《人性的弱点》英语介绍
人性的弱点(英语)
The weakness of human is just a kind of view that describe some bad thing happens in our daily life,and shows humans shortcoming .Each people all have the weakness of human nature,such as gluttony,greed,sloth,pride,lazy,lust and envy.we just think highly of the bad thing that human weakness brings to us while overlook the breakthrough.We are too lazy to go somewhere on foot,so our ancestors tried a variety of measures to satisfy this human weakness .In ancient times we ride to everywhere ,in nowadays we can choose to ride a bike ,take a bus ,take a plane or take the subway to our destination which give us a lots of opportunity to go more places and view some beautify spot ,see variety person and know their stories.we are too lazy to wash our dirty clothes,so we invent the washing machine which can not only bring us more time to entertain ourselves but also improve working efficiency .we are too lazy to drink water in the river so we invent the bucket.Things may also turn to bad when we become too lazy .even in my school we take a bus to go to class which is just a short distance.The arise of the obesity may have something with too much vehicle.anoter example ,one of my roommate who never occurs on the morning classes,because she was in the bed at morning ,attending the morning classes is too hard for her,it is also too hard for her to defeat her lazy! Obviously she missed many knowledge and fun.on the one hand lazy may block our daily life ,but on the other hand it really brings a lot for us!So the key is how we control our lazy or weakness. How we use our weakness to perfect ourselves.When someone teases you ,you may feel sad or even want to finish your valuable life.when this stupid view occurs to you ,just think about why she or he tease you ?Is there something you really need to revise. Or you should really do something to prove their tease was unwise.And you may do what you can do to advance yourself and finally you become a talent man.In the other word you may tease someone else unconsciously ,how suffering she or him may be ?so stop tease others right now.Tease sometimes may hurt our fragile heart,but may also give us endless power to prove ourselves.which depends on how we deal with it!Just view everything ordinary.Human weakness never develope in a day and never disappear in a day.It is a long way for us to dispense human weakness.And we can use human weakness to invent something or to spot the human quality .Learn to understand yourself by asking your friends or justyourself,know your weakness that makes you unhappy or makes other unhappy.Then do something to drop it out little by little.Every day when you wake up,smile to the mirror and say “hello , today I willnot let my human weakness bother me ”.Learn to forgive others.your friend may unconsciously tease your new looking which really looks strange.And you may have a thought in your mind “I can’t belive that my best friend even tease at me ,Iwant to break up with him”so you may loose your best friend whom you may have teased at her yellow short hair before.forever just for the little thing .。
《人性的弱点》英语论文
The Wisdom of Showing Concerns towards others in How to Win Friendsand Influence PeopleAbstractSince the publication of his first book How to Win Friends and Influence People in 1936, Dale Carnegie has touched millions of readers and his classic works continues to impact lives to this day. It can be seen clearly that Carnegie fully expresses some skills in handling people, making people to like us by showing concerns towards others. It provides some hints for modern individuals in their development of rapport and communication skills.Key Words:communication skills , Carnegie , others ,concerns1. IntroductionDale Carnegie (1888-1955) was a pioneer of the self-improvement genre. The book How to Win Friends and Influence People is the classic book about rapport and communication skills. Well interpersonal relationship will minimize the effort required to have work completed. There is no doubt that developing the rapport with others is a crucial part of our daily life and it will benefit us in various aspects. There is a perfect combination of vivid examples and concise words in Carnegie’s suggestion of communication skills. Among these communication skills, many are relevant to showing concerns to others. The value of showing concerns towards others is worthy of exploring.2. The Wisdom of showing concerns to othersShowing concerns to others plays a crucial role in learning how to make people like you and win people over to your way of thinking.2.1 make people like youAlmost everyone desires to be welcomed everywhere. However, it is very difficult for one to make it come true when he spares no efforts in getting other people interested in him. In Carnegie’s view, “You can make more friends in two months by becoming interested in other people than you can in two years by trying to get other people interested in you”(Carnegie59) Psychologically, human being are self-centered bynature. So becoming genuinely interested in others will fulfill this kind of needs of other persons. The happiness and sense of fulfillment derived from it is obviously clear. Paying more attention to others not only helps us to win friends, but also to some aspect helps the receivers. To assume that when we are frustrated and lonely, a warmth and tenderness from others will somewhat be comforting.Carnegie also emphasizes the importance of being a good listener. He suggests us to encourage others to talk about them. As we all know, an interesting conversationalist can always draw our attention. Carnegie holds the view that “if you aspire to be a good conversationalist, be an attentive listener.”(Carnegie94)Sometimes a good listener is equal to an interesting conversationalist. We all dislike those who talk only of themselves or like to interrupt other’s conversation. In contrast, we are willing to make friends with those who can always be attentive and sympathetic listeners. As the Reader’s Digest once said: “Many persons call a doctor when all they want is an audience,”It is not uncommon that what we all want when we are in trouble is merely a friendly, sympathetic listener to whom we could unburden ourselves.2.2 Win people over to your way of thinkingOne of Carnegie’s advice on win people over to you way of thinking is “show respect for the other person's opinion, never say, 'you are wrong.' ” (Carnegie127)Not even the most distinguished person can be right all the time. As to common people, we can’t be sure of being right even 55 percent of the time. In this situation, why should we tell other people they are wrong? By telling others they are wrong, we have struck a direct blow at their intelligence, judgment, pride and self-respect. That will make them want to strike back. But it will never alter their opinions, for we have hurt their feelings.“The little word“my” is the most important one in human affair, and properly to reckon with it is the beginning of wisdom.”