中美家庭文化差异

The family is a enlightenment education place for children, an d has a very important role in the future good habit and intelli gence development for children.

There are two big different aspects. One aspect, two different relations with family members. In Chinese families, one side , children in parents eyes is always not growing up, the parents can teach children continue to they grow up many years. Par ents always means authority. So there is a kind of interperson al inequality relationship in the family. Other side , many pare nts always meet children’s any need, are too preferential trear ment in their life and economic. This can make another kind o f inequality. However, In American families, Parents pay more attention to get along with of freedom and equality of their chil dren. And they respect their children since the childhood. They treat children as an independent individual, and give them re spect and understanding.

Another aspect, two different parenting view. In Chinese familie s, Parents often focus on whether children have ambition, whe ther can they find a good jobs. So many parents think, they r esponsibility is to let their children live better, and give them much happiness. By contrast, American families educational vi ew have very different. Their starting point is to cultivate childr

en to adapt to various environmental and independent ability t o survive. They generally believe that a child's growth must re ly on his own strength.

In my opinion, these differences lead to the adult children in s urvival ability to adapt to the obvious gap in the two countries. The correct understanding from foreign advanced education m ethods, to promote the healthy growth of children and improve the quality of the future talent has very important practical sig nificance.