全新版大学进阶英语视听说教程第3册--Unit 5 文本

Unit 5 Friendship

Part II LISTENING AND SPEAKING

Lesson A Your Social Network

Listening

SCRIPT

Track 5-1

1: According to two different studies, the average person has 229 friends on a social networking site like Facebook. For teenagers, the number is higher; it's between 300 and 425.

2: Well, like most people, teenagers are friends with classmates, family members, and close friends.

3: Actually, yes. Many teens in the U.S. and the UK say they often accept online friend requests from acquaintances and sometimes even strangers. In fact, according to one recent study, many teens don’t know and will probably never meet twenty-five percent of their online friends.

4: A number of teenagers say they like connecting with friends on Facebook. But some teens also say they feel pressure to join because it's the main way friends connect. If you're not on Facebook, or a similar site, you won't know what your friends are doing.

1.Facebook：美国著名的社交网络服务网站，也是世界排名领先的照片分享站点，

主要创始人为马克·扎克伯格。

Conversation

Track 5–2

A: This is my friend Ajay.

B: How do you know him?

A: He was a classmate of mine in high school.

B: Are you close?

A: Not anymore, but we keep in touch on Facebook.

Lesson B

Listening 1

Exercise 1

SCRIPT

Track 5–3

We all know that having friends is important, but why do we form friendships with some people and not others? In some ways, the answer is simple: you become friends with someone

because you have things in common. Maybe you both like the same soccer team. Or perhaps you both love to play video games. Or maybe your person alities are similar: you’re a bit shy and the other person is, too.

But two American scientists, Dr. Peter DeScioli and Robert Kurzban, found that we form friendships with certain people for another reason: because these relationships protect us in some way. Their research also showed that we rank our friends on how likely they are to “have our back”—that is, to support us when there is trouble. The more likely a person is to help you, the closer a friend he or she is. For this reason, it’s possible to be f riends with someone who is different from you. You get along because the person can help you in some way, the researchers say, and that’s even more important than your differences.

Questions:

1. What do Peter DeScioli and Robert Kurzban believe?

2. How do we rank our friends?

Exercise 2

SCRIPT

Track 5–4

We all know that having friends is important, but why do we form friendships with some people and not others? In some ways, the answer is simple: you become friends with someone because you have things in common. Maybe you both like the same soccer team. Or perhaps you both love to play video games. Or maybe your personalities are similar: you’re a bit shy and the other person is, too.

But two American scientists, Dr. Peter DeScioli and Robert Kurzban, found that we form friendships with certain people for another reason: because these relationships protect us in some way. Their research also showed that we rank our friends on how likely they are to “have our back”—that is, to support us when there is trouble. The more likely a person is to help you, the closer a friend he or she is. For this reason, it’s possible to be friends with someone who is different from you. You get along because the person can help you in some way, the researchers say, and that’s ev en more important than your differences.

Listening 2

SCRIPT

Track 5-5

Psychologist Tom Rath has studied and written a lot about friendship over the years. In one of his recent books, Vital Friends: The People You Can’t Afford to Live Without, Rath explains that not only is it important to have friends, but that our friends play very different roles in our lives.

In the book, Rath uses different words to describe eight types of friends. Let’s talk about four of these. Rath calls one kind of friend “the companion.” This is the person you might call your best friend. You tell this person everything—both the good news and the bad—and he or she has your back no matter what. Even if this person doesn’t live near you, you have a very strong, very close connection and probably always will.

Another type of friend, says Rath, is “the collaborator.” You have a lot in common with this