(Carnegie120) We should liberate ourselves from theself-concerned thinking pattern. Showing more respect to others opinion and taking their feeling into consideration will win more agreement than argument.What’s more, we should “Try honestly to see things from the other person’s point of view.”(Carnegie163)Seeing things through another person’s eyes may ease tensions when interpersonal problemsbecome overwhelming. One of my friends once complained to me about her roommates. On her birthday, her roommates sent her a Green Tea cake which is always the last choice of her. She thought that they intentionally made her awkward. However, I think neither my friend nor her roommates have stood in other’s place to think question. Her roommates just chose the flavor of cake according to their own. and accidently got the unsuitable one. If my friend had seen this through her roommates’ eyes, she would not care about this trivial thing. For the sake of winning people to think in our way, we can by no means lose sight of their view.3. ConclusionTo sum up, showing concerns to others is of great importance. It can not only help us to win more friends but also win people over to our way of thinking. If we can keep this in mind, we can build a much more harmonious rapport.Dale Carnegie .How to Win Friends and Influence People.Simon & Schuster.2010。
人性弱点英语作文
Title: The Vulnerabilities of Human Nature In the intricate tapestry of human existence, the weaknesses of our nature often emerge as the threads that bind us to our flaws and imperfections. These vulnerabilities, though often overlooked or denied, form the core of our humanity, shaping our decisions, emotions, and ultimately, our destinies.One of the most prominent weaknesses of human nature is the tendency to succumb to greed and selfishness. Theallure of material possessions and power often blinds us to the larger picture, causing us to prioritize our own interests over the welfare of others. This selfishness not only erodes our moral fiber but also undermines the fabric of society, leading to distrust, division, and conflict.Another weakness is our susceptibility to fear and anxiety. The unknown, the unfamiliar, and the potential for loss can all trigger deep-seated fears that cloud our judgment and paralyze our actions. These fears often lead us to make hasty decisions, avoid risks, or even retreat from challenges that could lead to personal growth and fulfillment.Furthermore, the tendency to judge and criticize others is another significant weakness of human nature. We are quick to point out the flaws and shortcomings of others while ignoring our own imperfections. This judgmental attitude not only hinders our ability to empathize and understand others but also creates a toxic environment that discourages honesty and openness.However, it is important to recognize that these weaknesses are not inherently negative. In fact, they can serve as powerful motivators for personal growth and societal progress. By acknowledging our vulnerabilities and working to overcome them, we can develop greater self-awareness, empathy, and resilience.For instance, overcoming greed and selfishness can lead to a more compassionate and generous approach to life, where we prioritize the welfare of others and contribute to the common good. Confronting our fears and anxieties can foster bravery and courage, enabling us to take risks, face challenges, and achieve our full potential. And, by refraining from judgment and criticism, we can cultivate amore inclusive and understanding society where everyone is treated with dignity and respect.In conclusion, the weaknesses of human nature are an integral part of our being, shaping our thoughts, actions, and relationships. While these vulnerabilities can sometimes lead us astray, they also provide valuable opportunities for growth and transformation. By acknowledging and working through our weaknesses, we can develop a deeper understanding of ourselves and others, leading to a more meaningful and fulfilling life.**人性的弱点**在人类存在的复杂织锦中,人性的弱点往往作为将我们与缺陷和不完美联系在一起的纽带而浮现出来。
人性的弱点(英语)
人性的弱点(英语)The weakness of human is just a kind of view that describe some bad thing happens in our daily life,and shows humans shortcoming .Each people all have the weakness of human nature,such as gluttony,greed,sloth,pride,lazy,lust and envy.we just think highly of the bad thing that human weakness brings to us while overlook the breakthrough.We are too lazy to go somewhere on foot,so our ancestors tried a variety of measures to satisfy this human weakness .In ancient times we ride to everywhere ,in nowadays we can choose to ride a bike ,take a bus ,take a plane or take the subway to our destination which give us a lots of opportunity to go more places and view some beautify spot ,see variety person and know their stories.we are too lazy to wash our dirty clothes,so we invent the washing machine which can not only bring us more time to entertain ourselves but also improve working efficiency .we are too lazy to drink water in the river so we invent the bucket.Things may also turn to bad when we become too lazy .even in my school we take a bus to go to class which is just a short distance.The arise of the obesity may have something with too much vehicle.anoter example ,one of my roommate who never occurs on the morning classes,because she was in the bed at morning ,attending the morning classes is too hard for her,it is also too hard for her to defeat her lazy! Obviously she missed many knowledge and fun.on the one hand lazy may block our daily life ,but on the other hand it really brings a lot for us!So the key is how we control our lazy or weakness. How we use our weakness to perfect ourselves.When someone teases you ,you may feel sad or even want to finish your valuable life.when this stupid view occurs to you ,just think about why she or he tease you ?Is there something you really need to revise. Or you should really do something to prove their tease was unwise.And you may do what you can do to advance yourself and finally you become a talent man.In the other word you may tease someone else unconsciously ,how suffering she or him may be ?so stop tease others right now.Tease sometimes may hurt our fragile heart,but may also give us endless power to prove ourselves.which depends on how we deal with it!Just view everything ordinary.Human weakness never develope in a day and never disappear in a day.It is a long way for us to dispense human weakness.And we can use human weakness to invent something or to spot the human quality .Learn to understand yourself by asking your friends or just yourself,know your weakness that makes you unhappy or makes other unhappy.Then do something to drop it out little by little.Every day when you wake up,smile to the mirror and say “hello , today I willno t let my human weakness bother me ”.Learn to forgive others.your friend may unconsciously tease your new looking which really looks strange.And you may have a thought in your mind “I can’t belive that my best friend even tease at me ,Iwant to break up wi th him”so you may loose your best friend whom you may have teased at her yellow short hair before.forever just for the little thing .。
人性的弱点英语演讲.
