质，精神有问题。

不论是上述哪种情况，这种行为都必然会对你的婚姻构成威胁，如果你没能察觉，那么最后也只能怪你自己，因为这无疑是你亲手埋下的一颗定时炸弹。

Love, is equal; Of course, more in need of this kind of marriage equality.
Men break up common threat, women don't don't care, maybe he is not just a simple frighten, but there are really some problems between you. Certain personality characteristics he or you will not be able to tolerate; Or is he in spirit, in love with another woman than you are more able to attract him; Either he is neurotic, spirit has a problem.
In these cases, this kind of behavior is bound to pose a threat to your marriage, if you didn't notice, so the last also can only blame yourself, because that is you personally buried a time bomb.
6. 嗜钱、嗜酒、嗜烟、嗜赌如命的男人
6. Love money, alcohol, tobacco and gambling like life man
给我留言或者写信的女人，有很多都是因为他们的丈夫有着不良嗜好。

或者为了自己的事业不顾及母子，或者是整日游手好闲，自己赚钱不多却仰仗着妻子养家。

绝对不要同情这样的男人，别以为他们会因为你而改变他们的臭毛病。

有的时候，你是不忍心看着他受罪的。

但现实却早已是，家不像家，孩子不像孩子了。

很多情况下，女人会选择继续下去，说是为了孩子，怕孩子心里有阴影。

那么，恋爱之时为何不早些发现？非等给婚姻留下后患呢？
Give me a message or write to a woman, there are a lot of all because their husband have bad habits. Or for your own career regardless of mother and child, or idle all day long, your money is dependent on his wife for the family.
Don't sympathize with such a man, don't think they will because you and change their pitfalls. Sometimes, you cannot bear to see him suffer. But the reality is, the home is not like home, children don't like a child.
In many cases, a woman can choose to continue, for children, afraid of children in the mind have the shadow. So, why not found early dating? Not wait for marriage leave for?
7. 敢于为你离婚的男人
7. Who dared to divorce for you man
因为你而伤害了另外一个女人，破坏了一个家庭，那么谁也不敢保证，下一个伤害的人
就是你，下一个被破坏的，就是你自己的家庭。

不否认你们之间有真的感情，但是你毕竟是他的情人，而情人的真正魅力，恐怕就在于
情人本身。

一旦成为妻子，便注定两人爱情的终结，新鲜感和刺激感的终结，所谓的幸福和
快乐的终结。

所以，情人即便得逞，下场也往往都是难堪的。

如果他为了你而放弃自己的家庭，这样的男人是最可恨也是最没有责任感的。

你们最终
是不可能有好的结果的。

趁早选择真正属于你自己的感情，这才是正路。

To hurt another woman because of you, destroyed a family, so who also can't guarantee, the
next hurt people is you, the next was damaged, is that your own family.
Don't deny your true feelings, but you, after all, is his lover, for lover's really charm, lies in the lover's itself, I'm afraid. Once become a wife, is the ending of the love of two people, novelty and excitement that end, the end of the so-called happiness and joy. So, the lover even if successful, end also tend to be embarrassed.
If he is to you and give up their own family, so of man is the most hateful is also the most no sense of responsibility. Y ou is impossible to have good results in the end. Early selection really belongs to you。