大学英语口语教学： love and marriage

Campus Love
Debate: Campus Love
The counterclaim (the Opposition): College love affair will do more harm than good.
Some useful expressions
• • • • • • • • • • in my opinion... I'd like to point out that... Personally think... the point is that... in my experience... what mean to say was... that's a good point. I'm afraid I disagree. on the contrary. let me rephrase what I said.让我重申刚才所说的
II. The
essence of marriage
• Love each other • This is the most important in a marriage. And it should include loyalty、responsibility and understanding. • Live together This is the purpose of marriage. It includes the combination of the spirit ,the body and the household. • Have baby Having children is a natural development of marriage , and to reject it may lead to cracks to marriage.
世界上没有完美 的人，也没有人 永远不会犯错， 原谅他她的缺点 和错误，可以让 爱情更持久.
What’s your choice: the one来自百度文库you love or the one loves you?
I know it is difficult to choose. Everyone has his own idea about the choice. But I hope everyone can find a person he or she loves, and the one also loves him or her.
Love and Marriage
What is love?
Different people in different times have different definitions.
The essence of love
“L”－Loyal（忠诚）
Be loyal to your lover, which is essential for the true love. Without loyalty，love would not exist.
Group Discussion
1. Do you agree with the saying that “Marriage is the tomb of love”? Why or why not? 2. If your parents are strongly opposed to your marriage with somebody, what will you do? 3. Do you think similar family backgrounds are important for marriage? Why or why not? 4. Why do people get married?
忠于你的另一半， 这是真正的爱情 必不可少的，没 有忠诚也不会有 爱情.
“O”－Observant（用心）
It is the bridge of love, which can lead one to the depths of the soul of another. To understand love by your heart, it can make love more solid.
What are your major considerations when you choose your BF or GF? And why?
• • • •
Appearance Height Personality Occupation
• Family
• Education
• Other factors…
Do you think dating at an early age (puppy love) will affect students' schoolwork?
What's your parents' attitude toward your friends of the opposite sex?
All shall be well, and
Jack shall have Jill.
用心是爱情的 桥梁，通过它 能到达彼此心 灵的深处。用 心去理解爱情， 才会让爱情更 加的牢固.
“V”－ Valued（尊重）
When you have dispute in something, you can not impose your own will on him/her. You should respect his/her opinion or choice.
当你们有分歧 时,你不能把自 己的意志强加 于他＼她,而应 尊重他＼她的 观点,尊重他＼ 她的选择.
“E”－ Excuse（宽容）
There is no perfect man in this world ，and no one will never make mistakes, forgiving his/her shortcomings and mistakes, which can make love more longer.