Boys and girls,Today I’ ll introduce a book from Dale Carnegie. It is how to win friends and influence people. Maybe some of you have heard about it or even read it, but I still want to give you a deeper introduction because it’ s pretty influential for g enerations.Before I present this book, let’ s acknowledge the author’ s living, the great man, Dale Carnegie.Dale Carnegie was an American writer, lecturer and the developer of famous courses in self-improvement, salesmanship, corporate training, public speaking and interpersonalskills. Born in poverty on a farm in Missouri [mi'zu əri , he was the author of How to Win Friends and Influence People, a massive bestseller that remains popular today. He also wrote How to Stop Worrying and Start Living , Lincoln the Unknown , and several other books. One of the core ideas in his books is that it is possible to change other people's behavior by changing one's reaction to them.Here is some of his famous words in speeches and books.The essence of all art is to take pleasure in giving pleasure.I am very fond of strawberries and cream, but I have found that for some strange reason, fish prefer worms. So when I went fishing, I didn’ t think about what I wanted. I thought about what they wanted. I didn't bait the hook with strawberries and cream. Rather, I dangled a worm or grasshopper in front of the fish.People rarely succeed unless they have fun in what they are doing.I don’ t have enough time to get into this great man. It ’ s really interesting to recognize him and his idea. I hope you can search him more on the internet.Now, let’ s move on to today’ s body part. How to win friends and influence people? This is one of the first bestselling self-help books ever published. Written by Dale Carnegie and first published in 1936, it has sold 15 million copies world-wide. However, this number is still enlarging for this book is needed in each era.Why it is so popular since its first publication?It’ s main purposes will explain it.1. Get you out of a mental rut, give you new thoughts, new visions, new ambitions.2. Enable you to make friends quickly and easily.3. Increase your popularity.4. Help you to win people to your way of thinking.5. Increase your influence, your prestige, your ability to get things done.6. Enable you to win new clients, new customers.7. Increase your earning power.8. Make you a better salesman, a better executive.9. Help you to handle complaints, avoid arguments, keep your human contacts smooth and pleasant.10.Make you a better speaker, a more entertaining conversationalist.11.Make the principles of psychology easy for you to apply in your daily contacts.12.Help you to arouse enthusiasm among your associates.Since most of you haven’ t read this book, I extract some essence we can shar e today. Fundamental Techniques in Handling People1. Don't criticize, condemn, or complain.2. Give honest and sincere appreciation.3. Arouse in the other person an eager want.4. Never show others that you are not interested in what they have to say.Six Ways to Make People Like You1. Become genuinely interested in other people.2. Smile.3. Remember that a person's name is, to that person, the sweetest and most important sound in any language.4. Be a good listener. Encourage others to talk about themselves.5. Talk in terms of the other person's interest.6. Make the other person feel important – and do it sincerely.Twelve Ways to Win People to Your Way of Thinking1. The only way to get the best of an argument is to avoid it.2. Show respect for the other person's opinions. Never say "You're Wrong."3. If you're wrong, admit it quickly and emphatically.4. Begin in a friendly way.5. Start with questions to which the other person will answer yes.6. Let the other person do a great deal of the talking.7. Let the other person feel the idea is his or hers.8. Try honestly to see things from the other person's point of view.9. Be sympathetic with the other person's ideas and desires.10.Appeal to the nobler motives.11.Dramatize your ideas.12.Throw down a challenge.Seven Rules For Making Your Home Life Happier1. Don't nag.2. Don't try to make your partner over.3. Don't criticize.4. Give honest appreciation.5. Pay much attention.6. Be courteous.Interest aroused? Why not grab one and start right now? hope you have a fresh vision about life.Thank you very much.。
《人性的弱点》梗概作文
《人性的弱点》梗概作文英文回答:"Human Nature and Weaknesses" is a book that explores the various aspects of human behavior and psychology. It sheds light on the weaknesses that are inherent in human nature and how they can affect our relationships, success, and overall well-being.One of the main themes of the book is the importance of understanding and empathizing with others. It emphasizes that people are driven by their own desires, fears, and insecurities, and that by understanding these motivations, we can better navigate our interactions with others. For example, the author shares a story of a man who was able to diffuse a tense situation at work by taking the time to listen to his colleague's concerns and validating his feelings.Another key aspect of human nature explored in the bookis the desire for recognition and praise. The author explains that people have an inherent need to feel valued and appreciated, and that by acknowledging and praising others, we can build stronger relationships and motivate them to achieve their best. For instance, the author shares a story of a manager who noticed the hard work of his team members and publicly praised their efforts, resulting in increased morale and productivity.The book also delves into the concept of self-interest and the need for self-preservation. It highlights that people are often driven by their own self-interests andwill act in ways that benefit themselves, even if it may harm others. However, it also emphasizes the importance of finding a balance between self-interest and the well-being of others. For example, the author shares a story of a woman who was initially focused on her own success butlater realized the importance of collaboration and supporting others, leading to greater overall success for everyone involved.Furthermore, the book explores the impact of fear andinsecurity on human behavior. It explains that fear can lead to defensive and irrational actions, as people try to protect themselves from perceived threats. The author provides examples of individuals who let fear dictate their actions, leading to negative consequences. However, it also offers strategies for overcoming fear and building resilience, such as reframing negative thoughts and focusing on personal growth.In conclusion, "Human Nature and Weaknesses" provides valuable insights into the complexities of human behavior. It highlights the importance of understanding and empathizing with others, recognizing and praising their efforts, finding a balance between self-interest and the well-being of others, and overcoming fear and insecurity. By applying these lessons to our own lives, we can navigate relationships more effectively, achieve success, and improve our overall well-being.中文回答:《人性的弱点》这本书探讨了人类行为和心理学的各个方面。
