unit13marriage课文翻译综合教程四

U n i t13M a r r i a g e课文翻译综合教程四-CAL-FENGHAI.-(YICAI)-Company One1Unit 13MarriageRobert Lynd1 “Conventional people,” says Mr. Bertrand Russell, “like to pretend thatdifficulties in regard to marriage are a new thing.” I could not help wondering, as I read this sentence, where one can meet these conventional people who think, or pretend to think, as conventional people do. I have known hundreds of conventional people, and I cannot remember one of them who thought the things conventional people seem to think. They were all, for example,convinced that marriage was a state beset with difficulties, and that thesedifficulties were as old, if not as the hills, at least as the day on which Adamlost a rib and gained a wife. A younger generation of conventional people has grown up in recent years, and it may be that they have a rosier conception of marriage than their ancestors; but the conventional people of the Victorianera were under no illusions on the subject. Their cynical attitude to marriage may be gathered from the enthusiastic reception they gave to Punch’s advice to those about to marry －“Don’t.”2 I doubt, indeed, whether the horrors of marriage were ever depicted morecruelly than during the conventional nineteenth century. The comic papersand music-halls made the m iseries a standing dish. “You can always tellwhether a man’s married or single from the way he’s dressed,” said thecomedian. “Look at the single man: no buttons on his shirt. Look at themarried man: no shirt.” The humour was crude; but it went home to t hehonest Victorian heart. If marriage were to be judged by the songsconventional people used to sing about it in the music-halls, it would seem a hell mainly populated by twins and leech-like mothers-in-law. The rareexperiences of Darby and Joan were, it is true, occasionally hymned, reducing strong men smelling strongly of alcohol to reverent silence; but, on the whole, the audience felt more normal when a comedian came out with an anti-marital refrain such as:O why did I leave my little back roomIn Bloomsbury,Where I could live on a pound a weekIn luxury(I forget the next line).But since I have married Maria,I’ve jumped out of the frying-panInto the blooming fire.3 No difficulties Why, the very nigger-minstrels of my boyhood used to open theirperformance with a chorus which began:Married! Married! O pity those who’re married.Those who go and take a wife must be very green.4 It is possible that the comedians exaggerated, and that Victorian wives werenot all viragos with pokers, who beat their tipsy husbands for staying out toolate. But at least they and their audiences refrained from painting marriage as an inevitable Paradise. Even the clergy would go no farther than to say thatmarriages were made in Heaven. That they did not believe that marriagenecessarily ended there is shown by the fact that one of them wrote a “best-seller” bearing the title How to Be Happy Though Married.5 I doubt, indeed, whether common opinion in any age has ever looked onmarriage as an untroubled Paradise. I consulted a dictionary of quotations on the subject and discovered that few of the opinions quoted were rose-coloured. These opinions, it may be objected, are the opinions ofunconventional people, but it is also true that they are opinions treasured and kept alive by conventional people. We have the reputed saying of thehenpecked Socrates, for example, when asked whether it was better to marry or not: “Whichever you do, you will repent.” We have Montaigne writing: “Ithappens as one sees in cages. The birds outside despair of ever getting in;those inside are equally desirous of getting out.” Bacon is no more prenuptial with his caustic quotation: “He was reputed one of the wise men that madeanswer to the question when a man s hould marry: ‘A young man not yet; anelder man not at all.’” Burton is far from encouraging! “One was never married, and that’s his hell; another is, and that’s his plague.” Pepys scribbled in hisdiary: “Strange to say what delight we married people have to see these poor folk decoyed into our condition.”6 The pious Jeremy Taylor was as keenly aware that marriage is not all bliss.“Marriage,” he declared, “hath in it less of beauty and more of safety than the single life － it hath more care but less danger; it is more merry and more sad;it is fuller of sorrows and fuller of joys.” The sentimental and optimistic Steelecan do no better than: “The marriage state, with and without the affectionsuitable to it, is the completest image of Heaven and Hell we are capable ofreceiving in this life.”7 Rousseau denied that a perfect marriage had ever been known. “I have oftenthought,” he wrote, “that if only one could prolong the joy of love in marriage we should have paradise on earth. That is a thing which has never beenhitherto.” Dr. Johnson is not quoted in the dictionary; but everyone willremember how, devoted husband though he was, he denied that the state of marriage was natural to man. “Sir,” he declared, “it is so far from being natural for a man and woman to live in a state of marriage that we find all the motives which they have for remaining in that connexion and the restraints whichcivilised society imposes to prevent separation are hardly sufficient to keepthem together.＂8 When one reads the things that have been said about marriage from onegeneration to another, one cannot but be amazed at the courage with which the young go on marrying. Almost everybody, conventional andunconventional, seems to have painted the troubles of marriage in the darkest colours. So pessimistic were the conventional novelists of the nineteenthcentury about marriage that they seldom dared to prolong their storiesbeyond the wedding bells. Married people in plays and novels are seldomenviable, and, as time goes on, they seem to get more and more miserable.Even conventional people nowadays enjoy the story of a thoroughly unhappy marriage. It is only fair to say, however, that in modern times we like toimagine that nearly everybody, single as well as married, is unhappy. As social reformers we are all for happiness, but as thinkers and aesthetes we are onthe side of misery.9 The truth is that we are a difficulty-conscious generation. Whether or not wemake life even more difficult than it would otherwise be by constantly talking about our difficulties I do not know. I sometimes suspect that half ourdifficulties are imaginary and that if we kept quiet about them they woulddisappear. Is it quite certain that the ostrich by burying his head in the sandnever escapes his pursuers I look forward to the day when a great naturalistwill discover that it is to this practice that the ostrich owes his survival.婚姻罗伯特·林德1 伯特兰·罗素先生说：“凡人百姓喜欢假装说婚姻中遇到的困难是新鲜事。