love_and_marriage口语课件

Three questions abowenku.baidu.comt marriage:
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What do you think the romantic and realistic?
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What's your view about marriage?
What do you think marriage stand for ?
What do you think the romantic and realistic?
Young people tend to think that real life as dramatic（激动人心） and fascinating（迷人的） as it is in the novels and movies, while more experienced adults disregard this opinion. Adults think this kind of naive（天真的） daydream will only be destroyed by later experiences and every one should learn to get used to tedious（适应） everyday life.
The counterclaim(the Opposition): College love affair will do more harm than good.
Debating: College students falling in love
Arguments:
• • • • • Financial burden; Interfere with the study(time-consuming); Immature thoughts; Uncertrain future; Practical problems(jobs,location,family)
2. Love is marriage’s mother, but there are always some poor orphans（单亲 ）. People marry for different reasons and not only for love. Maybe they marry for money, for promotion, for repayment, for parents’ or some others’ orders, and even just for sex.
Some useful expressions
• • • • • • • • • • • in my opinion...我的意见是.... I'd like to point out that我想指出的是.... Personally think......我个人认为...... the point is that....关键是....,要点是..... in my experience....根据我的经验.... but what about....?但关于.....方面呢? what mean to say was......我的意思是说.... that's a good point.这个看法不错 I'm afraid I disagree.恐怕我是持反对意见的 on the contrary.相反的 let me rephrase what I said.让我重申刚才所说的
Love and Marriage
爱情可以排除万难，排除之后，又 有万难。 —— 张小娴
“Men always want to be a woman’s first love --- women like to be a man’s last romance.” ——Oscar Wilde
What is the love? Different people in different times have different definitions to love. Nowadays, people defined it as :based on certain material conditions and the common ideal of life, two people in their heart form the most sincere admiration for each other, and eager to become his\her lifelong partner .It is the strongest, most stable and specific feelings.
The relationship between love and marriage
•Some think marriage is the tomb of love. •The others think love is a prelude to marriage, marriage is the ultimate goal of love •I think love is the final goal that marriage, if your love is not to marry, it's not represent that your love finally results well, I think most of people are married with the intention of it, so I think that love is the process, of course, the purpose of marriage is another new starting point.
What's your view about marriage?
Many couples live a happy life because their marriage is based on true love .On the contrary, some people marry for money only, and their marriage is destined to be a failure. Marriage based on true love lasts and cannot be easily split up whereas marriage without love does not endure(持续） and may end in divorce.
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The chart of love development
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essence of marriage
• Love each other( 相爱) This is the most important in a marriage. And it should include loyalty、responsibility and understanding. • Live together (共同生活） This is the purpose of marriage. It includes the combination of the spirit ,the body and the household. • Have baby（延续自己的生命） Having children is a natural development of marriage , and to reject it may lead to cracks to marriage.
当你们有分歧 时,你不能把自 己的意志强加 于他＼她,而应 尊重他＼她的 观点,尊重他＼ 她的选择.
“E”－ Excuse（宽容）
There is no perfect man in this world ，and no one will never make mistakes, forgiving his\her shortcomings and mistakes, which can make love more longer.
What do you think marriage stand for ?
1. Marriage stands for some responsibilities. If you get married with somebody, you should be honest to him or her, and not do anything that is not faithful to your love.
• Friend Often travels from • like hidden love struggle time long • • Vindicate failure give up • • Success insist failure end • • Dating not harmonious • • Harmonious be boring predisposed toward
用心是爱情的 桥梁，通过它 能到达彼此心 灵的深处。用 心去理解爱情， 才会让爱情更 加的牢固.
“V”－ Valued（尊重）
When you have dispute in something ,you can not impose your own will on him＼her.You should respect his＼her opinion or choice.
世界上没有完美 的人，也没有人 永远不会犯错， 原谅他她的缺点 和错误，可以让 爱情更持久.
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What’s your choice: the one you love or the one loves you?
I know it is difficult to choose. Everyone has his own idea about the choice. But I hope everyone can find a man he or she loves, and the man also loves him or her.
Wedding Vows
• I ,take you , to be my wedded wife(husband).To have and to hold,from this day forward, for better, for worse,for richer, for poorer, in sickness or on health,to love and to cherish, till death do us apart. And hereto I pledge you my faithfulness.
How do you think about it? Can you describe it briefly?
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“O”－Observant（用心）
It is the bridge of love, which can lead one to the depths of the soul of another. To understand love by your heart, it can make love more solid.
I.The essence of love
“L”－Loyal（忠诚）
Be loyal to your lover, which is essential for the true love. Without loyalty，love would not exist.
忠于你的另一半， 这是真正的爱情 必不可少的，没 有忠诚也不会有 爱情.