人性的弱点(卡耐基励志经典 英文原版)
Chapter 9 Making People Glad to Do What You Want
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In a Nutshell
Chapter 1
How to Dig
Your
Marital
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Grave in
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Chapter 2
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Love and
Let Live
目录分析
Chapter 1 If You Want to Gather Honey, Don t Kick over the Beehive
Chapter 2 Tห้องสมุดไป่ตู้e Big Secret of
Dealing with People
Chapter 3 He Who Can Do This Has the Whole World with Him. He Who Cannot Walks a Lonely Way
This Is the Way to Begin
Chapter 2 How to Criticize—and
Not Be Hated for It
Chapter 3 Talk about Your Own Mistakes First
Chapter 4 No One Likes to Take Orders
Chapter 6 If You Want to Be Happy, Don t
Neglect This One
Chapter 7 Don t Be a Marriage Illiterate
作者介绍
卡耐基(Dale Carnegie,1888年11月24日-1955年11月1日),全名戴尔·卡耐基,出生于美国密苏里州, 毕业于密苏里州华伦斯堡州立师范学院,美国著名的人际关系学大师,是西方现代人际关系教育的奠基人。卡耐 基利用大量普通人不断努力取得成功的故事,通过演讲和书籍唤起无数陷入迷惘者的斗志,激励他们取得辉煌的 成功,出版的著作《人性的弱点》,被西方世界视为社交技巧的圣经之一。他曾获得了勒伯第青年演说家奖,于 1955年11月1日逝世。
最新《人性的弱点》英语资料
The Wisdom of Showing Concerns towards others in How to Win Friendsand Influence PeopleAbstractSince the publication of his first book How to Win Friends and Influence People in 1936, Dale Carnegie has touched millions of readers and his classic works continues to impact lives to this day. It can be seen clearly that Carnegie fully expresses some skills in handling people, making people to like us by showing concerns towards others. It provides some hints for modern individuals in their development of rapport and communication skills.Key Words:communication skills , Carnegie , others ,concerns1. IntroductionDale Carnegie (1888-1955) was a pioneer of the self-improvement genre. The book How to Win Friends and Influence People is the classic book about rapport and communication skills. Well interpersonal relationship will minimize the effort required to have work completed. There is no doubt that developing the rapport with others is a crucial part of our daily life and it will benefit us in various aspects. There is a perfect combination of vivid examples and concise words in Carnegie’s suggestion of communication skills. Among these communication skills, many are relevant to showing concerns to others. The value of showing concerns towards others is worthy of exploring.2. The Wisdom of showing concerns to othersShowing concerns to others plays a crucial role in learning how to make people like you and win people over to your way of thinking.2.1 make people like youAlmost everyone desires to be welcomed everywhere. However, it is very difficult for one to make it come true when he spares no efforts in getting other people interested in him. In Carnegie’s view, “You can make more friends in two months by becoming interested in other people than you can in two years by trying to get other peopleinterested in you”(Carnegie59) Psychologically, human being are self-centered by nature. So becoming genuinely interested in others will fulfill this kind of needs of other persons. The happiness and sense of fulfillment derived from it is obviously clear. Paying more attention to others not only helps us to win friends, but also to some aspect helps the receivers. To assume that when we are frustrated and lonely, a warmth and tenderness from others will somewhat be comforting.Carnegie also emphasizes the importance of being a good listener. He suggests us to encourage others to talk about them. As we all know, an interesting conversationalist can always draw our attention. Carnegie holds the view that “if you aspire to be a good conversationalist, be an attentive listener.”(Carnegie94)Sometimes a good listener is equal to an interesting conversationalist. We all dislike those who talk only of themselves or like to interrupt other’s conversation. In contrast, we are willing to make friends with those who can always be attentive and sympathetic listeners. As the Reader’s Digest once said: “Many persons call a doctor when all they want is an audience,”It is not uncommon that what we all want when we are in trouble is merely a friendly, sympathetic listener to whom we could unburden ourselves.2.2 Win people over to your way of thinkingOne of Carnegie’s advice on win people over to you way of thinking is “show respect for the other person's opinion, never say, 'you are wrong.' ” (Carnegie127)Not even the most distinguished person can be right all the time. As to common people, we can’t be sure of being right even 55 percent of the time. In this situation, why should we tell other people they are wrong? By telling others they are wrong, we have struck a direct blow at their intelligence, judgment, pride and self-respect. That will make them want to strike back. But it will never alter their opinions, for we have hurt their feelings.“The little word“my” is the most important one in human affair, and properly to reckon with it is the beginning of wisdom.”(Carnegie120) We should liberate ourselves from theself-concerned thinking pattern. Showing more respect to others opinion and taking their feeling into consideration will win more agreement than argument.What’s more, we should “Try honestly to see things from the other person’s point of view.”(Carnegie163)Seeing things through another person’s eyes may ease tensions when interpersonal problems become overwhelming. One of my friends once complained to me about her roommates. On her birthday, her roommates sent her a Green Tea cake which is always the last choice of her. She thought that they intentionally made her awkward. However, I think neither my friend nor her roommates have stood in other’s place to think question. Her roommates just chose the flavor of cake according to their own. and accidently got the unsuitable one. If my friend had seen this through her roommates’ eyes, she would not care about this trivial thing. For the sake of winning people to think in our way, we can by no means lose sight of their view.3. ConclusionTo sum up, showing concerns to others is of great importance. It can not only help us to win more friends but also win people over to our way of thinking. If we can keep this in mind, we can build a much more harmonious rapport.Dale Carnegie .How to Win Friends and Influence People.Simon & Schuster.2010。
人性的弱点--英文presentation
Chapters
• Part 1 – Fundamental(基本的) Techniques In Handling People • Part 2 - Six Ways To Make People Like You • Part 3 - Twelve Ways To Win People To Your Way Of Thinking • Part 4 - Nine Ways To Change People Without Giving Offence Or Arousing Resentment(激起怨 恨) • Part 5 - Letters That Produced Miraculous Results • Part 6 - Seven Rules For Making Your Home Life Happier
Part 1 – Fundamental(基本的) Techniques In Handling People
• Principle 1: Don’t criticize, condemn or complain. • 不要批评、指责或抱怨。 • Principle 2: Try leaving a friendly trail of litter sparks of gratitude on your daily trips, give honest and sincere appreciation. • 在你每天的生活之旅中,努力留下赞美的 温馨,给予真挚诚恳的赞美。 • Principle 3: Arouse in the other person an eager want.
