知见心理学精髓

知见心理学原则

1) Whenever there is a problem or conflict, there has to be a better way. Even in the most difficult of situations, there is always a solution that would allow everyone to win. Love, joining, forgiveness, communication, cooperation, and choice will lead us through.

每当遇到问题或冲突时，一定有更好的解决方法。即使是在最困难的处境下，总是会找出一个让大家突破困境、均霑其利的方法。爱、连接、宽恕、沟通、合作及选择，都会指引我们方向，带领我们穿越困难。

2) The world is our mirror. Anything we do to others we do to ourselves first. We can only accuse others of something that we believe we ourselves are doing. We make our own reality and write our own stories. Conflicts with others reflect conflicts within ourselves. By resolving our inner issues, we automatically resolve the problems in our world.

世界是我们的镜子。我们施加在他人身上的行为，首先都是施加在自己身上的。如果我们不去伤害自己，那么除了自己以外，任何人都无法伤害我们自己。我们每个人都在创造着自己的现实世界，编写我们自己的故事。我们和他人的纠葛，正反映着我们自己内心的纠葛。因此，只要解决我们内在问题，自然我们就解决了现实世界的问题。

3) Anything that happens to us serves our purpose. When painful events occur, we typically have hidden the awareness of the purpose of the events from ourselves. Through accountability, we gain the power to make another choice, and to change what we do not like in our world.

发生在我们身上的任何事情都有其目的

当发生痛苦的事情时，我们通常不会觉察到事情本来目的。透过责任原则，我们获得力量并做出不同的选择，就会改变我们世界中让我们反感的地方。

4) No one can do anything to us that we are not already doing to ourselves. No one can do anything to us that we are not also, at some level, doing to others.

如果我们自己不伤害自己，没有人可以伤害我们。

5) As we change our beliefs, we change our patterns. Our direction in life comes from our attitude, which is the result of our continuous choices toward the same end.

当我们改变自己的信念，我们就能改变我们的模式。我们在人生的方向来自于我们的态度，这是朝着同一目标我们不断选择的结果。

6) We are always in the perfect place to learn the lesson we most need to learn in order to heal and grow. Our most painful experiences, once they are healed, become the greatest gifts to ourselves and to others.

我们身处的地方，就是学习成长和疗愈的最好的地方。我们最痛苦的经验，一旦得到疗愈，就成为我

们自己和身边人最好的礼物。

7) We construct either heaven or hell on earth, depending on what we give to our relationships. They are the means to create transformation. To bond with others and heal relationships creates an accelerated path of growth, because healing the distance between ourselves and those around us heals problems.

我们能把这个世界变成天堂还是地狱取决于我们在关系里所付出的。他们是转化的工具。和他人建立联系，疗愈人际关系，可以加快成长的脚步。修复自己与周围人的关系，问题也就随之解决了。

8) Leadership lets nothing be more important than answering the calls for help around us. As we recognize that our best interests and the best interests of others are always the same, we move ourselves forward also. To have true success, everyone's interests must be served. If anyone is the "bad guy," everyone loses. It is essential to keep communicating until everyone wins.

领袖力中，对求助者伸出援手是无比重要的。因为我们认识到，我们的最大利益和他人的最佳利益，始终是一样的时候，我们就向前迈进了。要得到真正的成功，每个人的利益必须得到保障。如果有人做了“坏人”，我们大家就会输。持续不断的沟通是共赢的保证。

9) Problems are opportunities to heal the pain of the past, disguised as the pain of the present. All healing is part of our general purpose; it leads us towards our personal purpose. It is never too late to have a happy childhood. This recognizes that all pain is a misunderstanding. As problems are solved, understanding is brought to past and present circumstances, and our history and our future change for the better.

困难是给你疗愈过去痛苦的机会，因为它掩饰着目前的痛苦。疗愈是我们基本

目标一部分，它引领我们实现个人目标。拥有一个快乐童年，现在为时未晚。

一切到痛苦来自误解。如果问题能够解决，对于过去及现在就会有新的理解，

我们的过去及未来都会变得更好。

10) The key to our fulfillment is to live our purpose. Embracing our destiny is the best gift we can give the world. Our personal destiny and purpose is to help the world in some way unique to us.

有目标的生活是自我实现的关键。生活的使命就是要幸福。接受天命是我们给这个世界最好的礼物。我们接受个人的命运和目标是疗愈这个世界的独一无二的方式。

11) All manner of pain and suffering are washed away by love, when empathic "joining" between two or more people occurs. By transcending personal barriers we can become "one" with others, and experience the higher states of consciousness in which pain can no longer exist.

痛楚与苦难，可以用爱洗去。在两个或更多的人彼此连结，产生共鸣时，爱就