• Principle 1: Become genuinely interested in other people.
《人性的弱点》梗概作文
《人性的弱点》梗概作文英文回答:"Human Nature: A General View" is a book written by Dale Carnegie, which discusses the various aspects of human behavior and psychology. The book is divided into several sections, each focusing on different aspects of human nature and how they can be understood and managed.The first section of the book discusses the fundamental principles of human behavior, such as the desire for recognition, the need to feel important, and the importance of understanding and respecting others. Carnegie provides various examples and anecdotes to illustrate these principles and how they can be applied in real-life situations.The second section of the book delves into the art of handling people, providing practical advice on how to communicate effectively, build rapport, and resolveconflicts. Carnegie emphasizes the importance of empathy, understanding others' perspectives, and finding common ground to build positive relationships.The third section focuses on how to become a leader, emphasizing the importance of inspiring and motivating others, as well as the need for integrity, sincerity, and a positive attitude. Carnegie provides numerous examples of successful leaders and their leadership styles,highlighting the key traits that contribute to their effectiveness.The final section of the book discusses how toinfluence and inspire others, emphasizing the power of appreciation, praise, and encouragement. Carnegie also discusses the importance of being a good listener, showing genuine interest in others, and providing constructive feedback.Overall, "Human Nature: A General View" provides valuable insights into human behavior and psychology, offering practical advice on how to understand, communicate,and lead others effectively. It is a timeless classic that continues to be relevant in today's world.中文回答:《人性的弱点》是戴尔·卡耐基所著的一本书,讨论了人类行为和心理的各个方面。
人性的弱点英文读书报告
The Book ReportIn today's societies, relationships play a very important role. It can affect aperson's future, affect people's living environment, and sometimes evendetermine the extent of happy life. University is half society, learning to dealwith interpersonal relationships in college is of great important for the careerdevelopment of graduation college students and has a positive effect on livingenvironment. Moreover, the university itself needs us to deal with relationshipsbetween students, between teachers and students, among roommates,between friends, etc. We have to continue to coordinate, to find the optimalapproach to deal with interpersonal relationships. After reading the book"HOWTO WIN FRIENDS AND INFLUENCE PEOPLE"written by Dale Carnegie, I havedeeper understanding and insight to human nature and the interpersonalrelationship.Especially the book was cited examples of life, which gave me a lotof inspiration, and I changed some of my views on the matter. It also affectedmy attitude towards future work to some extent.There are four parts in this book. Part one: Fundamental Techniques inHandling People, part two: Six Ways to Make People Like You, part three: Howto Win People to Your Way of Thinking, part three: How to Win People to YourWay of Thinking, part four: Be a Leader: How to Change People Without GivingOffense or Arousing Resentment. In the depths of these words, I had a verystrong resonance with the author. This is why it is my favorite book. The mostimpressed part in the book is the essay which tells that a father who felt guiltyabout his criticism to his son came to his son's beside to apologize for what hehas done. The essay let me understand that we should try to understand andpardon others instead of condemning them. I am also touched by the great lovebetween the father and the son.After reading this book, I benefit a lot from it. This book has repeatedlyconveyed to the readers an idea, which is to be good at getting along with othersand to become a communication expert, and this idea can not only make life gomore smoothly but also make others live a happy life. Whether at any stage oflife, to learn how to treat people is very important. After a year of college life, Ideeply realize that people who are gifted at communicating with others arealways welcome and themselves are to live relatively happy. On the other hand,I get six principles to make people like me. When we communicate with others,we should become genuinelyinterested in other people and encourage others totalk about themselves. I think the most significant way is smiling. What's more,I learn how to win people to my way of thinking. In the twelve principles, I thinkthe greatest principle is that show respect for the other person's opinions andnever say "you are wrong", which help me a lot when I talk with others.In this book, in general, I appreciate the most is to strive to become ahappy man. To be a master of communication, find a better life and devoteyourself to society with a forgiving heart. All of us need friendship. Only with thehelp of friends and relatives can we deal with problems more efficient andbetter. The book just tells us how to win friends and establish goodrelationships. In a word, all of these principles teach me to build greaterself-confidence, enhance communication skills, and develop leadership skills,which will play an important role in my future. I will put the principle intopractice and make a difference.。
人性的弱点的英语作文
人性的弱点的英语作文Title: The Frailties of Human Nature。
Human nature is a complex interplay of strengths and weaknesses, virtues, and flaws. While we often celebrate our achievements and noble qualities, it's equally important to recognize and understand our vulnerabilities. In this essay, we delve into the intricacies of human frailties, exploring their manifestations, implications, and possible avenues for mitigation.One of the most profound weaknesses inherent in human nature is the propensity for succumbing to temptation. Whether it be the allure of immediate gratification, the temptation to act on impulses, or the seduction of unethical shortcuts, individuals often find themselves ensnared by the tantalizing promises of indulgence. This weakness manifests across various aspects of life, from personal relationships to professional endeavors, and can lead to detrimental consequences such as shattered trust,compromised integrity, and missed opportunities for growth.Furthermore, human beings are susceptible to the sway of emotions, which can cloud judgment and impair rational decision-making. Emotions, while essential for fostering empathy and connection, can also render individuals vulnerable to manipulation and irrational behavior. Whether it be the grip of anger, the grip of fear, or the pull of desire, unchecked emotions can lead individuals astray, fostering conflict, and hindering progress.Another significant frailty ingrained in human natureis the tendency towards complacency and inertia. Despite harboring aspirations for self-improvement and personal growth, many individuals find themselves trapped in cycles of comfort and familiarity, reluctant to venture beyond their established boundaries. This inertia impedes innovation, stifles creativity, and perpetuates stagnation, preventing individuals from realizing their full potential.Moreover, humans are prone to biases and prejudices, often unwittingly influenced by societal norms, culturalconditioning, and personal experiences. These biasesdistort perception, fuel discrimination, and perpetuate social injustices, undermining efforts towards equality and inclusivity. Overcoming these biases requires introspection, empathy, and a willingness to challenge entrenched beliefs, but the journey towards unbiased judgment is fraught with obstacles.Additionally, human nature is marked by asusceptibility to self-deception and cognitive dissonance. Individuals possess a remarkable capacity for rationalization, often bending reality to align with preconceived notions or desired outcomes. This cognitive dissonance shields individuals from confrontinginconvenient truths, perpetuating ignorance, and hindering personal growth. Overcoming this tendency necessitates humility, intellectual honesty, and a commitment to confronting uncomfortable realities.Despite these inherent frailties, human nature also encompasses resilience, compassion, and the capacity for redemption. Through self-awareness, introspection, andconscious effort, individuals can strive to transcend their weaknesses, cultivating virtues such as integrity, empathy, and perseverance. By acknowledging and embracing our vulnerabilities, we pave the way for personal growth, mutual understanding, and collective progress.In conclusion, human nature is characterized by a myriad of strengths and weaknesses, virtues, and flaws. While our frailties may at times impede our journey towards self-actualization and societal advancement, they also serve as catalysts for introspection, growth, and empathy. By confronting and mitigating these weaknesses, individuals can aspire towards a more enlightened and compassionate existence, transcending the limitations of human nature to forge a brighter future for generations to come.。
英语推荐人性的弱点作文
英语推荐人性的弱点作文Title: The Frailties of Human Nature。
Human nature is a fascinating tapestry woven with both strength and weakness. While we often celebrate our triumphs and achievements, it is equally important to acknowledge and understand our vulnerabilities. In this essay, we delve into the intricate fabric of human nature, exploring its flaws and frailties.One of the most prominent weaknesses of human nature is our susceptibility to temptation. Whether it be the allure of wealth, power, or pleasure, humans often find themselves enticed by the promise of instant gratification. This weakness manifests itself in various forms, from succumbing to the temptations of unhealthy habits like overindulgence in food or alcohol, to engaging in morally questionable behavior for personal gain. History is replete with examples of individuals who have fallen prey to their desires, leading to disastrous consequences not only forthemselves but also for those around them.Another prevalent frailty of human nature is our propensity for irrationality. Despite our capacity forlogic and reason, humans are often guided by emotions and biases that cloud our judgment. This irrationality can manifest itself in numerous ways, from making impulsive decisions based on fleeting emotions to clinging stubbornly to beliefs in the face of overwhelming evidence to the contrary. Moreover, our susceptibility to cognitive biases such as confirmation bias and availability heuristicfurther exacerbates our tendency towards irrationality, leading us to make flawed decisions and assessments of the world around us.Furthermore, human nature is characterized by our inherent selfishness. While altruism and compassion may be noble virtues, they often take a backseat to our own self-interests. This selfishness can manifest itself in both subtle and overt ways, from prioritizing our own needs and desires above those of others to engaging in competitive and cutthroat behavior to secure our own advantage. Thisinherent selfishness not only undermines our ability to empathize with others but also fosters a culture of individualism and exploitation that perpetuates social inequalities and injustices.Moreover, human nature is plagued by our fear of the unknown and our resistance to change. Despite our capacity for innovation and adaptation, humans often cling to familiarity and routine, fearing the uncertainty that comes with stepping outside of our comfort zones. This fear of change can manifest itself in various ways, from resisting societal progress and technological advancements to perpetuating outdated customs and traditions that stifle growth and development. This reluctance to embrace change not only hinders our personal growth and fulfillment but also stifles societal progress and innovation.In addition to these weaknesses, human nature is also susceptible to manipulation and deception. Whether it be through the influence of persuasive rhetoric or the dissemination of misinformation, humans are often swayed by external forces that seek to exploit our vulnerabilitiesfor their own gain. This susceptibility to manipulation can have far-reaching consequences, from undermining democratic processes to fueling social unrest and conflict. Moreover, our tendency to trust blindly and our reluctance to question authority further exacerbate our vulnerability to manipulation and deception, leaving us susceptible to exploitation and abuse.Despite these myriad weaknesses, it is essential to recognize that human nature is not inherently flawed. Rather, it is a complex interplay of strengths and weaknesses that shape our thoughts, behaviors, and interactions with the world around us. By acknowledging and understanding our vulnerabilities, we can strive to overcome them and cultivate a more compassionate, rational, and equitable society.In conclusion, human nature is characterized by a multitude of weaknesses that often undermine our best intentions and aspirations. From our susceptibility to temptation and irrationality to our inherent selfishness and fear of change, these frailties shape our thoughts,behaviors, and interactions in profound ways. However, by recognizing and confronting these weaknesses, we can strive to transcend our limitations and cultivate a more enlightened and compassionate society.。
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人性的弱点--英文presentation
• Let the other person feel that the idea is his or hers. • No one likes to feel that he or she is being sold something or told to do a thing. We much prefer to feel that we are buying of our own accord(自愿) or acting on our own ideas. We like to consulted(咨询) about our wishes, our wants, our thoughts.
Principle 4
• If You Have A Lemon, Make A Lemonade • the fool • a lemon • Proceed(开始进行) • rail against the world (埋怨世界) • indulge in an orgy of self-pity.(陷入自怜) • the wise man
Principle 2
Principle 3
• Be yourself • The power which resides in him is new in nature, and none but he knows what that is which he can do, nor does he know until he has tried. • 上天赋予你的能力是独一无二的,当你自 己努力尝试和运用时,才知道这份能力到 底是什么。
• Part 1 - Fundamental Facts You Should Know About Worry • Part 2 - Basic Techniques In Analyzing Worry • Part 3- How To Break The Worry Habit Before It Breaks You • Part 4 - Seven Ways To Cultivate A Mental Attitude That Will Bring You Peace And Happiness • Part 5- The Golden Rule For Conquering Worry • Part 6 - How To Keep From Worrying About Criticism • Part 7 - Six Ways To Prevent Fatigue(疲劳) And Worry And Keep Your Energy And Spirits High
人性的弱点写一篇英语作文
人性的弱点写一篇英语作文Title: Exploring the Weaknesses of Human Nature.Human nature, a complex and multifaceted construct, is often described as a blend of strengths and weaknesses. While we admire the resilience, kindness, and courage that define our species, we must also acknowledge the flaws and vulnerabilities that exist within each of us. These weaknesses, often hidden in the shadows, can influence our decisions, relationships, and overall well-being. In this essay, we delve into some of the most prevalent weaknesses of human nature and discuss their impact on our lives.One of the most显著的weaknesses of human nature is egocentricity. The tendency to prioritize our own interests and desires often leads us to overlook the needs and perspectives of others. This ego-driven behavior can manifest in various forms, such as selfishness, arrogance, and a lack of empathy. The egocentric mindset can cloud our judgment, causing us to make decisions that benefit uspersonally at the cost of others' welfare. In extreme cases, egocentricity can lead to unethical behavior and even harmful consequences for others.Closely related to egocentricity is the weakness of denial. We often prefer to stay in our comfort zones, avoiding uncomfortable truths and painful realities. Denial can manifest in various areas of life, such as ignoring health issues, refusing to accept responsibility for our actions, or denying the existence of problems in our relationships or society. Denial, while temporary, can have long-term consequences, as it prevents us from addressing and resolving the underlying issues.Another weakness of human nature is procrastination.The tendency to postpone tasks or decisions, often due to fear of failure, lack of motivation, or a misguided senseof priority, can lead to missed opportunities, increased stress, and a sense of regret. Procrastination can affect our personal and professional lives, causing us to lag behind in achieving our goals and dreams.Fear is another significant weakness that often holds us back. Whether it's the fear of failure, rejection, or the unknown, fear can prevent us from taking risks, pursuing our passions, and growing as individuals. Fear can manifest in various forms, such as anxiety, panic attacks, and phobias. Left unchecked, fear can limit our potential and prevent us from experiencing the full richness of life.Greed, another weakness of human nature, is the excessive desire for wealth, power, or possessions. Greedy individuals are often willing to牺牲ethics and relationships for personal gain. This unhealthy pursuit can lead to unethical behavior, such as corruption, fraud, and exploitation. Greed, if not checked, can destroy personal and professional relationships, leading to isolation and loneliness.In conclusion, human nature is a complex tapestry of strengths and weaknesses. Understanding and acknowledging our flaws is crucial for personal growth and development. By recognizing our egocentricity, denial, procrastination, fear, and greed, we can take steps to overcome theseweaknesses and become more empathetic, responsible, and fulfilled individuals. Remember, growth and transformation are not always easy, but they are necessary for a richer and more meaningful life.。
人性的弱点英语作文150字
人性的弱点:理解与超越Human nature, intricate and multifaceted, is often fraught with weaknesses that both define us and challenge our growth. Among these weaknesses, pride, greed, and fear stand out as the most prominent, shaping our decisions and limiting our potential. Pride blinds us to our flaws, preventing us from acknowledging and correcting them. Greed drives us to pursue material gains at the cost of others' well-being, fostering a culture of selfishness and competition. Fear, on the other hand, holds us back from pursuing our dreams, paralyzing us with doubts and insecurities.However, it is not the weaknesses themselves that define us, but how we choose to address them. Understanding our weaknesses is the first step towards overcoming them. By acknowledging our flaws, we can begin to work on them, cultivating a more balanced and compassionate perspective. Additionally, learning to regulate our emotions and impulses is crucial in overcoming these weaknesses. By practicing mindfulness and self-reflection, we can gaininsight into our emotional triggers and respond to them in a more rational and empathetic manner.Moreover, fostering a growth mindset is essential in transcending our weaknesses. A growth mindset encourages us to view challenges and failures as opportunities for learning and improvement, rather than as permanent limitations. By embracing a growth mindset, we can turn our weaknesses into strengths, using them as catalysts for personal growth and transformation.In conclusion, human nature is imperfect, yet it is through understanding and addressing our weaknesses that we can achieve true growth and fulfillment. By acknowledging our flaws, regulating our emotions, and fostering a growth mindset, we can overcome our weaknesses and embrace a more balanced and compassionate perspective of ourselves and the world.**人性的弱点:理解与超越**人性复杂多样,往往伴随着定义我们并挑战我们成长的弱点。
人性的弱点梗概600字作文
人性的弱点梗概600字作文英文回答:“The Weakness of Character” by Dale Carnegie explores the inherent flaws and shortcomings that can afflict human nature, offering practical insights into overcoming these weaknesses and fostering personal growth. Carnegieidentifies six primary areas of human weakness:1. The tendency to criticize and blame others for our mistakes.2. The lack of self-discipline and procrastination.3. The fear of failure and inadequacy.4. The temptation to indulge in self-pity.5. The lack of gratitude for what we have.6. The inability to forgive others and ourselves.Through a combination of anecdotes, personal experiences, and psychological principles, Carnegie provides a roadmap for understanding these weaknesses and developing strategies to overcome them.中文回答:人性的弱点。
作者,戴尔·卡耐基。
梗概:戴尔·卡耐基的《人性的弱点》探索了困扰人性的固有缺陷和不足,提供了克服这些弱点和促进个人成长的实用见解。
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《人性的弱点》英文原文精选[教材] 《人性的弱点》英文原文精选(1)--15% VS 85%These investigations revealed that even in such technical lines as engineering, about 15 percent of one's financial success is due to one's technical knowledge and about 85 percent is due to skill in human enineering---to personality and the ability to lead people.(2)--The highest-paid personnel in engineeringThey came to me because they had finally realized, after years of observation and experience, that the highest-paid personnel inengineering are frequently not those who know the most about engineering.(3)--The second interest for adultsThat survey revealed that health is the prime interest of adults and that their second interest is people: how to understand and get alongwith people; how to make people like you; and how to win others to your way of thinking.(4)--Exciting assignmentI gave the talk and urged the listeners to go out and test it intheir business and social contacts, and then come back to class andspeak about their experiences and the results they had achieved(5)--Criticism is futile and dangerousCriticism is futile because it puts a person on the defensive and usually makes him strive to justify himself. Criticism is dangerous,because it wounds a person's precious pride, hurts his sense of importance, and arouses resentment(6)--Criticism engenders resentmentThe resentment that criticism engenders can demoralize employees, family members and friends, and still not correct the situation that has been condemned.(7)--How would Lincoln handle this problem if he had it?The next time we are tempted to admonish somebody, let's pull afive-dollar bill out of our pocket, look at Lincoln's picture on the bill, and ask. "How would Lincoln handle this problem if he had it?"(8)--Creatures of logic VS Creatures of emotionWhen dealing with people, let us remember we are not dealing with creatures of logic. We are dealing with creatures of emotion, creatures bristling with prejudices and motivated by pride and vanity.(9)--Most fools can criticize, condemn and complainAny fool can criticize, condemn and complain---and most fools do.But it takes character and self-control to be understanding and forgiving.(10)--It's not that I did not love you; it was that Iexpected too much of youth.The habit of finding fault, of reprimanding--this was my reward to you for being a boy. It's not that I did not love you; it was that I expected too much of youth. I was measuring you by the yardstick of my years.(11)--To know all is to forgive all.Instead of condemning people, let's try to understand them. Let'stry to figure out why they do what they do. That's a lot more profitable and intriguing than criticism; and it breeds sympathy, tolearance and kindness. "To know all is to forgive all."。
《人性的弱点》英语介绍
Nine Suggestions on How to Get the Most Out of This Book
A deep , driving desire to learn , a vigorous determination to increase your ability to deal with people. When you want to see the next chapter, this chapter carefully to see it twice Stop frequently in your reading to think over what you are reading Read with a crayon , pencil ,pen , magic marker or highlighter in your hand. Remember that the use of these principles can be made habitual only by a constant and vigorous campaign of review and application
Book Description
The book brings together the Carnegie„s thought essence and the most exciting content. This most successful classic book of the author published immediately after received the welcome of the readers, the western world the most enduring bestseller. Millions of readers through reading and practice various of methods in the book, not only out of the woods, some have become outstanding people of the world admire. As long as constantly reading this book, I believe you can also discover their own infinite potential and create a brilliant life.
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contacts smooth and pleasant. • Become a better speaker , a more entertaining
conversationalist. • Arouse enthusiasm among your associates.
Offense of Arousing Resentment Chapter 05 Letters That Produced Miraculous Results Chapter 06 The seven principles of happy family life
Eight Things This Book Will Help You Achieve
Book Description
The book brings together the Carnegie‘s thought essence and the most exciting content. This most successful classic book of the author published immediately after received the welcome of the readers, the western world the most enduring bestseller. Millions of readers through reading and practice various of methods in the book, not only out of the woods, some have become outstanding people of the world admire. As long as constantly reading this book, I believe you can also discover their own infinite potential and create a brilliant life.
Only knowledge that is used sticks in your mind. Offer your spouse , your child or some business
associate a dime or a dollar every time he or she catches you violating a certain principle . Make a lively game out of mastering these rules. Self-examination and review and appraisal You should record your triumphs in the application of these principles .Be specific . Give names ,dates , results.
When you want to see the next chapter, this chapter carefully to see it twice
Stop frequently in your reading to think over what you are reading
Read with a crayon , pencil ,pen , magic marker or highlighter in your hand.
Remember that the use of these principles can be made habitual only by a constant and vigorous campaign of review and application
Nine Suggestions on How to Get the Most Out of This Book
Nine Suggestions on How to Get the Most Out of This Book
A deep , driving desire to learn , a vigorous determination to increase your ability to deal with people.
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Chapter 01 Fundamental Techniques in Handling People Chapter 02 How to Win Friends to You Way of Thinking Chapter 03 Six Ways to Make People Like You Chapter 04 Be a Leader: How to Change People without Giving
人性的弱点
How To Win Friends And Influence People
About the Author
Dale Carnegie (1888-1955) described himself as a “simple country boy” from Missouri but was also a pioneer of the self-improvement genre(类型,流派). Since the 1936 publication of his first book, How to Win Friends and Influence People, he has touched millions of readers and his classic works continue to impact lives to this day.
• Get out of a mental rut, think new thoughts ,acquire new visions , discover new ambitions.
• Make friends quickly and easily • Increase your popularity • Win people to your way of thinking • Increase your influence , your prestige , your ability to